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Male Dominant, 42, PARIS
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About RealBrightFuture
I'm going to do my best to really put together where I am with all this, and hopefully it will put some understanding going into conversations because if I'm going to be real, I don't know how much energy I have left to be sincere in every approach, every conversation spark, every bit of potential to invest that attention, to get involved enough to see if the vibe is there to to find out if we're coming from the same place to talk together.
I always sort of just assumed I would end up in this way, it just made sense so I've never really planned for anything else. I'm a millennial in 2024 and It's 2024 this was always the plan in the back of my head and overall I'm pretty sure I'm just better off this way. It most definitely is partly about finding a type of mental peace and fully embracing a place in this world that seems right and feels natural. I've spent time living for a bit with dominant folk or taking cross country trips over the years connected through this website and I know there are real people out there with real lives and very real commitment to hold a place in their life for others who might align, it takes meeting people to find that out and it leaves a lot of us a little less for wear after it all but we owe to ourselves to still be ready for opportunity.
I think self awareness, basic safety, and commitment to continued health are very good traits to be found in an owner.
I'd like to find a home, and honestly with a dominant couple if I could be picky in a perfectly lucky world. It's very rare that anything can come neatly packaged up and any variety of situations in life can find a way. I think that couples tend have a much more refined energy that more holds space for a slave as a utility in their life rather than a hyper fixation. There are some wonderful individuals who have this energy through confidence and emotional intelligence. There may be awesome groups of people; close poly friends or whatever who might want to keep a slave as a shared property of neither a couple or an individual. You don't know what works until it does sometimes.
extra points for festival lovers, i would totally join a feral wook tribe
I'm good at baking and flow art
I need to experience something that I can't do on my own and that I'm pretty sure involves a fundamental change to the psychological core. I want to experience the shift where conscious decision making is replaced with involuntary obedience. A degree of a loss of sense of self. The other side of the threshold where the experience of sense of self and humiliation and such eventually becomes complacent blind obedience. I want to find a home I can trust to help push me through that experience and break the mental blocks holding back that unique and total freedom.
I started a new profile because i felt like my old one had just become inconsistent over time and had become a convoluted mess of thought evolutions. And because I thought I should try to just be direct and sincere, see if real sees real. I got a response message for someone that i still need to respond back to, but dealing with adult adhd sending a message back is like responding to a text 3 weeks later when it feels like it's only been since yesterday. But they asked me like if there was anything in particular that i wanted to know and really it's they way people talk that really lets you know where their sincerity is at, the type of interactions that feels more natural than not, and if they're interested in spending the effort to talk with you, more than anything specific. |
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If you would like to talk i want to ask to please at least keep a few things in mind if you can.
Be genuine. It's a lot easier for me to respond to something i can align with and be able to develop a conversation that has both of us involved. If you want to tell me what you would do to me, that’s cool everybody loves lamp but i cant really speak to that in a way that leaves an open end.
If you're older than me by enough that's worth thinking about, you should have already thought about what my future looks like after you're no longer in the picture running it. I’m 35, if you’re 70 i really cant see the bulk of my life existing within the last few years of yours, keep reality in mind.
There are a lot of wonderful people in Florida it seems, and possibly a few few other similarly governed states, but currently they’ve made it nearly illegal for me to sustainably access necessary medication in that state, so again, please be realistic and understand the viability of relocating to your state's legal access. That being said, i will need to continue health insurance medications etc. since I’ve transitioned i will in fact need to continue hormones forever, i know crazy right but its all part of the reality of life just the same as a post hysterectomy cis-gendered woman needs to keep same medication. Ive seen conversations disappear when I mention this I didn’t think it should need to be said but just be prepared to know this is part of the package.
If you are contacting me from outside the country, please know what is involved with potential immigration for the reasons mentioned above i will in fact need to legally move to the country to access medical care and would otherwise risk potentially becoming an illegal immigrant in unforeseen circumstances. I don't know all that is involved so i hope you do and have already looked into it because again, please be realistic so we can actually talk about these sort of things when it would inevitably come up.
And also, please be up front, if you're local and you just want to meet and play, just let me know. |
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