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About pyrobabe
*** under construction***
Master and I are looking for 1 male and one female slave to join our poly family. Go checkout our couple profile at sirrandpolyfam. We have a few slaves that will be joining our family this fall.
Yes, you will become a real slave.
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I need 30 people to send me their e-mail address and then I need them to sign up at a free gaming website.
Any volunteers? |
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I was having a glitch with my browser so the person who wanted to do a cm chat should try again. |
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Lots and lots of things to do ... and no time for collarme.
If you are interested in becoming our slave then you had better familiarize yourself with this information at www.orindaben.com |
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It's been over a month since I have been on. I will slowly be attempting to get back to all my messages. I'm recovering from a broken wrist/hand. Physical Therapy starts soon. Woo Hoo!
Oh and my birthday just past! Oh crap that means I have to update my profile... I'll get to it soon. I'm now 25.
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QUIT ASKING ME FOR MY YM. YOUR NOT GETTING MY YM UNTIL YOU PROVE TO ME YOU ARE SERIOUS!!!!
I have attempted to talk to some female slaves from this site. I say attempted because they seem to want to talk, but the second I don't give out my YM to them when they ask they disappear. Well guess what fuck you unless you are going to talk and get to know us here on collarme you WILL NOT GET MY YM!!!! Also those who want to go staight to YM see above capitol letters!!!!
This rule applies to everyone!!!
Don't like it don't message me. |
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***I will be unable to respond to any messages for awhile***
I have checked messages in my inbox, but most I have not really read nor will be able to respond for at least 3 days.
When I have time you will hear back from me. |
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What the hell this must be idiot slave wannabe week?!?!? I hope this isn't contagious and doesn't turn into a pandemic.
I just read this statement in my journal:
Whatever you choose to focus your attention on, you will get more of it. If you often think of everything you lack and how sad you are that you don't have it, you will tend to receive abundant evidence of how true that is.
*Quickly shuts eyes and meditates on intelligent, loyal, obedient, submissive with slave tendencies, honest, caring, loving, kind slaves that honor and value my time.* |
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It's been awhile since I've said something here so enjoy:
"Whoever has, shall be given more and more," reads the Gospel of Matthew, "while whoever has nothing, even what he has will be taken away from him."
Pronoiac translation: Whatever you choose to focus your attention on, you will get more of it. If you often think of everything you lack and how sad you are that you don't have it, you will tend to receive abundant evidence of how true that is.
If, on the other hand, you dwell on the good things that make you feel grateful to be alive, they will probably multiply.
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Here is my horoscope from www.freewillastrology.com I find Robert Brezny to be very entertaining.
In the sci-fi film The Matrix, a small band of people have managed to escape from the collective hallucination that most of their fellow humans are stuck inside. Though life is hard staying free, there are some perks. They can, for instance, get downloads of data directly into their brains that allow them to quickly master complex tasks. In this way, the heroine, Trinity, learns to fly a helicopter in a few minutes. I call your attention to these fictional events, Pisces, because I think you're close to pulling off real-life accomplishments that resemble them. First, you're in an excellent position to slip away from certain illusions that enslave some of the people around you. Second, you have an enormous power to rapidly understand new information and acquire new skills.
So if you could just download any skill what would it be and why?
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In the Greek epic, The Odyssey, Odysseus and his men become stranded on an island belonging to the sorceress Circe, who uses her magic to transform the men into pigs. Later, though, she changes them back into men?only they're younger and taller and better-looking than before they were pigs.
Tell an analogous story from your own life: an experience in which you were turned into a pig for a while, and became a more beautiful version of yourself when the spell was broken.
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We have power finally!!! Master and I survived Hurricane Ike. I ran around the house turning on lights just because I could and blowing them kisses. I so missed the internet after a week with out power, but Master and I can't complain about anything. Many others had it far worse than we did so our thoughts and prayers are with you. Our 10 day Hurricane adventure is now over and we have returned to civilization. It will take us a while to respond to all of our messages. |
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The sage and her student were standing by a pool discussing longing and ambition.
"What do you want more than anything else?" the sage asked.
"To perfect my ability to love all of creation the way I love myself," the young man replied.
At that moment, the sage tackled the student and shoved his head beneath the water. Accustomed to letting his teacher shape the unpredictable contours of his education, he did not resist.
One minute went by. Then another. The student began to struggle and kick. His teacher was strong.
