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Male Dominant, 58, Lawrence, Kansas
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Male Switch, 59, new port richey, Florida
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Male Dominant, 47, Mpls Suburbs, Minnesota
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About Restlssgypsy
I'm very down to earth kind of person and I'm looking for someone I can relate to on an intellectual level as well as a romantic/sexual one.....
I'm a young 41. Even tho I'm very responsible and financially dependent, I don't always act my age and I'm looking for someone fun in and out of the bedroom.
I'm looking for more than just a bedroom Master. To me this is a lifestyle choice and a collar is something akin to a serious committed relationship. O and I scanned my entire profile NO WHERE does it say i'm looking for random hookups - i'm no one's bootycall - they bore me and are too predictable and have actually gotten to the point of laughable. If all you're looking for is random sex MOVE ON!
I have been called a natural submissive and I know that I have Slave tendencies. I've never been in a RL D/s relationship so this is all new to me. Please don't expect that I'm going to jump in my car after talking to you one time. Been burned a few times so I tend to take things slow. Sorry if you're in a rush LOL. I'm looking for something specific but that doesn't automatically rule you out it just means that I like to take things slow before I decide to fully submit.. that also doesn't mean I can't have fun along the way!
Also note that if you expect me to fall down at your feet after 2 sentences from you (that being Hello. How are you?) and do everything you say immediately and I refuse to do so, don't question my integrity and my nature. Just because I refuse to give you my phone number after 2 minutes of chatting via IM doesn't make me a game player or a fake. It makes me cautious!
There are too many psychos and fake doms in this world for me to just trust you right off the bat and because you said its ok. Finding a DOM for me will take time to find the right one. I'm not just going to accept and submit to anyone. If that is what you want and you cannot be patient about getting to know me first than do not even bother messaging me.
If you prefer to actually take the time to get to know me before just assuming i will do whatever you say then please I'm welcoming you into my inbox.
Remember trust and submission is earned and a privilege not a right. Besides who wants a sub that will just submit without making you work for it.. if that's the case than its not worth either of our times.... Seriously - If you're not like that and are honestly willing to work with me... then please email me ... Hugs and Kisses!!
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Sighs.... I've been back for such a short time and yet I'm already frustrated irritated and tired of the assholes messaging me.
I'm not hear for a random hook up!!! Collarme may not be a dating site but it's not a bootycall site either. It's a place for D/s M/s to meet and maybe find something more than predictable sex. It's a place for someone who is looking for something specific in her life to make her life complete.
So BORED with all of you - For once I would love to have someone surprise me! |
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Sighs... wow okay. seriously? what is wrong with Dom's these days.
Let me add something here to my requirements on men. I've already put it out there about everything else. I might as well add this to my profile as well.
As much as I appreciate the offer of someone financially supporting me. let me make something perfectly clear. I LOVE (yes i said LOVE) my job. i will not quit it or relocate for anyone where it will require me to give up my job. I enjoy my work and quite frankly if I wouldn't work I would be bored out of my freakin mind and in turn drive you insane.
I don't care who you are, being someone's sub is NEVER a 24 hour job. I need the intellectual stimulation. I need to get out of the house and if you can't let me do this, then move along. don't argue with me about it and don't call me selfish or stupid. In fact, if you argue with me about it, you're pretty much proving to me I'm more intellectually sound about life than you are.
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So it has come full circle. It's always thus!
After many months of self reflection and self doubt I'm back and ready to meet people. Before I know I pushed off the meetings (as to weed out the jerks before I met them face to face) but now I'm of the philosophy of "let's get this out of the way and over with". If we don't click in person it's no use trying to even get to know them.
A note on this... I will only travel an hour and a half to meet someone. Which means if you live 4 hours away. you will either have to travel the majority of the distance and/or meet me a little over halfway.
I have a full schedule with working two jobs. In fact my only free full day is sunday so unless you can meet late saturday nites or on sundays or travel my way during the week you might as well not even bother.
On another note...
I've noticed that I seem to attract the over 50 crowd of men. Not that it is a real problem but note that I'm young for my age and although i may not look in the best of shapes I like to keep going so if you can't keep up with me there is no point of us trying..
Sorry if ya'll didn't want to read this rant i just had to get it out! |
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ok wth.? People.? Seriously.? I've been on this site what 2 weeks and already 2 of the "men" have irritated me to the point of having to block them.? Look just becuz I don't fall down at ur feet after 2 words from you and do everything you say immediately, you right away question my integrity and nature.? Just becuz I refuse to give u my phone number after 2 mins of chatting via IM doesn't make me a game player or a fake.? It makes me cautious!?
There are WAY too many freaks and psychos in this lifestyle and world for me to just trust u off the bat.? Finding a DOM for me will take time to find the right one. I'm not just going to accept and submit to any Tom Joe or Henry.? If that is what you want DO NOT even bother messaging me.
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