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Rubyfruit1979

Female Dominant, 42
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About Rubyfruit1979


++++I AM LOOKING FOR FRIENDS FIRST++++


A summary of what I am looking for is a real life interaction in which we can develop a friendship first, a slow progressing relationship that will not start with any sexual activity. Please read further if you are interested.

I wish to eventually have a relationship with someone I can be of service to and please. Someone I will eventually form a strong attachment to. I need rules, structure, and boundaries. I would like to relinquish varying levels of control/power-exchange as the relationship grows and trust is established. I need someone who can be accepting and approving of a slow progression to the various levels of control. I have a list of activities that are permissible at these different levels and limits I will have. I repeat that the initial levels will not be of sexual nature.

I am eager to grow and learn. I am looking for a caring dominant who understands the necessity for a slow progression in an introduction to D/s interaction (and really in any relationship to involve such a high level of trust). Someone who is experienced and willing to respectfully enjoy being with me within my boundaries until the trust and relationship has developed enough to change the boundaries. The decisions made by the dominant should at no time jeopardize/negatively impact important features of my life such as work and professional development and intimate relationships. The focus and intention should be a desire to improve our lives through these interactions.

If you are interested and close to my age (22 to 42), message me, and we can begin discussions to determine if our limits, needs, and desires are compatible.
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