Finally she released her grip and the student surfaced, fighting for breath.
"What did you want more than anything else during these last few minutes?" the sage inquired.
"Nothing else was in my mind except the desire for air," gasped the student.
"Excellent," beamed the sage. "As soon as you are equally single-minded in your desire to perfect your ability to love all of creation the way you love yourself, you will achieve your goal." |
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Before messaging us, ask this question of yourself. What is more important to you just the kinky degrading sex or learning new ways to please us everyday, therefore becoming an invaluable trained slave that any Master would want? Yes there will be kinky degrading sex but it will not be the reason for living that you believe it is right now. We are interested in the real world application of a slave... meaning this is more to us then a few hours of kinky sex. Sure, we enjoy our fetishes and as a reward we will indulge you with performing/participating in yours, but this is the real world, and fucking all the time would be an awesome way to live life, but it doesn't pay the bills unless your in the porn business which we are not. We need slaves that are useful to us in our homes and businesses. Slaves that love to learn and will learn any new skill that we tell them to, with happiness, excitement and joy. Obviously you as a slave must be obedient and submit to us both and be able to follow orders well. We like a slave that is always trying to impress us. Are you now wondering how you can impress us? It's easy to find out just read all our profiles and journal entries and I'm sure you will come up with a perfect answer. After reading everything if you have any questions feel free to ask. I hope you all find whatever it is that you are seeking. Mistress |
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Just to let everybody know...
Nothing pisses me off quicker then this scenario:
I ask a question.
I expect an answer.
I receive a reply without all my questions answered.
This makes me want to reach through my computer and beat you.
So if I ask you a question you better answer it.
The point of my post DON'T PISS ME OFF!!!! |
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Life is good.
I believe in the law of attraction. Do you?
I believe in the ability to manifest your dreams. Do you?
I believe that if just one person outside of the situation sees you as a success it will come to fruition. Do you?
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I told a wannabee slave to ask me 20 questions about anything he wanted to know about me...and answer all the questions himself first (obviously the submissive/domination parts would be reversed.)
Want to know what he did? He gave me a list of twenty things he liked and then sent 2 messages asking if he did what I wanted.
Lets see how long it takes him to realize that I'm not going to respond to a stupid jackass.
Do you see why I am not responding unless someone REALLY impresses me? |
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Right now I'm basically on strike I'm not responding to anyone unless you really really get me to want you.. good luck! I only see that happening if Lightening strikes in the same place 5 times in a row. Can you tell I'm fed up? I'm fed up with all the bull shit and all the same stories. I will keep in contact with a very select few otherwise...fuck you! |
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you have to see this video http://video.yahoo.com/watch/1181237/4213664 it's ssssssssssssssooooooooo cute and adorable! It will put a smile on your face.
I love kids... I just love other peoples kids more. I can always give them back! |
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I've been inspired today to write something in my
journal... though I have no clue at the moment what thoughts are going to spew
out of my head and into this entry but I do hope it is something amusing.
Recently I've been taking an interest in reading everyone's profile Dom/me,
sub/slave and I have come across many good descriptions of what a Master should
be. I?ve also been taking a greater interest in the forums. I have found
several great quotes and many great thoughts about what a Master should be, and
what submission & slavery means to others. One topic that I think every
sub/slave wannabe should take a look at in the forums is ?What do you consider
the benefits of slavery are??
Here is part of what IamJustMe2C had to say ?Submission
is trust. Slavery is absolute trust in ones partner. Not just physical but
mental as well.? When you trust someone so much that the safe word is no
longer needed (not taken away) that is absolute trust.?
?Submission is a gift unlike any other. The one who can
sculpt that gift in a graceful manner is a Master.? I thought this was a beautiful description.
My Master is the best Master you will ever find. Sure it
is just my opinion, but I don?t know of anyone else that is as awesome and as
knowledgeable as my Master is. (I?m not looking either.) I know I am very lucky to have found him and he
deserves every ounce of my servitude. He calls me on my shit whenever I?m being
bad which can sometimes be the most annoying thing ever, but I know he does it
because he loves me. If he didn?t call me on my shit, it wouldn?t teach me
anything and I would be useless to him. There is a saying that a Master is
never wrong and I believe that is true. Whenever Master and I have our
differences ( he calls these moments "when I?m being a rebellious wench") I always find
out that he was right in the end and it would have been easier on the both of
us and my ass *smiles* if I would have
just obeyed him. My ass would have thanked me for listening. Lol.
