redhanded

To be a little more serious for a second let me tell you about me. I have been told I am very down to earth and grounded. I have been in charge of myself emotionally and financially for quite some time now and I would expect any potential partner/playmate to be the same.

The first time most people meet me I get told a lot that I come across as shy but once you get to know me you see I am just not a big talker. "Better to be seen as a fool then to speak and remove all doubt". Any chance I get to learn something new I do. Discovery, History, Tech TV, Science, The learning Channel etc... are always on rotation on my television screen. I wish I got to read more but I am so busy I rarely get to.

My goal in life is to someday run my own Graphic Design Studio. I am a very creative person and love to view and create art. One thing I am blessed with in this little town is an active artist community and I love regularly viewing art exhibits. I also would like to someday end up in a city near the beach. At my heart I am a true city person. I really miss being able to order Chinese food at 2 A.M. on a Saturday. I also miss the vibrancy and culture that larger cities provide.

Now to discuss the focus of this site. For as long as I can remember I have had a Dominant streak in me. I am very flexible and easy going but you will definitely know when I put my foot down. I would consider myself a moderate Dom in terms of activities enjoyed. My experience is somewhat limited. I have been in two serious relationships, and for a while I experimented with a novice sub in my area. I currently have no partner of any kind and have recently renewed efforts to find someone.