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About Ruaruarua
Fully aware of the level of crap here, so my expectations are not exactly high. I don't have a checklist per se, more that I know when I don't like something. If you are weak, desperate, lost etc, do us both a favour and move along. I'm not here to fill the position of kink dispenser. If you have nothing to say, don't bore me with small talk.
I look for connection. Where that goes is a unique journey every time. I live for the spark, the electricity, the intangeable thing that happens once in a blue moon.
I'm an intelligent, curious, educated individual. I'm fortunate enough to have family and friends across the world which allows me to spend time in other countries.
I enjoy being served, being catered to, the devotion to me, the sacrifices made for my pleasure, my comfort, my enjoyment.
What I look for...someone who is smart, capable of conversation, interested in the world around them, had their own passions, successful in their field. I look for stability, a person who is secure, outwardly presents as a strong, quietly confident man. I do not care for 'the scene' and am an extremely private person. Nothing of the dynamics I enjoy in relationships is on public display. Men I am involved with want to prove themselves to me, prove they are worthy. They seek my approval. My pleasure is their pleasure.
The physical manifesration of the dynamic I enjoy varies. Most important are the emotional/ psychological hold I have, and the dedication and devotion I enjoy. In terms of sexual compatability, my preferences are broad, and tend to vary depending on the person and the dynamic. I am a naturally dominant person, I like to explore, I enjoy seeing how my actions cause reactions, pushing people into places.
If you're thinking of sending a message, make it something worth responding to. If it isn't a real conversation, something that displays some amount of intelligence, I'm not interested. I'm happy to engage and get to know people when they are making the effort, putting something into it. If all you've got is the usual tripe, I'm already bored. If you have a personality, something to say, if you want to work to keep my attention...then maybe send me a message, tell me who you are. |
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