It?s great to find a Master that completes you. A Master
that loves you for who you are, A Master that can take the talents that I have
and shape me and mold me into a perfect vision. A Master is a great teacher,
someone that can teach me many new talents that will be useful to our well
being.?
It takes a lot of time, work and
energy to shape and mold someone into being a better, more useful person. A
good Master must be very patient in finding the perfect sub/slave to meet his
needs, if he finds the wrong one neither will be happy and the M/s relationship
will eventually just fall apart.
A great Master knows how to motivate me when I
feel like giving up. I have been down this road with my Master and just after a
simple conversation he has me heading in the right direction again. I know I
need his guidance, I know I need him to kick me in the ass when I feel like
giving up. I need someone that knows what the big picture looks like, when I
don?t have a clue. I need someone when there is a big fork in the road, to tell
me which road to take when I can?t make up my mind.
A great Master inspires
your imagination and your creativity and teaches you how to turn it into
something useful and productive. A great Master owns your mind, body and soul
and knows exactly how to make each atom of your body quiver in excitement. My
Master does all these things and more, he does more than I could ever fit in a
simple journal entry. A great Master makes you proud and happy to be serving
such and great human being.
?A sub/slave is only as great as the Master he/she is under.?
*smiles*
Master and I are waiting with open arms for our perfect
moldable 24/7 long-term committed slave to come into our lives. We know you are
out there in the universe somewhere just waiting to be bound, gagged and
spanked by us. *smiles*
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MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!!!
I did have this really great journal entry for everyone, but due to computer issues I can't get it to copy and paste. Sooo I'll have a better one to put up soon.
I hope everyone has a great Christmas! |
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Master and I just updated our other profile sirrandpolyfam. I suggest very strongly that you all go read it before messaging me. You will be asked if you have done so. What is expected from you and what you can expect from us as far as training goes is there in the profile.
If you agree with being able to do what we ask of you there then we expect it to be done asap. No if's, ands, or buts about it. NO EXCUSES! No whining that what we are asking you to do is a lot of work. Being our slave is a lot of work so if your already complaining now, go away.
We expect the work to be done in a professional and compentant way. We will not except your work if it looks like a 5th grader could do a better job. You will either rewrite it again or we will tell you to screw off.
So go find sirrandpolyfam and read everything that is there. Be a good slave!
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I figure now is a good time to update my journal since I haven't done so in awhile. If you take a look at all my other previous journal entries you will see my personality throughout the entries.?
Master and I are still looking for the right slave(s) to become our property for a long term commitment.
Yes, that is right a LONG TERM COMMITMENT. So if you have never committed yourself to anything before in your life or if that word scares the bejeezes out of you, then don't bother wasting your time or ours by messaging us.
Our profile is pretty descriptive of what we are looking for, so if you message me asking me a question that is already answered within, this is what I want you to do.
Take a pen, make an 'X' on your desk and then proceed to pound your head against the desk until one of two things happen.
1)A miracle happens and now you are suddenly smart!? (not likely)? 2)Keep pounding until you slip into a coma and save us all from your stupidity.
Now, if you have a question that is not answered in my profile or journal feel free to ask.
We have a lot to offer the perfect slave(s), but the challenge thus far has been finding someone that is COMMITTED (that big scary word again) to getting a collar from us.
The focus here is not about what we can do for you, its about what you can do for us. If you can answer that question honestly from your heart, then we may have something to talk about. If not, then good luck with your search.
Master and I have faith that our perfect slave(s) are out there waiting for us to find them, or for them to find us. Here is the perfect quote.
"Everything you seek, also seeks you. You just have to take action to get it."
Are you ready to take the right course of action to get what you want?
If you want a Master and a Mistress and are willing to do/learn the skills listed in our profile, then what are you waiting for we want to hear from you.
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recently I saw this profile?
?I am a young slave with a little experience. I served my then boyfriend as his slave the end of high school and 24/7 for the summer before I started college. I want to give myself to a experienced master now that I'm out of my parents' house. Someone between (Pluto and Eygpt) would be highly preferable as I plan on finishing school the same place I started school.?
and I sent out our normal intro letter with a question specifically tailored to her profile?
?Master wonders what you are studying. Are you willing to be considered by a couple, if not for ownership by a Master and a Mistress, maybe just friends? Read our newest journal entry to find out more about us.?
