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Reducing profile at the moment, realized it was a long time ago.
At the moment, contact me to know about me. I am also on fetlife under BigpapaFrank.
I am a Daddy/Primal.... I will guide you, but also can easily unleash myself upon you, and it is a wonderful thing. I am animalistic, and enjoy it at times. I enjoy physical touches and contact, it pleases me.

4/10/2013 6:09:43 PM

Need a Massage, began working out again after 18 months. Holy hell...

4/3/2012 11:13:21 PM

I feel like I been kicked in the chest yesterday. Nothing good for the past 5 years has come from April 3rd for me. Least it is over now....

10/7/2011 7:10:40 AM

Months go by but things tend to stay the same, this month Dom Con is one again at my hotel... fun fun

11/10/2009 3:19:16 PM
Seriously the hell... Why is it so damn hard, to find a none lying, only quasi crazy subbie girl to fill the wants and needs set before her. And these aren't that hard of a list. LOL

10/25/2009 4:46:08 PM
Wow, got to love lairs. Give them chances to prove themselves, but they fail horribly with badly placed lies, but still won't confess. Like their lies will help them remain safe in whatever world is going on in their heads.
9/11/2009 9:08:51 AM
IT is that time of year almost, Domcon will soon once again be hosted at my hotel. To those attending if you see me, and we talked on this site or others feel free to come introduce yourself and give me a hug. Even if I am behind the desk, that is ok, just know I still might grope you.... just saying. I have wandering hand syndrome. LOL
4/25/2009 1:41:50 PM
happy birthday to me!

So on Wednesday it is my bday, but since most people I know are off today, then i shall celebrate today! Woot... yeah...
4/14/2009 10:45:16 AM

Ok, because sometimes I realize there are problems with things I say because goddess and consort know, that as infallable as I am most of the time.... sometimes I do fail. Does anyone have any issue with the word chica?

I ask this because I recently shoot someone an off comment on this site, complimenting a picture, but asking what other things she has tried in lifestyle, and I used the term chica... I got a response that I was an sshole for using that word... So my confusion abounds...   I asked her the hell was her problem, in a ncie way.  No seriously I didn't say what the hell was your problem, but I did inquire as to why she flipped out at the usage of that term because honestly It has never happened.  My resposne is a short sighted fake small dick dom... so now I am truly concerned and wondering if I have accidentally insulting, byt the use of my term... Sooo

I bring the question to you! Chica does the word make you feel insulted, and a growing need to cut someone's dick off or are some people just nuts??

1/25/2009 5:12:41 PM
so, yeah.. I still like to contact people on this site, but I find myself updating journal entries on my profile because more people seem to contact me based on them... so I will now share with whoever takes the time to read this my user name.

Behold and be happy!

BigpapaFrank

Also for you book readers, my first novel is in full print format please contact me if interested.
10/23/2008 11:01:38 AM
Women are crazy!

Please check out my book

http://www. cacoethespublishing. net/?q=node/160&book=117

10/19/2008 8:53:57 PM
First  a question to all mother's out there. I am the uncle to a brand new baby as of last month real cute, and a hell of a set of lungs. I have latched onto the term as the kid as my term fo endearment it feels good to me when I say it. My sister flips out taking offense to it, is this a normal reaction? I personally believe she needs to relax and as long as I am not saying it to be mean or hurtful should relax.

Am I missing something?

Part two, Refer to previous journal, because yes I am truly still exicited about my book preorder. If you want to see the cover or ask questions please let me know.
10/15/2008 3:37:14 AM
EDITED! It has come to my attention I wrote I was not an author... yeah I fail sometimes. But it has now been corrected!

It is OFFICIAL. I am now an author my book has begun its presales! This is my first book ever in print, and I am beyond exicited. Feel free to examine the link, and I do encourage people to buy it!  It is a historical romance, and YES the smut scenes are kinky... it had to be! And no the book isn't only about sex, but it is there! LOL Enjoy!

http://www.cacoethespublishing.net/?q=node/160&book=117
10/10/2008 4:59:36 AM
Wow, I deal with a lot of people over the course of the work at a hotel. I have seen all sorts and types, but never had anyone ever be snide and actually insult me knowing I can't fire back and look smug about it. Like they won some form of grandprize.

My hotel is hosting Domcon again, and last night had some wench walk by, and she makes a comment "No means yes in our world".

Well, after 9 years, and different subs collared and not, relationship or just a fwb I learned something. Safeword or not, being careful or not, no doesn't always mean yes it can mean no still. So I say as much, and she chimes right in with who am I to question her. I respond that I am a local Dominant of 9 years and go by ym expierences.

My manager changes the conversation to about cookies, (Double Trees hand out cookies to all guests) she mentioned she never got one so it being my job I ask if she wants one. She agrees as I turn to get one, I hear her whisper so he is a Dom and he is getting a cookie.  I stopped and almost turn to rail into her, but I am at work. Proffesionalism sometimes it is a bitch. I grab the cookie and hand it off to her.

