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Female Switch, 23, BRONX, New York
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Male Dominant, 35, cambridge, Massachusetts
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Male Dominant, 49, 02128, Massachusetts
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About Toomuchfun2btrue
Looking for friends or more in the Austin area!
I PROMISE MY PROFILE IS WORTH TAKING THE MINUTE TO READ AND THAT IF YOU RESPOND TO ANY MESSAGES I HAVE SENT YOU THAT I AM WORTH THE TIME AND EFFORT TO GET TO KNOW.
**** I AM NOT A NEWBIE, THE STEREOTYPICAL”DOUCEBAG INTERNET DOM” THAT IS HERE TROLLING FOR ASS BECAUSE HE THINKS THE WOMEN HERE ARE EASY, MARRIED OR OTHERWISE ATTACHED, OR A WASTE OF YOUR TIME. EVEN IF YOU ARE ATTACHED I AM A GREAT FRIEND TO HAVE.
Now that all of that is out of the way… on with the profile!
I am Dominant. I'm not "a Dominant", I don't have to put it on like a mental costume when it's time to do a scene, I didn't have to experiment to see what role fits me because it's just who I am. Always has been. Always will be.
I believe submission begins with respect and trust then grows with love. It is also earned and not taken. I also believe that if a woman chooses to submit to me, it's my duty to protect that trust, respect, and love. It's also my duty to take care of all her needs, not just the physical, but the emotional as well. A good sub is something to be cherished. I reward and spoil mine, not because they seek reward or are submissive in exchange for things, but because they are special to me and that's just who I am. I don't believe that one has to beat down another mentally or physically to make them submit to you. Don't get me wrong, humiliation can be a useful training tool and I can bring the pain like nobody's business.
I am a Sensual Dominant. I get off on giving pain, but teasing and giving sensual sensations give me great pleasure too. I am twisted and sweet. Caring, yet evil. A mind fuck in the best possible way. I enjoy a good pain slut, but I also have loads of fun with a sensation junkie, and I defiantly enjoy everything in between. I use the reactions I get and I go from there. I enjoy bringing new experiences and feelings to my partner.
I am a communicator. I like to listen as much as I like to talk. You can always ask me anything and get a straight answer. You might not always get the one you are seeking but you never will have to guess where I stand. About my blogs, I write for myself but try to do it in a way that's easy for others to read. I write for any number of reasons, to process feelings and emotions, to share them with others, to tell a story, or just to speak my mind. Please feel free to comment on them or ask questions any time.
I am fun. This whole thing should be fun for everyone. I think some people take a lot of this way too seriously! Don’t get me wrong I’m all about safety, but I don’t have to be an asshole and treat you like shit all the time because I think that makes me “Domly” or whatever. I like to tease and joke and laugh in a scene and in public. The power exchange can exist where there is a sense of humor too.
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I can't take credit for writing the following... but it says a lot about who I am and the Dominant I strive to be...
A Dominant who...
~displays sensitivity will be a Dominant who is sensitive to you.
~displays humility will be a Dominant who will show you respect.
~is not afraid to cry will be a Dominant who understands your tears.
~is quiet will be a Dominant who will hear your quietest whisper.
~knows fear will be a Dominant who will not leave you to face yours alone.
~will listen to a child will be a Dominant who will always work to understand your words.
~can stand alone will be a Dominant who will not crush you under His weight.
~controls themselves with ease will be a Dominant with the ability to control you in the same way.
~does not have to prove their point will be a Dominant with worthwhile points to share.
~never makes demands will be a Dominant who treasures anything you give.
~who doesn't run after you will be a Dominant you will never need to run away from.
~is calm will be a Dominant who can weather your storms.
~has walked the path to peace will be a Dominant able to guide you along that path.
~does not shout will be a Dominant who will never deafen you.
~knows themselves will be a Dominant who will have time to know you.
~has an open mind will be a Dominant who never stops learning.
~never stops learning will be a Dominant who never stops growing.
~always seeks to be the best they can be for you is the only Dominant truly worthy of being called Dominant.
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I’m the real thing and I’m good at this!
I’ve read online how the women in this lifestyle are tired of the douche bags who pretend to be Dom thinking sub girls are easy. I’ve heard about the crazy messages they send and the stupid things they do. I promise I am not one of them and I am nothing like them. I’ve lived this life 24/7, I know how this works, I know how to use all my equipment correctly and safely, and I know how to treat you right.
*I will not demand you call me Sir, give me your passwords, or isolate you from your friends and family - EVER.
*I will make sure everything we do is done as safe as possible.
*I will start with what you are comfortable with and progress at your speed.
*I will communicate with you either verbally or physically throughout our play.
*I will not play with you harder than your mind and body can handle.
*I will give you aftercare and stay in touch to help if you have sub drop.
*I will not take or ask for more control than you are willing to give me.
*I will treat you like the beautiful woman that you are and always give you the respect you deserve. I know that you are a woman first and foremost and a sub second.
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I wish I knew more kinky people here and I hope to get to some local events soon. I am still learning how to make this work so please forgive me if I’m not doing it right. I promise I am worth getting to know and you won’t be sorry if you message me or respond to a message I’ve sent you.
If I have sent you a message and you are not interested or have already found someone, please send me a quick reply and let me know. I would extend that courtesy to you if the roles were reversed.
Well that's the Reader's Digest version of me. There’s much more to me but to see it you’ll have to send me a message! |
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