And than she sent back?
?Sending spam violates Collar Me's terms of service. Since your email has nothing to do with me personally or with anything in my profile it is spam. You've been reported for sending it.?
Master and I tried to respond with?
?So sending out an intro letter about who we are and inviting you to be our friend is spam... you are on a website where you want to make friends with like minded people and we responded to your profile. If you didn't want attention from us then you should be more detailed in your profile so that we don't bother contacting you. Master says maybe you should change your profile from slave to bitch oh pardon me, he meant switch.?
But we were blocked so we are saying it here. So if you run across this young slaves profile don?t introduce yourself, or ask to be her friend she doesn?t want any and she will report you as sending out spam.
This is about sub/slaves thinking that cut and paste letters and or introductory letters are a waste of their time. Our introductory letter is not about THEM its about US and who we are and what we want. If you say nothing in your profile that says what you want how are you going to get the right exposure? This is D/s we are the dominates and we make the rules.
One could argue that you are not our slave yet, but un-slave like behavior when your claiming to be a slave in your profile is indicative of a sub/slave that needs to be broken and tamed. The question is do we want to spend the time breaking them?
A slaves worth to us is determined by there wanna to be our slave and their reason they wanna be. If they are running away from a family that abuses them by running to another Master, which seems to be the case a lot, do they truly want to be our slave. Once we have them under contract and collared do we have to spend all our time, the time we use being creative, breaking them. Master and I know all slaves need training. But how much time we spend doing that depends on how much wanna they bring to the table.
If a slave wants to be our slave bad enough breaking them in and training them is a piece of cake. Since our reason for wanting more slaves is so, that them and us, can be more creative and productive.
Creative to the point we all are making positive changes in the world. That may sound grandiose but Master says ?Not having lofty goals is just survival and in a world where death is always the final outcome, just survival should be the last of your priorities.? In the military they say, ?Death without honor is just cannon fodder.?
A good slave should always think it is a great honor to serve their Master.
So the question for a slave still is ?Do I wanna be a good slave to this Master.?
And for a Master it is ?Do I want to spend the time and effort to make this one a good slave.? Any other questions are just logistics.
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The Question:
I'd like to hear from all the sub/slaves out there what is the best way for a Dom/me to approach you? I know it?s the Dom/me?s choice, but Master and I have received in replies to our letter either a nasty response or a nice response?A nice response that leads to some letters, but than they fall off the radar. I?m just curious about why some people respond the way that they do and why they don?t follow through.
The Profile:
I know some people hate introductory letters. Master and I personally use that approach because, there are a lot of people on this site and we want to meet all of them, not only do we want to find the best slaves for us but we want to make as many friends in ?D/s Lifestyle? as possible. We find we don?t have to explain or hide our lifestyle preference from those friends. We enjoy those friendships the most.
The point of an introductory letter (at least our point) is to introduce Master and I to you. So, that you have some idea of what we are about. (That is the first phase of getting to know someone as good as if we were meeting face to face, but we also realize that you cannot say everything in one letter.) Some people say it isn't personal...well it was written by us to answer as many of your questions as possible. We put a lot of time and effort into writing this letter in hopes to give you the sub/slave wannabe a good first impression.
Some of you don't say anything in your profile to intrigue us. So that leaves us with no personal questions to ask you and if you don?t have a picture we have nothing to say to you. So we send you an introductory letter to tell you about us.
Sometimes some of you even use a generic description of what you are and what you are looking for. That is not enough information. How do you expect anyone, to know what you are seeking, and to know what kind of slave you will be, if everybody else says the same thing you? How are we going to know who is the real you? How do you expect us to distinguish you from the rest? You get many offers and so do we. This site is a way for us to find the perfect slaves for us. The elimination process is rigorous. Only the best get asked to meet us.
Though, if you are a true slave and new to ?D/s Lifestyle? you probably don't have a clue what you are looking for, because you haven?t experienced it yet. You are probably just hoping that the perfect Dom/me will find you and carry you away. Only if life was so perfect?it will take time and effort to find the perfect Dom/me. I spent 6 months e-mailing, talking on YM, webcamming and talking over the phone before I felt comfortable in getting on a plane coming to Sir Rand.
Being new, you are probably willing to do whatever you are told to do, by any wannabe Master/Mistress, that seems like a likely fit. Which is fine, but your profile should at least express that thought that you are not particular.
