If you believe that submission is a gift, you're not a true submissive. Most likely you're a "Vanilla Kinkster" looking to spice up your dull boring sex-life.
PS: Don't let the photo fool you, It was a long winter, and I clean up real nice.
Various estimates and surveys have placed the ratio of true
(i.e., natural) male sexual Dominants to female sexual submissives at about one
to ten. However, a quick count in any given D/s oriented chat room would lead
you to believe that male Doms outnumber the subs at about two to one. Now if
there is actually only one male Dom for every ten female subs, that means that
18 out of the 20 "Doms" you see online HAVE TO BE FAKES. Keep this in
mind. There is a 95% chance that any man you talk to online claiming to be a
Dom is no such thing. This leads us to our first rule, a rule that all
statisticians and scientists already know by heart: "When in doubt, throw
it out!"? Your search for a suitable Dominant partner (especially if
you are seeking a serious long term relationship as well) could easily take
years. That's hardly surprising, most people spend years looking for that
special lover, be they ?vanilla? or otherwise. So don't be disheartened by all
these drastic ratios. BUT DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME either. If any of the prospects
you are chatting with online makes you feel uncomfortable for any reason, drop
him. Don?t give him ?three strikes? or ?extra chances to win.? Block out his
screen-name and move on. There was only a one in twenty chance he was
legitimate anyway. Trust your instincts.
