scottie3215

It seems to me, what it all comes down to is one thing, a relationship is a relationship. Whether it be Dom/sub or vanilla. Similar goals, personalities, compatibility, beliefs and consistency are absolutely necessary when it comes to relationships. Though i operate in the vanilla world and do well with family, socially and with business i am not going to meet someone in the vanilla world that will be long term. i've grown tired of explaining myself about this lifestyle i love and feel comfortable in. So i would actually like to start off slow, meeting and dating mature dominants. Not session or play but meeting for coffee, lunch, dinner or a drink or just hang out, gradually learning how i might become an asset. In my day to day life, i'm retired, i like to go for drives, i go to the gym, i'm family oriented, spiritual, love music, movies and dancing. i would like to share those things in my relationship and have my potential mate introduce me to what's important in her life and how i might compliment it. i still have my want of being in a ltflr.

i need to get my affairs in order if i am to call myself worthy of serving. i thought i was happy and life was good, someone came along, opened my eyes and in a few brief weeks, showed me i am unfulfilled, settling, not living my true nature as a submissive man. Facing your own truth is rough sometime. 

I've not been here for a while. Trying to see, now that I am free if it is actually possible to have a long term D/s relationship. Vanilla is not working.