Pyrrhic

I am a dominant personality. This is a necessary condition to make me a ‘dom’ as widely understood. In my case, it is also a sufficient condition and, indeed, I have been dominant, in all senses of the word as far back as I can remember. Let me also note that a dominant personality is different from someone who is merely sexually dominant. I need to dominate at all times ... not just when sexually aroused. So...if you need full-time control I am the type of dom you are looking for.

I have been in a committed long-term relationship for thirteen years. My partner (Alpha slave Female) and I, now feel our relationship is stable enough that we are planning to expand our household. We will not take just anyone for the sake of having a slave. We want a total submissive who will not only make us happy, but find fulfillment, herself, at our feet.

Ours is a 24/7 Master/slave(s) household, and we are only interested in people who are serious about their submission. We are searching for a very submissive woman (or some combination like mother&daughter(s), sisters, even husband/wife) so read the plural when we write "she" if it applies. This slave will crave strict rules, and needs to express herself sexually under the guidance of a serious and committed dominant. Her submission is what is of the first importance. She will not need to work outside the household nor will she be expected too. She will serve 24/7 and we mean '24/7.'

She would be a possession in every way and would be a service slave as well as used sexually. For example, this might mean that she was responsible for parts of the cooking and cleaning as well as any and all bedroom activities. Her limits would be our limits, and this is why it is vital that the fit is right from the beginning. We are not looking for someone that will be unhappy with our lifestyle as it is – we do not wish to change nor seek to change the nature of any slave we acquire.

We prefer - but do not insist as obedience is the real key - on someone who is masochistic and likely will enjoy humiliation, as well. Depending on her level of masochism, pain tolerance will be required, proportional to that same masochism. That means if you ARE a serious pain slut a place can be found for you in our household. If you are not but are highly submissive a place can be made too. Needless to say we expect a complete willingness to obey the rules of the house. House rules are non-negotiable. And we will not argue about fairness or loopholes. In our house, rules are rules.

If you enjoy being sassy, or have trouble following directions […for reasons other than medical conditions!] please do not contact us. "Punishing the sassy slave" is not a game we enjoy playing. Although punishment will swiftly follow any transgression of the rules, it will not be an enjoyable form of punishment or make you inclined to disobey again.

We are looking for a person comfortable with being extremely submissive to both my partner and I, not just to one or the other. At the moment we live temporarily in Wisconsin (...probably more "on" than "off" for the next year or two...through summer '15 anyway) and then we are planning to relocate to the Islands and only visit the States and Canada summers, and for major holidays and business. So relocation on your part must be acceptable. If you are allergic to palm trees and beaches you are probably as allergic to our lifestyle as if you were allergic to BDSM.

Age is not important. I am just turned 56 and my alpha slave (and generally dominant) partner is 38. We would accept both younger and older slaves into our household. Down the line we may look to add others to our household, so you must be comfortable with a poly household.

At the moment we are primarily looking for a female slave or slaves. We are also interested in a male slave to serve as "house boy" - please note that for a male submissive we really, truly emphasize service in submission. If, like so many male 'subbies' out there, you are mostly interested in self-centred sexual jollies you are not for us - your whole life should be focused on your submission and service.

Please note: we expect all slaves to be able to pass through U.S., Canadian and international customs – this means no serious criminal records or drug problems and the ability to apply for and get a passport.

We are not looking for casual play or part time ownership. Most importantly, we take our responsibilities seriously and we are looking for life-time commitments after a suitable trial period. We will take care of you, in all ways, permanently and you become our property – equally permanently.

If you have questions please don’t be afraid to talk to us. We are both well-educated and responsible people with an interest in meeting others in the lifestyle with common preferences, as well as looking for our slaves.