If you are particular, you should do some research like www.literotica.com were you will find many stories about the ?D/s Lifestyle?. There you will find what excites you, disturbs you and makes you cum without having to touch yourself. By doing that you can start making a list and develop some kind of idea and criteria of what to look for in your Dom/me. A word of caution, the best Dom/me?s will not appreciate your wording criteria as a demand.
Within the S/M subculture, different people use the words "submissive and slave" to mean many different things. When submissives say "I want to be your slave," sometimes they mean only that they want to be tied up and whipped. Many professional dominants routinely refer to their (usually _not_ very genuinely submissive clients) as "slaves." At the other extreme, there are people who want to be full-time personal servants, and who truly want to exist solely for their Dom(me)'s use, pleasure and convenience. And there are many shades in between these two extremes.
During your search you will find all kinds of true Dom/me?s and Dom/me wannabe?s and other people that claim to be something that they are not. This may sour you on the process. So much so that you will tighten your criteria. You might even become less of a sub/slave and more dominate. Remember sub/slaves, by there very definition, have no limits, no rights and never say no.
Though, if the message of no limits is in your profile, you'll probably get 90 million messages from every Dom wannabe on this website. Which will translate into a full time job, just to go through all the messages. Lol. This will take all of your time for the next year, and you will not be any closer to your goal of finding a good Master or Mistress. Which I can imagine would be very frustrating, so frustrating that it would probably make anyone want to give up the search. I was lucky my Dom was the first I met.
The answer, in our estimation, is to have the right criteria to start with. In our introductory letter we try to cover most of those criteria?s. So if you read the letter, and don?t find anything you like, you can move on, or just be our friend. Polite slaves send us a ?thank you, but no thank you? letter. When we get those, we always try to send back a ?thank you for being respectful? letter.
Sometimes I don't use our introductory letter. I'll sometimes write this beautiful letter, personally tailored to a sub/slave?s profile, which takes me a good 20 minutes to write, and than I never hear back from the sub/slave. Which is really annoying, frustrating and time consuming. More than once on this website I have felt like I?ve finally found the perfect sub/slave for Master and I. So I write another kind of personal letter, and hope, to at least get a ?I read your thoughtful letter, but no thank you? letter. Instead we only hear no response from them, either. It?s really frustrating.
In their defense, we figure, they have so many letters, that my beautiful letter just gets deleted. That is why we send out our introductory letter many times. I still don?t see how my beautiful, personal message was ignored, since we had so much in common, in my mind. Master says this is a numbers game those who are seen by the most get the best. I still don?t understand, can?t they see that by just seeing my name, that I am the one for them? When I first started I was very nice, polite and respectful in my reply to a Dom/me, if they were polite to me.
In the beginning, when I was looking for a Dom/me, my own outlook was, if a Dom/me messaged me and immediately started barking orders at me I'd laugh at them. I would then tell them where to go. I didn't know them, and I didn't care about what they wanted...I didn?t want to be ordered around from the get go by anybody. I didn't think those kind of Dom/me?s had my best interest at heart. That is what I thought until I met Sir Rand, he taught me how to judge what a good Dom/me should act like.
With Sir Rand?s help and guidance, I realized that the Dom/me wannabes just wanted a free fuck, with no responsibility for the care and feeding of their slaves. They were only thinking with their crotch.
After meeting Master I came to the mind set that a true slave only cares about what his/her Master/Mistress wants, and a subs/slaves needs, wants and desires don?t count. To get to that mind-set, you have to trust and believe your Master will protect and care for you always even though you are property. Only a fool doesn?t take care of their property. You don?t want a fool for a Master/Mistress. You are just property, but you are their property, and how well they take care of their property, is the only criteria you need to know.
Just by saying hello doesn't make me your Mistress or you my sub/slave. You still aren?t my sub/slave if you have just one conversation (I'll refer to this as the doormat issue) or 10-20 conversations with a Master/Mistress. So don?t fear interaction but don?t make hasty commitments, either.
Going back to my point about just saying hello and not being my slave. If you send me one Message it doesn't make me your Mistress and it doesn't make you my slave. You have to earn it by proving yourself. You can send me 10-20 messages... it still doesn't make you my slave. I have to see that you are serious and you are willing to go the distance and not be lazy. Thus far with this website I've been stuck on the proving it part. I get tons of messages, you sub/slaves seem to flock to me preaching me a story, but the testing process and your follow through seems to make you all disappear.
