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About Shannyn
submission - yielding, or readiness to yield: a willingness to yield or surrender to somebody, or the act of doing so.
By this definition I am submissive as this is what I tend to do in my personal life. To what degree I do this depends on how much I want to try and please the person I am with - I am not submissive with everyone.
I enjoy being bound and somewhat with spanking and flogging though have only just begun to experment with this and not much into apin, so only at the basics as yet. I am still learning what of what I am curious about is something that is an actual desire versus fantasy.
No drugs, animals, body fluids, children, or public humiliation -these are hard limits
I am not interested in being trained as a slave
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It is interesting that many people complain about people not being real or what they say they are. Yes there are many scammers out there in all areas of our lives, but is it possible that some of what we think as fake are people who just are not the correct fit for us? |
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Life is intersting in how it comes around in a full circle. I will be checking in here periodicaly, but still not up for much interaction. Find that via internet is almost as stressfull for me as face to face in dealing with new people. If I do not respond to you, please do not be offended. |
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I would like to appologize to anyone who has been looking for me. I have found that Collarme is a bit more then I am ready for, I do not deal well with people in social situations and have to do it in small amounts. Good luck everyone in you future searches. |
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I consider honesty to be the foundation of trust, therefore I will not lie to you and expect the same back, because to lie is to break trust. I may sometimes have trouble voiceing what is on my mind but will try to be open about what is going on in my head once trust has been established. |
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The reason I do not find online as intense as in person, is because I get nervous when dealing with people face to face in regards to personal matters without having another acting as a buffer for me, if I do not know the people I am dealing with well. |
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Trust is an integral part in all realationships, if there is not trust it is but paying lip service, There is no true depth. Without trust there is nothing. |
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It has been pointed out to me that some do choose to be killed. Like people who become suicide bombers. I had not thought about that as being killed as I saw it as suicide..but have known people who choose to have others kill them as their method of suicide.
So yes, some people do choose death by being killed by others. |
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read an interesting post about choice. I have always been told that - You always have a choice, nobody can force you to do something..you can choose to let them. There are not always good things to choose between, but there is a choice.
Granted nobody chooses to get assaulted or killed. |
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After thinking about it, I have realized that I was wrong about saying that, experianceing being submissive via online chat being fantasizng with another person. It is a learning process of giving up control. So it is real, just not necessaraly as intenss an encounter. |
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What makes me think that I may be a sub...hmm...In my soul searching on the subject, I came up with, the fact that I am most comfortable when someone else is making almost all the decisions, with input from me on only the most important subjects. And during my thinking about this subject came up with things, like as a teen requested my parents to just arrange a marrage for me with whoever they thought fit...of course they said no. Also the fact that the sex I enjoyed the most was close to what on could expect as a sub. The maybe something else...is because sometimes we lie to ourselves about things to make were we are at/or were we think we want to be at seem like the best choice. |
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After some thought, I will have to say...If you are not interested in training me like you would a new pet, slow and easy...you probably do not want to bother with me...I am a bit skittish. |
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I am leaning towards that it is real, but intill I take it past the virtual realm (wich as far as I am concerned is still fantasizing, just with the help of real people), can not say 100%. It is easy to say I am this or that, but till you live it, can you really tell? Through conversation with others and introspection about myself..trying to be as honest about me to me as possible, I know that I have a lot of traits of a submissive, but to what level that goes, I am still exploring. So, I would say I am a submissive, but weather I am a slave and a slut as well has yet to be determined. |
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Life is a journey with many paths to choose from. Knowing wich path is the correct one for you is not always easy, but for the most part we find the way to were we are ment to be.
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