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I'm just your every day girl. I drink beer, I go fishing, I work my ass off. I love my kids.

That being said, I'm not your every day submissive. I am dominant in my career. I have to be. It leaves me no other option.

I am looking for a Dominant who is willing to train me, as I have been out of the lifestyle for quite awhile. I can be bratty, I know, and I don't like that about me. I have no problem pushing my soft limits or exploring things I have yet to explore. That being said...

I am, in no way, into:

  • Anything involving bathroom play; no urine, no feces, no diapers, no forced desperation.
  • Anything involving any type of animal. (Pet play I am willing to explore)
  • I do not perform acts that involve blood.
I strongly dislike forceful facefucking (I.E. I don't want to gag/throw up on your cock), face slapping and face spitting.

Now that those are out of the way; I am a tall woman, and prefer the same in my men. I am looking for someone under 45 preferably. These are just preferences for me, they aren't must haves. I'm a hell of a time, and I'm hard to handle, so if you think you can handle me; I'd love to hear from you. (:

Disclaimer: I am legally married. I am in the process of divorce, but he does still live in my home. At this point his is essentially a live in nanny saving me the extreme cost of childcare.
Disclaimer2: I won't play the first time we meet. Don't ask me to.

3/28/2014 4:42:31 PM

So... Tell me...

If you met a girl in a restaurant, or out on the streets... would you tell her that you want her bound and gagged and on her knees?  I'll say it again.  Submission is not taken, it is given.  It is a gift.  Earn it, be deserving of it.

3/22/2014 6:19:13 PM

Discovering the DD/lg dynamic.  Realizing that all my life, it would seem, that I've been a closet lg...  Really liking this idea.

mistresssandra10
 
 Age: 39
 Orange County, New York