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Female Submissive, 44, London
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About RubyBum
SAM sometimes. quiet sometimes. conservative. submissive to an intelligent, intriguing mind. sexually creative.
In search of a fix (temporary or permanent) for this unquenchable burning.
While the "need" is not unusual, the desire to connect on a mental plane may prove more difficult to fulfill.
A mentalist would be fun
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Subtle test of the waters with the toes of my foot....not quite sure about wading with abandon into water that's turned into something less.
The endless lists of checking off what one is into or not into, the questionare approach to learning about each other. yuck.
Community. conversation. friendships that create an atmosphere. |
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what am I looking for? a connection.
what that connection becomes isn't a destination, it's a journey and I wouldn't want to compromise the possibilities by applying premature labels like Dominant or Master. Nor do I start the process as slave or submissive, just as me. |
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My body and mind longs for the thought numbing agony, for the clearinghouse of pain to take over, to invade every crevice, to consume the essence and give back only the clearest of pleasure and release. |
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Surely, if you are dominant, I'll know. and you won't have to tell me. |
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The omnipresent process of sex, as it is woven into the whole texture of our body, is the pattern of all the process of our life. (Havelock Ellis) |
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Are you a WEEDS fan? OMG...the spanking scene was hot this week. I very much related to the scene of her checking out the marks in a mirror later in the day. |
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on the perimiter of a full ballroom, music intoxicating, people passing by.
Not sure about the dance card, or confident of the steps.
Absolutely sure of what I don't want, less vocal about what I do want.
yet not compromising.
that probably leaves me watching. alot. |
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