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Okay, so I'm never going to put a clear picture up. But I may - may - put an obscured face picture up. And I'll be happy to send one to an interested party. But I'm already submissive - do you really think I want everyone to know about that? Of course not. I certainly respect those who have put their photos up.

So, that's out of the way. What exactly am I doing here? Well, I'm submissive. And I've had most of my experience with pro-dommes. While I've had a number of great and intense experiences by going that route (and I highly recommend it to anyone looking to explore BDSM), I am interested in moving beyond that. I don't know to what extent because my experience in any sort of non-pro situation is obviously limited.

But I can tell you what kind of submissive I am. I am someone who is only interested in making their Domme/Mistress happy. That may sound too good to be true to the many mistresses who (I'm certain) have heard it all at this point. And yes, I do have my limits. But I take pleasure in tasks and activities that give someone else pleasure.

That isn't to say I don't have my own interests, and I will be happy to discuss things like my love of bondage. But I will only request things or express a preference if you ask me to.

I'm looking for someone to explore, someone who will be patient. They can certainly expect the same patience with me. I am single, and if this turned into a relationship, I would be okay with that. I have never had BDSM integrated into a relationship, and I often wonder how it would manifest itself. But I'm open-minded and willing to try.

Obviously, it is not merely about finding a dominant woman. Like any relationship, chemistry plays a huge role. And that can only be despite what eHarmony ads tell you). Ideally, I'd find someone really smart, someone who understands the mental aspects of BDSM in addition to the more familiar physical aspects.

I know this is a shot in the dark, but if anyone wants to see where things might go, please let me know. I'm a moderately liberal, open-minded and laid back guy. Not a party animal, but not a wall flower, either. By most respects, I'm a guy's guy - I like watching sports, fishing, traveling, porn (guys who say they don't are lying). But I'm definitely submissive. I've known for years and years, even if I didn't really understand it.

Let me know what you think.
Lyfewrecker
 
 Age: 38
  Indiana