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Male Submissive, 22, springdale, Arkansas
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About Raylan
I'm a complete beginner to D/s lifestyle, but have always considered myself to be Naturally Submissive, and am very willing and eager to learn what pleases you, and makes you tick. I'm Bi-Gender, Androgynous, Genderqueer, I dislike labels but LGBT is alphabet soup. I will put a links at the bottom, that helps explain more about who I am. I have no plans to have surgery and Transition, I am happy with who and what I am. My best friend calls me a "Male Lesbian", which is pretty accurate, I am physically male, but identify as female. Please read entire profile, to see if I am the Sub for you.
I do have two defined persona types, male side of me is mostly for interacting with other males, and behaving gender appropriate in public. I view my male side as more of a guard dog that keeps those, who wish me or those I care about harm or distress at bay, while maintaining good manners, and proper etiquette. My female side is my more identified with side, emotion, empathy, caring, wants and desires all fall under this sides way of thinking. I enjoy doing domestic house work; cooking, cleaning, baking, laundry. Basically being Mr. Mom, the thought of being a house-husband, makes me happy.
For Vanilla activities I enjoy; bowling, Frisbee golf, darts, target shooting, hiking, walking/jogging, cross-stitching, reading, watching TV, going to movies, baking treats, surfing the web, and listening to music. I did enjoy playing video games, but I usually become bored, unless there is a decent story behind the game that drives me to see the ending.
I'm trying to find someone, who will appreciate both my sides, and what they have to offer in a relationship. Being naturally submissive has lead me to try finding, a Dominant Female Mistress, that wants to fill the Dom role of the relationship. I am looking for friends, activity partners(walking, hiking, Frisbee golf, ect.), long-term relationships. I am very open minded; I don't judge others on what they do, so long as there is consent between 2 adults, what business is it of others.
I find that being the submissive is more rewarding, both mentally and physically. I find great joy and happiness, from doing things and putting others before myself. I don't view that my own needs, should come before those of whom I am in a relationship with. They are gracious enough to accept me in their life and earn my trust, I should do my utter best to make their life, filled with happiness and comfort as possible. In return they provide me with structure and discipline, to achieve the goals I have set forth in my life.
I am open to trying new things, and pushing the boundaries of my limits, so long as there is appropriate discussion before hand, and my thoughts are taken into consideration. I view open communication to be key to any relationship, if you can't tell the one you love and trust, who can you tell?
Please do not contact me if you are a professional looking for more clients, I am not here to be used. I am here looking for someone I can have a loving relationship with, based on mutual understanding of relationship roles, and all that it entails. I am also very shy, and timid so if you have made it this far, and you are interested. Please feel free to contact me, I am open to talking, and getting to know you and your interests. In fact, I love having nice long chats, best way to learn about the person you are talking to.
I wish you the best, whether I am for you or not, and thank you for taking the time to read all of this, I appreciate it very much.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third_gender
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Androgyny
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bigender
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I came to the conclusion, that without risk, there is no reward. If I don't ever put myself out there, then I will never know, if someone is interested or not.
Also, if they aren't interested, no big deal. There is bound to be someone out there, that is interested, and will love me for who I am.
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One of my female friends told me, "women will visit a profile, but not message, their looking at your profile is a sign of interest."
If you are interested, why not send a message? How is that person suppose to know if what you saw, interested you or not?
I have looked at profiles, and either am too intimidated to message them, or I don't think they would want to hear from me. |
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Being Bi-gender is as confusing as it sounds. I was born male, but throughout my life, I have also felt definitely female.
My male side identifies as Submissive:straight, my female side identifies as Submissive:lesbian.
I have dated a bisexual female before, and it was the best relationship, compared to dating straight women. Unfortunately we were both subs, and it didn't work out, since there was no one trying to fill the Dom role in the relationship. I have always been incredibly attracted to bi and lesbian women.
If you have any questions for me, about my gender identities feel free to ask. I am open minded, and willing to answer any questions you may have. |
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Ever since I saw Mr. Mom, when I was younger, I was intrigued by the idea of being a stay at home housewife. Even though I'm male, I didn't see anything wrong with filling the female role of the house. I enjoy cooking, baking, and doing chores around the house.
Unless my Mistress prefers, me to be wearing something, I usually prefer cleaning naked.
Cleaning naked just seems logical to me, there is no point in getting your clothes messy, and having to clean them after you already cleaned the house. Also, if you are going to be on your knees scrubbing, best to not have clothing get in the way or dirty while cleaning.
I have experience in this area already, I was a care-giver for a dying parent, taking care of all house hold chores; cleaning, grocery shopping, cooking, baking, chauffeured to and from appointments. I found it fulfilling to take care of a home, and of someone I cared, and loved. Hopefully I will be able to find a Mistress, who is looking for someone like me someday. I just have to get over my timidness, and shyness at approaching new people. |
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