restlessmnspirit

Right now, this site seems pointless... everyone here seems to be playing some sort of angle and no one is sincere.

Listen up... if you are the genuine thing, then you will not need to ask for money.  All asking for money tells me is that you are a SCAMMER!

Submissives: see their dance of pain and pleasure when the crop (or flogger or cane or what ever other deliciously wicked toy is handy) greets them with a swift WHAP! Hear their moans and whimpers.

Looking for more. Learning more. Challenging my limits. Establishing new ones.

Desires abound. My mind spins its cauldron of thoughts seasoned with pleasure, pain, and dominating.

My search is based in reality. This quest is genuine and sincere. A woman submitting to me as slave.  And I will take her in, teach her how to serve me, and protect her. 

She must be as genuine and sincere as I am. For life is too short for playing the childish games many play on this site.

If you read this and fit what I have described above, then contact me for more detailed information.

You are a kinky Minnesotan if....

... you are jealous of your Dom doing more electrical play jump-starting their car this morning than with you in the last month.

... one of your ideas of temperature play is having your slave go out on a cold winter morn to start the car so it warms up for you.

... when your submissive uses her safe word when you tell them both of you are going out ice fishing on a nearby lake.

... when you are not feeling like doing blood play and your sub is, then she goes outside as the sun sets and welcomes the swarms of mosquitos.

... when you arrive at a play party and after taking off your many layers of clothing, you are simply too tired to play.

... when your submissive uses their safe word as you accidently touch their frost bite.

... in the winter, your submissive takes a lot more time warming up to do a scene.

... if walking on water in winter is one of your hard limits.

... if kinky Canadians come for a visit during the winter and talk about how warm it is.

-- RestlessMnSpirit

Hmmm... I've wondered where people get some of their nicknames (or user IDs) on here, yahoo, alt, and other kinky websites.

I am often asked how I arrived at my nickname.  RestlessMNSpirit breaks down into three different parts: Restless, MN, and Spirit.

Restless can be attributed to the fact that I always seem to be looking to improve myself or the quality of what I do.  Or it may do with that when I am excited or stressed or angry or really REALLY happy, I cannot sit still.  Or it may do with the fact that an Elton John song was playing when I was thinking of a ID.  The song's title: "Restless". A portion says "everybody is looking for something that just aint there.".  

MN has to do with the fact I live and work in Minnesota.  

Spirit has to do with that I seem to detect there is much more to this world than just simply material goods and money.  Although they are kind of important! ;)  LMAO

What about your ID?  Where did you get it from? 

later..... RestlessMNSpirit

Hey... life is good.  And I am a helluva guy.
And I am a Dom in real life.  I want the "real thing".... a submissive in real life that I can touch and comunicate face to face with.

This internet search for a submissive has been a grind, major disappointment, source of frustration, and drags me into the negative side of things more often than I could have foreseen.

I am an individual. Unique in my own way. Also a single Dom looking to meet others. That is why I am out here.

I go forward into the night, searching for the submissive who will make me whole.

Looking back I realize that a lot of my journal entries have been negative.

All that I can say is that is a reflection of my experiences both on lt and collarme and in real life in trying to meet a submissive lady.

Rejection would be easy to handle. I am an adult.  But all this silence is deafening women!  It really does make a man wonder whether or not your intentions for putting a profile out her on alt or collarme or bondage is for the genuine purpose of finding someone or just to jerk the chains of people who are serious about finding someone.

Enough said.  Goodnight to A/all out there.

Hmmm...  I have seen so many ads by gals out there claiming to be "submissive" or "slave" as their role.  They say in their listings that they are looking for "the One" or "a Master", or whatnot.

What I am wondering, other than listing a profile (on collarme or alt or bondage or whatever .com site they are posting an ad on), what they are doing to find someone.  What are they doing to improve their attractiveness as a submissive (or slave) to a potential Dominant/Master/Mistress?  I mean more than physically, but in terms of educating themselves in bdsm, learning how to be polite, learning how to show respect (once it is earned by someone else), becoming active in the local community, making friends with others in the lifestyle, and so forth.

What does it show if all a submissive does is post an ad, sit around waiting, and never responding to any the replies she/he gets ... even if it is a polite "thank you but no thanks"?

I understand submissive/slave ads can be overwhelmed with responses. And most certainly I agree that the inappropriate responses to an ad should not be replied to.

To me, a "thank you, but no thank you", or something like "I'm not interested in you" is cool. It shows me that: you read my reply and your courtesy in sending a quick note. 

Also, I am willing to make friends with pretty much anyone who doesn't make me angry with them. And through making friends in the lifestyle, one increases their kinky network... which may ultimately lead to meeting someone special for you.

I write replies to ads because I genuinely want to communicate with whom I am sending the message to. And I put thought into those messages.  To leave me hanging out there without a simple little polite "no thank you" type of message (if you are so inclined) is disrespectful, rude, and lacks of courtesy.  This lack of action speaks VOLUMES about who you are.... as much as your ad does.

My mind is my greatest toy.  Forever I wish that it will bend and warp but never break. 

My second best toy is my hands.  They can deliver such sensual stimulation and pleasure and pain. 

All my other toys, be they floggers, crops, canes, rulers, clips, paddles, gloves, whatever.... they fall a distant third to the Mind and Hands of Myself.