Which brings me to another point... I've had great conversations with other sub/slaves; everything goes well in the beginning, when they say their looking for a Master/Mistress, and would like us to consider them. When we say do these things, testing to see if the words coming out of their keyboard has any truth to them, they seem to disappear faster than a keg at a New Years Eve Party. Lol.
So there are 3 possibilities at this point... they are either, a liar, or a fake, or something scared them away. They were not willing or able to put the time and effort into fulfilling their dreams.
I've also found out, that a lot of people on this site, claim to be subs/slaves and they are only about what THEY want and what THEY need and what THEIR fantasies are? which is fine for those of you Doms/mes looking for that type of sub/slave, but Master and I aren't looking for sub/slaves that are only in this for there own selfish needs and desires.
Master and I are looking for a couple of true service oriented slaves. Slaves that love to serve and aren't into this because it is just some fantasy, and after a good cum and the light of day, it is over.
We take a long time before we invite a sub/slave wannabe into our home. A relationship of some sort needs to be established. Why would you serve someone you don't care about? It surely wouldn?t make any sense to me to do that. Master says self-destructive painsluts do it all the time. We do not judge those that need that kind of Master, but Master says painsluts take up a lot of his time. So, if that is what you need, then bring more then need to the table.
We need to know everything about you... what motivates you, what repulses you. What makes you wet? What, even though, you?re a no limits slave, will make you hesitate?
Master and I can definitely accommodate any fetish or desire, but the question is, what are you willing to do for us? What will make us want to take the time to fulfill your fantasy. Like Douglas Adams says "There is no free lunch." Being a sub/slave means the word "no" is not apart of your vocabulary... so if you can very easily say no to others... chances are you not a true sub/slave. Or maybe you just aren't what Master and I are looking for.
There is nothing wrong in your way in pursuing this kind of D/s relationship and I'm sure there are plenty of people willing to accommodate your fantasizes, but Master and I aren't one of them. We are looking for sub/slaves that are loving, caring, creative people that truly love to serve.
This takes a lot of time, training, effort and a great deal of desire to please a Master and/or a Mistress to become one of our slaves. So if you are lazy, bore easily, have no ambition, are squeamish about anything, or have a desire to keep any orifice virgin, this isn?t the life for you.
Serving us is not all work and no play. So we want to know how do we reward you if you have been a good slave? For a no limit slave that is hard to do. So telling us what makes you wet and us doing that is equivalent to giving you Christmas bonuses in the vanilla world. One of the things that we have given good slaves is time alone.
If you are serving us and you've been a great slave... how do we reward you? If we don't know about you, and you don?t know about us, how are you ever going to please us? Knowing what we need, want and desire before we know it, makes for the best slaves.
Then there are some people, that if you are nice to them, they just write you off as not being Dominate enough. Just because we don't cuss you out in 4 different languages, and degrade you so badly that you want to go crying to your mommy, in the very first letter, doesn?t mean we are not Dominate enough. Oh contraire we are just subtle and will fuck with your mind? fuck with your mind so bad that you will be a better slave for us, not a caged dependant in the basement. Master says that is a waste of a good slave.
Obviously not everyone is compatible with our way of thinking... but unless your a very good psychic, with extremely fine tuned abilities, to read people really, really well, through the internet, you can not tell anything about anyone in one letter. Let alone 10... Unless you are proving yourself with actions at the same time, how are we to know if you will make a good slave or not.
I personally prefer to lift up sub/slave?s self esteem with positive encouragement, rather then ripping them down... doesn't mean that we don't have tricks up our sleeve that can make you feel like a worthless piece of shit by just saying bad boy/girl. A good D/s relationship takes time; it is not something that is made overnight or during a weekend fuck. Don?t get us wrong we sometimes meet others for weekend fucks, but we have no expectation of it being a permanent thing. We are looking for 24/7 real time slaves more than we are looking for weekend fucks, but we really do like making friends as well.
I'm also not saying that Master?s profile and my own profile and journal are perfect, but we have at least tried to tell you what we are looking for and what it would be like serving us. We expect the same amount of information in return. If your fetish and or question is not already answer then feel free to ask. Just don't come promising "I will be your perfect pet" if your not serious. Master and I are very serious about having a poly family and by just writing the words "I'm serious" in your message, doesn't mean anything, unless you are willing to prove it to us by doing our tests.
