There was a time when I considered myself a sub, I had an experience at an early age that led me to believe this was true. Then after a few failed relationships I was told that I am dominant. Honestly what I am is confused which is really a shame to think that I have been around for over 50 years and still can't find what I'm looking for. And it is actually really simple, I would like a woman in my life that I can love as much as I love my guitar
and believe me when I say I truely love my guitar!

So I have decided that I'm a switch, confusion gone, ok not really but at least I'm exploring the possibilities. I have met a few people here and have really enjoyed talking with them.

I have read lots of profiles and one thing seems to stand out and that is that most seem to have the same dilemma that I do, an idea of what we want based on the past (our mistakes, you know those things that are supposed to teach us) without a willingness to move into the future. Limitations such as hieght, wieght, age, habits (ie; smoking)

I feel a strong need to move past these limitations and seek out that person that is willing to share and grow into something meaningful, is that somehow possible?

agree? disagree? I'd love to talk about it
I'd love to find it