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MissTreat4u
The fact that I approach D/s with a light-hearted attitude doesn't mean I am not serious about what it takes to be in the lifestyle.  It does mean that both parties need to fulfill the needs of their partners.

BDSM is like a dance where one partner leads.

I know there are those who roll their eyes at the term "switch."  How can a switch be a "true" this or that.  A switch is true to themselves, at least this one is.  I love to take a submissive to that place where she needs to go.  There are occasions when I will also submit to a strong Domme.  Being a switch doesn't mean you turn around and say, "Your turn."

The bottom line is, lets talk and see if there is a fit.  I'm willing to work with one who has little experience or one who has a lot.

If we start up a conversation, I insist that communications be prompt.  I also insist on meeting within a short period of time (several weeks).  Anyone who is not willing to meet in public to talk is not serious.  Meeting in public can be safe if proper steps are followed.

Those steps are:

1. ask for references
2. arrange for a safecall
3. arrive early and ask the person you meet to leave first
4.  be sure the place is public and others are around
5.  bring a friend if possible

I enjoy meeting and talking with others with no further expectations unless we are both comfortable.


4/22/2008 5:50:50 AM
You get the good and the bad on CM, just like anywhere else in life.  Sure, I have had my share of flakes and fakes but the internet is a fantasy world for many.

What surprised me is the number of journals with rants like, "Aren't there any real people here on CM?"  Sure makes me want to introduce myself and let her decide if I am a "real people."

Let's be nice folks.  This is to enhance our lives and add some fun and spice.
11/20/2007 2:25:53 PM
I was talking with a lady in Chicago who seemed quite interested in meeting. We exchanged pictures and she politely declined. Time for me to come clean. Yes, I do have a mustache! She said she absolutely can not accept a mustache on a guy.

Should I ridicule her as being shallow? No, we all have our preferences. I did enjoy talking with her.            






"Normal is only a cycle on a washing machine."
8/29/2007 1:59:06 PM
Had the pleasure of delivering a birthday spanking this week to a wonderful lady.   No, I didn't just count 'em out, it was a long and slow process.

Yes, I finished with one to grow on!
5/30/2006 1:26:34 PM
Met a nice lady who has a wonderful ability to forget outside influences and float in subspace.  This is truly a gift she has and feel privileged to help her enter this world.

Thank you for sharing this with me.
4/12/2006 12:16:28 PM
First session with a new sub yesterday.  It was great.  Her first time.  Indications were that she enjoyed herself.  We will meet again soon.

If you are reading this, thanks for your submission and indulging me my in a wonderful time.
1/10/2006 7:22:26 AM
Continue to meet wonderful Women.  The trust of sharing fantasies with me is the first step.  Next step can be just exchanging Emails or meeting for a chat.

Have met one for sessions that have been quite rewarding.   Thanks for your trust and look forward to next time (wink).  Imagination is the only limit (besides hard limits of course).

The down side are those who don't reply.  This lack of manners is in-excusable.  A polite no is appreciated more than silence.


10/11/2005 9:46:52 AM
This has proven to be a great site.  Have met several wonderful Women and met one in person.  We have not determined when we will meet for play if at all but enjoy each other's company.

Anyone who is hanging back from contacting me, remember the Nike "Go for it" attitude.  Nothing lost by exchanging a few Emails.