satyrne07

Dominant Couple, 57, Fife Lake, Michigan

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Male Dominant, charlotte, North Carolina

Well, they say imitation is the greatest form of flattery. Seems a certain French switch has found my profile language such a clear expression of his own feelings that he's taken the whole intro as his own. The good part of this is that I aimed to express a view that I think should be more widely shared. More men should put a Woman's pleasure first. So, this is progress. When you add the fact that French is often considered the language of love, well, being jacked by a French dude for his English language profile is somewhat of a compliment. But I think it would be best if he put a little more thought and originality in it.

I was chatting with a Domme friend about training males and the similarity or lack thereof to training horses. Some men might be submissive, but every Domme will at some point run into resistance or refusal and may find that he won't budge, or worse turns passive aggressive and even more generally resistant. The goal, she pointed out, was not simply to force a sub to do what he was told, but to TRAIN him to do it with minimal force from that point on. Anyway, She seemed to put an interesting spin on how to accomplish this, so I thought I would share it: ***SEDUCE THE MAN then TRAIN THE MAMMAL ***? In the first instance it is very much a matter of making him feel "Oooh, yes, I want that"... and this needs to be in tune with something he really wants, not what You may want him to want...bait is bait. Then it's a matter of translating that want to a "do"...If you want this then you will do that. And here is where the "mammal" part comes...don't just do it once and expect it to take. You are not teaching him understand a concept, but training him to repeat an action, its the nerves that are learning not the brain. It becomes automatic when he doesn't have to think about it and that is how You train a dog, horse or gymnast. Anyway, I liked the way that got distilled down to two lines. And Ladies, be careful. Nothing says it doesn't work both ways :)

Hmmm... seems my email replies are not reaching British Columbia. None of my messages to You are marked read. Spam filter? p.s. LOVED the pictures

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