To prove it, means taking the time and energy to really get to know Master and I. Building an honest, trusting relationship and showing us your true personality. Taking and passing all the tests we give you with no excuses for not getting it done, just doing it, will make us happy, as well as doing your best on each test, is a great way to prove yourself to us. Maybe we are very compatible for a D/s relationship, or maybe we will find out that we can only be friends. Either way it is a win-win situation.
If everyone tried to fill out their profiles as truthfully and accurately as possible, this site would be, so much more useful to those of us that take this lifestyle seriously. If you take this lifestyle as serious as we do and you
are ready to learn and become a better sub/slave/person. Then apply.
To apply then tell us about your interests and desires; would you like to become a professional in architectural designer? Or a Singer?? Or an Actor/Actress...? You name it and I?m sure Master can find a way to teach you to be the best at almost anything. Master would have trouble teaching you to be bigger bitch than you already are. If you have aspirations to be a bitch please do not apply. Lol. Also realize that coming here will sort of be like a free college education, in which you can learn and earn many different degrees. And for your servitude to Sir Rand and I, you will have learned a lot about life, and how to become a professional ?whatever you have talent and desire to be?? the sky is the limit.
Are you brave enough and smart enough to apply and attend Sir Rand University? Are you willing to put forth the effort to be the best?
So back to the question, anyone that considers himself or herself a sub/slave. How would you like a Dom/me to approach you? Let?s start with that question.
?No expectation, no disappointments, No desire, no reward.?
- Sir Rand
Mistress/slave C/carol a.k.a pyrobabe
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So are you thinking to yourself you want to be owned by a Master and a Mistress.?
Are you happy and creative?
Are you full of energy and excited by life? Are you intelligent? Do you think the glass is half full? Do you consider yourself a positive person? Are you obediant?
Do you have a heart that is always seeking to please others?
Do you manipulate people to get what you want? If, so read no farther you are not wanted here.
Are you thinking damn your hot and I'll say and be anything that you want me to be .... but it is all a lie.? You are not wanted here.
Only if you are serious in becoming OUR sub/slave should you bother in enquiring about the position.
Now that you have read this far and I've weeded some of you out. Lets continue and see if you match the other requirements.
You must be very respectful and either have no limits or very few limits.? To come here you will respect and take orders from both Master and myself. If you have a desire to cause drama we are not the couple for you.
Are you funny? Do you have an open mind? This is sort of an odd question to ask here, but it still must be asked. Do you have a thirst for knowledge? Are you willing to learn anything we may throw at you? Are you psychic? Can you be sexy in a quiet way? In a loud way? In a classy way?
Do you want to be nurtured?
Do you need to be beatin into submission?
If your answer is yes, that you need to be beaten into submission than you are on the wrong profile... please continue on and good luck with your search.
Now don't think just because we don't want to spend our time beating you into submission doesn't mean we won't want to? give you a good beating every now and again.. *big grin* maybe pain will be your punishment if you don't like it... who knows we have many tricks up our sleeves that you won't see coming.
Pain sluts usually take up a lot of time and energy..Master and I are artists and we would rather spend our time creating than beating your ass... but beating your ass some times is fun for us too. * big grin*
So if you are a pain slut and you are going to do things that will piss us off and annoy us so we will beat your ass, we aren't? the Doms you seek.?
A bad pain slut does not get pain... a good pain slut gets pain. So if you can be a good pain slut we want to hear from you.
Your job in coming here will be to clean, cook and keep us happy sexually and nonsexually.
You should be happy to do? whatever we ask of you. Your goal as a slave should be to know what we want before we know we want it. You will become an extension of us. For a slave that learns this they should get the best of rewards such as multiple oragasms to the pont of passing out or having your most desired fantasy come true.
Once we know if you are compatible with us... after we have talked for a long enough period of time (time may very with each person.) Prepare yourself for a 6 month trial where you will be broken into being our slave. The serious only need to apply. If you aren't what we are looking for but your willing to change/learn you need to prove it and start changing,? immediately.
If you are an artist we want to hear from you.
If you have a heart that loves to please and serve others we want to hear from you.
If you are a positive person we want to hear from you.
Master and I love people so friends is always an option. We love hearing your stories so feel free to share. If you have any questions feel free to ask.
