SeductionJunkie

Hi there. I'm a believer in the idea that you get out of a search what you put into it, and since I'm searching (like everyone) for certain things out of life, I think it's a good idea to just flat out ask for them sometimes..

I am: a caucasian male, 5'11" , into alternative music and culture. I love sex, and I'm quite experienced; I adore oral sex, anal sex, some bdsm, domination/submission, pretty much anything sexual/sensual, though there are a few boundaries I won't cross, and personal hygiene is REALLY important to me *especially in oral sex, I do not like genital/body hair*. I'm not hung, I'm only about average in size (if that) but I'm creative, passionate, and spontaneous, and I more than make up for any lack in size. I like to think I'm at least reasonably intelligent, I enjoy reading as well as watching movies, I can debate a wide variety of topics as I know at least a little bit about a lot of things, and I have a great sense of humour. I'm kind, respectful, sensitive to the needs of others, loyal to my friends, and try to treat everyone with the same respect I'd want to be shown.

I'm looking for: man/woman or woman/woman couples, transexuals *they'd have to be very passable*, single women, or women in open relationships who don't have a jealous spouse/boyfriend/significant other, for fun and strictly casual sexual enjoyment. I have a fantastic girlfriend whom I love dearly, and I want to avoid anything emotional (other than a solid friendship), but she doesn't share some of the same sexual desires that I do (such as playing with couples or others) and doesn't mind me pursuing my interests. I want to find like-minded people who are also respectful, can have a discreet arrangement, and will not push any boundaries I have or make me feel uncomfortable in any way. I am not opposed to playing with a man sexually, but I have never done so and so it would be a new experience for me. And to be honest, I'm very picky about men, I find VERY few to be attractive sexually. I don't get turned on by the thought of fucking a man, though I DO get turned on by the thought of being fucked by a man/transexual (though I'd likely only do it if there was a woman involved as well, more fun and less awkward for me that way). I'd love to find playmates that would suit my desires and vice versa, though I'm certainly not limiting myself to one.

I definitely prefer meeting people in a casual environment and taking things as they develop, such as meeting for coffee or going to the Wetspot. I value honesty, passion, creativitiy, and intelligence, and look for that in potential friends/lovers. Something you should know beforehand is that I have hpv, and while I take precautions as much as possible, the possibility of a health risk is there. I play as safely as possible (without being a 'germophobe'), and I would expect you to do the same.

I can be picky, and I find myself attracted to people who are physically fit, who show that they take some care in their appearance, and who show respect for others. A sense of humour is a must, as is being easy going and casual. Good hygiene is also a must. I enjoy the company of people who aren't arrogant, don't complain about everything, and who have a conscience.

I enjoy a lot of different things sexually, but my favorites are domination/submission, and oral sex(both giving and receiving, but I'm quite skilled at giving and love doing so as long as my partner has good hygiene). Pretty much everything "vanilla" I also love, but I find that with the right attitude nothing is really 'vanilla'. I can be VERY turned on by sound, and my neck and shoulders/back are extremely sensitive to touch.