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redhairedlady

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i am here like everyone else searching for her special Sir/Master. i live in the Newmarket area and not willing to relocate or in having a long distant relationship. i have a son that i love beyond words. Don't worry i have time for a relationship and i have just as much love to give to my Sir.

i am a very experienced submissive, masochist with slave tendencies. Did i mention that i am a masochist that loves to have her limits pushed. i love to play and please Master. i am playful and i'm never a brat.

i am seeking a real life relationship, not online male friends or idle chit chat. i feel bad having to add things like this to my profile, but the longer i am online i find i need to be much more specific. i would like to thank the submissive women that have sent along helpful messages. This addendum is directed to men, especially the ones that don't read the entire profile.

i am experienced but i have never been involved with "the scene" but i am interested in attending events. That doesn't mean that i want to go to them the first time we meet. i request that you take things very slowly with me. i am in no rush and neither should you. i have chatted with other submissive women that have told me about how some rush in and get collared very quickly and wonder why it also ends just as quickly, so please be patient.

One of reasons for being cautious is because of my son. i don't wish for him to get attached to someone only to have him disappear from his life. When i do allow someone into his life he must be able to contribute time and honest effort into his upbringing. He MUST be a superior role model.

Now for the picky stuff. i prefer men taller than myself. i know that seems shallow but it is my preference. Look at it like this, if i'm wearing pumps i tower over 6', so i prefer men over 6 '. Also no men under 49, i prefer older men. These are hard limits.

No Smokers Please. This is NON-NEGOTIABLE!

If you are not very experienced please do not try and lie about it. It doesn't take long to figure out who the phonies are. ALL YOU HAVE DONE IS WASTED MY VALUABLE TIME! you must be VERY experienced!!!! i am not willing to teach you if you don't have experience. Absolutely no married men or men that are dating, submissive men,
bisexual men couples, switches, transsexuals or men that are into poly or swinging. No Daddy Doms, nor do i DO NOT DO AGE PLAY. Never ever lie to me about anything, that is a deal breaker. No ones past is perfect and i can overlook many things, but never lie about it. Please, please, please no smokers, drunks or drug users, no Goreans. Please be of high moral values and ethics (being a perv is ok, in fact required).
I have no interest in making online friends or chat pals. I don’t have enough time for my real life friends as it is. Please do not ask to become online friends or for online chat. I am not interested.

As i learn more about trying to meet people online i will add more detail if i need to. Thank you for your patience.

Love Red...



I don't cyber! I don't web cam! I am not interested in an online relationship! REAL LIFE ONLY PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!

NO LONG DISTANCE PLEASE!!!!!
NO LONG DISTANCE PLEASE!!!!!
Please be within thirty miles or so of the GTA. That means the Greater Toronto area for those that live in another country. By the way if you travel a lot and visit my area frequently it still means that you are "LONG DISTANCE" and i am not interested in any form of LONG DISTANCE.

Please do not respond if you do not have a detailed written profile. If you don't have a detailed written profile please do not respond. It would be nice to know what your real life experience level is and what areas of bdsm interest you most.
The good people of this site have a nice checklist of items to choose from, to make your BDSM interests known. Please take the time to fill it out.

PLEASE!! PLEASE!! PLEASE !! be very experienced.

One or two line email is a sign of someone that is extremely lazy and unimaginative. Impress me with a descent message and show me how smart you are. Intrigue me please. Don't show me how lazy you are. If you aren't willing to show me that you are willing to put a reasonable effort into your introduction then how much effort will you put in later?

you get one shot at makig a good first impression. Please make it a good one.
Please do not request a chat session without first asking me in a message first. The collarme chat doesn’t always work on my computer. I don’t know why, it just doesn’t. I also don’t always have time to chat and prefer not to chat online. I do not use MSN or Yahoo Messenger either. So PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, do not request a chat session without asking me first.


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7/13/2008 8:40:40 PM
Why do guys ask you to put them on your friends list before they even chat with you? Before I would put someone on my friends list I would need to know the person first. Is it just me or are these guys putting the cart before the horse?