Shalynn

I don't understand how it is that 90% of Doms on here from Fit, athletic Doms to large, sloppy Doms demand a barbie doll who fit their cookie cutter image of a sub.

Now, while I do understand there must be some physical attraction, I truly believed that a D/s relationship was based on just that...the experience of the Dominant and the submission of their chosen one.

When did it become about having a trophy to show off and no longer about a submissive devoting herself to serving you?

Why is it that the majority of submissive people will choose their Dom on their experience and not their looks?

I have read in more profiles than I care to admit "Where are all the REAL subs, subs who actually want to serve?"

Well if you wouldn't set the bar so god damned high maybe you would find your "one".

While I am not actively looking, I have gotten enough emails and chatted with enough people to know that people really are setting their standards extremely high and then complaining when no one measures up.

cm.com has turned into a place for people to come and post their highest expectation rather than a bottom line that they will consider....then they piss and moan about it at the end of the day.