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About raymond13
[This is an addendum to my original posting:
i thought of editing my original llisting because it seems to have given some people the wrong impression - perhaps because it makes me appear too far out and freaky - someone who needs to be abused rather than used, who would do *anything* no matter how degrading.
That's not the case - i've tried to do two things with this profile: first, let You know that i'm really a thoughtful, accomplished person with a varied, if eclectic, set of interestes and concerns; and, at the same time, that i have a deep desire to explore the possibilities in shedding some of the "ego" stuff and tapping into the potential for liberation that true surrender to a caring, understanding Woman offers. As noted below, i hope that You understand that the graphic nature of some of what i've included is simply a way of expressing how open i am to exploring these possibilities. i *do* have limits, i am *not* in need of degradation, brutality or abuse - but i *do* want to find the special Woman who can accept the depth of my willingness and desire to surrender - and will consider Her responsibility in accepting what i have to offer. So, i've decided *not* to re-write or edit my original profile and hope that if You are the kind of Woman i'm hoping to find You will read in and around the words and understand my need and what i offer to You. If You are still uncomfortable with anything i've said, i will have to accept that.]
i’m offering myself for the right Woman’s or Women’s use and pleasure.
i can’t explain it – and i’ve stopped trying. In my “vanilla” life i’m an accomplished, assertive academic with graduate degrees. In the “scene” (under a different “nick”) i’m an experienced Dom. But i have a powerful urge (need?) to surrender to and be used and "trained" be a special Woman who understands the nature of my needs. It’s not about degradation or punishment – i have a perfectly good self-image and don’t come to this with any guilt that needs to be atoned for. And it’s not about “switching,” i will never be topped by my submissives. It is something else, something i no longer need to account for or justify, only flow with the indescribable fulfillment and liberation i derive from my surrender.
i won’t go into a great deal of specifics – much of the pleasure comes from the reality that *You* will be in control and dictate the activities we will engage in. i *will* say that, if it pleases You, i am prepared to come to You with my “manhood” restrained in a tight leather cock & ball harness that constricts my penis, stretches my scrotum and pushes out my testicles so that the entire package stands out in a way that shows my readiness to offer You the most intimate parts of me. It, along with my nipples, ass, mouth and ??? will be Yours to do with as You will. Manipulate them sensually or painfully, or simply have me perform any way you direct or guide me – i and my body are yours for as long as i am with You.
THIS IS, OF COURSE, ONLY THE PHYSICAL MANIFESTATION OF mY OFFERING YOU A MUCH DEEPER PART OF mE - mY EMOTIONAL, PSYCHOLOGICAL, EVEN SPIRITUAL CORE - all of which You may claim through Your use of me physically or by accepting whatever service You may require.
i apologize if this is more graphic than You would like. I really am a refined, well-spoken person. It is simply my desire to give You a good idea of what i am offering. To be exposed in this way, totally vulnerable - physically *and* emotionally - and not able to hide myself from You is deeply disturbing, humbling, even frightening – and yet it is incredibly exciting. The more the “exposure” the deeper the distress and embarrassment, and, so, the strange satisfaction borne out of my service to You. The Woman i seek will understand the paradoxes of these feelings. For this reason i am prepared to meet with You, with Your Women friends and even your Male friends if it would please You. (Since i am firmly heterosexual, this last is the most difficult for me, but is a possibility if You desire it.)
A final note about my "interest" list. i moved some things from my "hard limit" list to the "hate it' category - i realized that i needed to be honest about what i "tolerate" and "hate" but did not want to imply that, if my Mistress desired or required these things they are impossible. That is up to Her to decide. i *do* have limits, but they are few and can be discussed when we talk.
i hope You will find this offer attractive and write to me.
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