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About Scorpiana
I am a very dominant Mistress, with 5 dedicated beautiful male slavessouls residing in various areas around the country. My path is one of pleasure not cruelty. I do dispense punishment-only when warranted. My Mistress/slave relationships are not only physical, but they are also very psychological and spiritual (not in a religous sense). The connections we share are for life.
My profile must remain very limited, as I am a somewhat high profile individual, and with my career I can not afford to let my Alt. lifestyle be known-sadly. For this very reason, my list of friends will be casual online acquaintances that mostly ...I have never met.
I would like to expand my stable of slaves though to include a woman. And I feel as though this will have to be done locally. A huge risk for me, and one I do not take lightly. In order to build a trusting Mistress/Slave relationship with a female slave, I will have to provide the proper attention. Again-something I take to heart and soul. I will not rush into this, nor should I. And am not the type to take up such a risky venture without exercising appropriate caution and want to ensure the path a potential slave wants, is what I have to offer her. If I can not fulfill her need then I do not deserve the title of her Mistress. For I am the one who must work hard to open the "right" doors for her. At the core of my path is my philosophy, which is that as a Mistress it is my duty to work dilligently so that I bring out the best in a slave, and a slave chooses to serve to perfection to please his/her Mistress for this reason. I am interested in slaves, not subs.
If you are a slave soul seeking a Mistress, please know that I will not rush into anything-I want to be certain that we both desire an outcome which pleases us both. And you should not rush either. You are valuable, and should be treated as such, with dignity and respect for your choices. Not all paths can meet-and there is nothing wrong with that. Sometimes they can only cross each other and run concurrent for a while. This is a part of what life is. It is not failure, but a chance to see, feel, learn, and grow with something or someone new-even if only for a short while. What we take away from lifes' shorter lessons, can often be a pivotal point that changes our paths direction. It is my hope that those will always lead us to an even better path in the long run.
New addition....after much debate, I need to clarify a few things. Even though I am seeking/looking to find my first female slave, the opportunity exist to take on additional male slaves. SLAVES....not subs....not switches. There are plenty of Mistresses out there who like both...I am focused on the Mistress/slave relationships only. In saying this, I must also state The rules....so here they are:
1. Be geographically close to Columbia, MO
2. Be unattached and available to me...at my beck and call...no married men....your wife/girlfriend/boyfriend just won't understand when I call, text or email you to come over and service me at 2am.
3. Required....you must be bisexual.
4. Liars will not be tolerated-even once.
5. If you can not commit, don't even try. This is not a romance but it is a relationship for life.
6. Expect me to be very selective...I may take you on for a trial basis, but that does not mean you are "in like flint"....trial means just that...if I say you are not cutting it, I will tell you why...then I will cut you loose. This does not mean I am not open to allowing second chances, however it does mean you have to go and spend your time gaining the appropriate life experiences first...this takes time and can not be rushed-so don't even think of trying.
7. Beginners are not welcome here. Go get experienced elsewhere, then come see me.
8. If you think this is all about you being a sex toy, you have another think coming. There is soooooo much more to this than sex. So if that is your sole priority, keep looking elsewhere.
9. Be realistic. Not everyone is a good fit for each other-that is reality. Recognizing this is essential to maintaining a healthy, fun and rewarding relationship for all parties involved. I am all about quality over quantity, and so should you be as well.
10. Leaches will be stomped into oblivion. Be prepared to give as much as you receive.
11. Know yourself....inside and out. I can not help you to grow if you are lost on yourself. Serious soul searching is mandatory-and not for the faint of heart. Bravery is expected in spades.
12. Loyalty. Need I say more.
13. I do not take in live in's-ever.
14. I do not cyber Mistress-it is counter productive of growth. I live in the real world and play in the real world-this is why geography is important.
15. Excuses are the perfect exit. If you are a procrastinator or have a repertoire of excuses as long as the earths latitude line-go elsewhere. There is no time to retrain someone with lifelong bad habits. Much like being a liar or a thief, this is just not ever acceptable for a slave. Never ever.
16. Communication is critical. Without clear, concise and accurate communication between us, we can gain no ground once so ever. If you are not a good communicator, we will have a problem, because I quit reading minds when I left the circus.
17. Lazy people are not welcome here. I will not tolerate laziness. This type of relationship is real work. Hard work. And anything good-does not come easily. Understand that and be prepared to live it. Failure to succeed is not the same thing. We only grow when we have tried hard and failed. But to be lazy and not try-is to be stagnant and truly worthless.
18. Even though I don't read minds, I can see right through you. Do not ever try to hide something from me. For me that is the same as lying and I will wipe you off my feet in a heartbeat.
19. Slaves who are card carrying members of “HumiliationNation” and “PainSluts4ever”....you should know up front that is not my path. I am not driven to be an evil type Sadistic Mistress. As I mentioned already, this is a relationship for life where together we will grow and prosper. It has been my experience that these are a dead end for me and for my type of slave. I will humiliate you-if your pride tries to set roots, and I will punish you-sometimes to a painful extent-when warranted. My hope is that your growth will lead you in the opposite direction of those. I respect, love and enjoy my slaves completely-always.
20. Have a brain in your head. Let me clarify that. Intellectualism is important. Not everyone has it, that is just life. I don't fault you for not having it, but I won't take you on without it either. All of my slaves come from a wide variety of backgrounds, and each has this in common-they can and do have intelligent conversations with me in and outside of their slave roles. In my vanilla life-as a rule of thumb-I surround myself with quality people. This is even more critical here. Most people have this capacity within themselves and merely just need to put it to practical use. If you have not yet achieved this in your life, we will not be a very good match and you should continue seeking a Mistress elsewhere for the time being.
Unfortunately, I have received what seems like limitless request from eager folks-worldwide. So a set of rules was quite necessary to slim down the list to those who may fit my requirements and who are within geographical range in which to bring their and my desires to fruition.
While eagerness is a much sought after trait, it by no means is a way to open the door to my stable. I am not your standard Mistress. I carve my own path boldly, and those who seek what I have to give are enriched by it. "Love my way...it's a new road"....one that does not fit all, but only a select few.
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Journal notes 6/12/2013
I have noticed that finding a slave on this site is more complex than one would think. Part of that stems from the profile choices allowed. Simply stated-there are not enough options to choose from. Noting the only one even close is "submissive". There is a world of difference between a slave and a sub. With no effective way to indicate this up front, I have had to add a list of rules to my profile to clarify what I am seeking.
I suppose I will just have to wait and see how many people will actually read it and take it to heart. In saying this, especially important is geography....since I am not into cyber Mistressing, this should be a no-brainer. And now...let the games begin. |
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