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March 14 is my b-day so buy me presents!!! *smiles* Big 23 woo hoo! Plans?? still undecided.... if anyone has any cool ideas feel free to share :p
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Well its a new year woo hoo!!! Master and I offically had our first year anniversary. YIPPIE! Currently Master's daughter and grandchildren are over so most likely neither one of us will be answering any e-mails. |
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Well its official... I did a search that was targeting female submissives interested in joining a poly family, and I went through all 50 states one state at at time reading all the profiles that came up in my search and sent out a special message to each one of them... thus far only one female has replied... out of I'm not sure on the number of women I've messaged. I think I just did a thorough enough search and Master is proud of me. Now I guess its time to just sit back and wait for the right one to contact us.... I guess patience is a virtue. |
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Well the male sub that we did have under consideration didn't last any longer then being placed under consideration.... Does the perfect female/male slave exist out there? If so we're still looking for you. Where ever your hiding you can stop now and come out to play. hee hee :D lol. |
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Master would like me to have a female as my first slave because he says that I will know a females tricks better then a males... I'm not sure about that because I've been talking to both male and female sub/slaves and I've come to find more fake females then there are holes in swiss cheese :p lol. Don't ask where that came from it just popped into my head so I said it.
As I search this website I come across profiles from females that say that they are owned and I feel like the M&M/Santa commercial... you know the one where the red and yellow M&M meet Santa and they pass out... Well when I see a females profile that says that they are happily owned I'm shocked. "THEY DO EXIST!!!" lol.
So the question remains... Where is my REAL little slave hiding? |
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Why can't slaves come with a sign or something that says: "Here sirrand and pyrobabe this will be the perfect slave for both of you" lol.. We've been interviewing slaves for the past 6 months now and when you think you find a good one... there is always an issue! We do have one slave that is looking good... Did I dare just say that?? lol The last time Master and I thought that everything went straight to hell... and the interviewing process takes forever... maybe were just being over cautious, but I doubt it. |
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I just had an epiphany!!! I just realized today that with most of my ex boyfriends I've treated them like shit. (Insert long story here) I had en ex that basically broke me down into being a submissive... and with the help of my current Master I got away from him... Currently I am owned... but I recall when I flew here from Pa to Tx to meet Master my thoughts were "I can't treat Master as badly as my other boyfriends" and this just kept going on in the back of my mind... so today I was just sitting here thinking about all my exboyfriends and how I realized I treated alot of them badly and my attitude was "Its all about me." So I've realized I'm only submissive to smart, funny, intelligent, great sense of humor, strong men. As for women... I'm not really sure where I stand at the moment with them. I'm bi-curious and I haven't had my first experience yet so I'm open to anything. I'm only submissive to people that deserve respect in my eyes. The point to all of this is I'm A LOT more DOMME then I ever thought I was. woo hoo! I've also realized the that my ex ex boyfriend would have made a perfect slave for me.... gggrrr and why does he have to be married now... looks like I have to call him up just to tell him what I've figured out... |
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lol.. I was told today by a slave that I was fake... I find that really amusing... takes one to know one I guess. Sorry to disappoint you but I'm very real... I do have a webcam and I can prove who I say I am.
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Well I've just updating this profile... though i don't know what alot of things are and the descriptions of each thing wasn't coming up sooo I sort of just made the best of it. I'm curious about alot of things and i'm always up for trying something new... how do you know if you like something if you don't try it. |
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Well so far I've been apart of this website for about a week and what I've figured out so far is that friendship and trust comes first. I have one person already trying to dominate me after pretty much just saying hello. Just to let you all know its NOT going to happen. I don't know you and I don't trust you and the only respect I have for you is the fact that your another human being. Its just like a total stranger walking up to you and telling you what to do. Would you listen? I doubt it and I'm not going to either. So if your interested in chatting and not just barking out orders message me. |
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Male Dominant, 22, waterville, Maine
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Male Dominant, 43, Northeast, Illinois
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Submissive Couple, 20, Portland, Oregon
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Dominant Couple, 27, gold coast
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Male Dominant, 46, Green Bay, Wisconsin
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Male Dominant, 57, Mount Holly, New Jersey
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Female Submissive, 31
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Female Submissive, 31, Aberdeen, South Dakota
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Male Submissive, 24, Grand Rapids, Michigan
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Male Dominant, 50, Anahiem, California
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Male Switch, 24, Columbus, Georgia
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Male Dominant, 28, Prague
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