5 yrs ago I found out with a new test that I don't have a desease that I could give to my children ,so I chose not to have kids a long time ago and a life was formed,thought it was the right thing to do, well now I can have a family if I want. and I like that idea but if I choose that road I would want my family and children not somebody elses

we all at some time started our interest in this lifestyle and were new to it at sometime in our lives but why do you have to be a full on Dom, all I want is some control in my life with the lady who understands that if she is fucking up our happiness then punishment happens but that she wants not only happiness for her man  but also happiness for herself and when we form a team we are just that but I dont get into abuse but just want some rules set so we both know where we stand