Her companion makes a comment about her not eating many cookies because she wants to keep her figure. Well if there is one thing I know, the actiities of the lfiestyle  are very intensive, so I say as such.  Just for her to comment that by looking at me I must not get to play much.

Ok, I maybe heavier then need be, but I am not out of the releam of my size. And I am almost HWP. So the bitch insults me twice, and I have to stand there because she is a fucking guest.

I hate when people mistake my professionalism and the fact that I am polite as weakness. Do I need to shout and rave like a moron and threaten to make people understand? I have never been more insulted by anyone ever.
10/9/2008 12:13:23 AM
So, this week is the most holy of weeks. DOM CON! Sadly, I have no little girl to tie up, and spank infront of a crowd of people or molest in private. <sighs> Taking aplications though! LOL
9/20/2008 11:25:25 AM
Alright, I am taking a survey. Am I an ugly sob or what? Intriguing minds wish to know... mainly me...  all emails will be accepted!
8/24/2008 8:02:16 AM
There are very few days where I am truly ever feeling that it is good to be me. In all honesty despite my normally happy disposition I am normally in a deep funk trying to work out the best plan to deal with the problems in my life. And for some reason it always seems that for one day of actually feeling great, I get and normally the very following day  a day of feeling like I should just crawl in a hole and die. Really really sucks.
7/15/2008 5:51:43 AM
Where do people go?

I am trying to understand what happens, you meet someone and find you click. Everything matches, having a great time talking. And then the person disappears.

This goes for online stuff too. You send some emails begin building a good connection and plop gone...

And I mean everything gone. Email, yahoo, profiles, number people you know know the person are like  we don't know. Or they disappear too.

I don't get it.
5/15/2008 3:46:11 PM
Wow, people want entertaining and interesting mail , well maybe if you made it worth it. Like having a profile worth reading someone would put forth more effort into their messages, I know that if someone barely has anything written and I take the time to TRY to get to know you, but then I turn around and see a added note saying that people need to be mroe interesting, and yet you have NOTHING on your opening page except that. I believe you need to check yourself for a moment and realize that you have shown nothing interesting yourself.
5/10/2008 6:34:43 PM
<looking left>  <looking right>      >.>   <.< 

SHHH ok, check it out.  I got bored, and opened my own porn store.... yeah im a nut job it is online   www.sextoysex.com/bigsexydaddy.  Check it out! 

Also... im still single ladies.... yeah that hasn't changed... le sigh
4/28/2008 3:00:09 PM
So tomorrow another year, yay go me!
4/21/2008 8:41:17 AM
SO my Bday is coming around the bend, and that means another year of what is becoming an almost eternal search.

I also find myself wondering where I can find someone to give my spankings too on ym bday. I don't recieve them LOL  I hand them out! For those wondering my bday is the 29th and that is next week.

3/10/2008 10:52:31 AM


So, Next week is Frolicon, and a good excuse to have some fun. Sadly though still havne't found anyone intrested in going.

For those of you not in the know, Frolicon is a part of what Fantasm became after it broke apart, and isn't bad. They still have dungeon and dealer rooms, and a Consuite with a playroom, and almost every party had a play room.

So my search continues, but it looks like im going stag to this thing.

3/4/2008 8:37:54 AM
Why is it, that when I find someone interesting, they stop coming around. I hate my luck sometimes.
11/26/2007 2:15:51 AM
Ok, I don't know. It is quite annoying to me to see so many without profiles, while I am scanning through. I enjoy reading, and getting some small idea of the personality of the person based upon that. It almost forces my hand to ask one or two questions in email. And then this goes back to causing me to grow upset at the people on this site.

If you want something more then one or two questions about you, then write something. If you aren't going to write anything, why are you bothering?

are you expecting a Dom just to wander up, and bend over backwards for you, and do whatever you want to get your attention? That isn't how it works. 
11/19/2007 1:45:03 PM
Well I think it is safe to say for the next month or so I am going to be rather sad. I am not going to enjoy these holiday months. It is the first holidays I will have without my father, because he passed this past april. We weren't as close as I would have liked, but he was still my father. Anyway, if I see short with anyone this week, or the next month I ask that you all understand. Other then that, lets go wild!
11/16/2007 11:28:51 PM

Well, I am unsure what to write here as it seems my best efforts to even contact subs found on this site is horrible. Most of them don't even bother to write back, and for some reaon that strikes me as odd, especially when most of them say contact em and see. Even if you aren't intrested If someone has taken the time out to believe you are worth an attempt there should be some contact back. A not intrested or thank you but I am not looking. Something for the effort that has been put forth, or do most of you feel so arrogant that you don't have to even be courteous to those who have spoken to you.

If you feel that way it makes me wonder what kind of sub you would be.

For those who have taken the time to respond eve if nothing has happened I would like to express a gratitude, for you have shown me you are not so arrogant in who you are, and prove me to me that you understand.

Touchmeagain
 
 Age: 21
 Maryland, Sweden