Okay, well firstly, I will be upfront and tell you that I don't like players and I don't like time wasters, so if you are either of these, then please.....head off in another direction.

The basics about me are that I'm single (divorced), 38, attractive, professional in working life, submissive in private life, happy, can be grumpy but mostly bubbly, honest and loyal.

Please understand that I'm not on here to play with different people - I am actually here with the open mind that I may meet Mr Right. Is he here? Who knows.....time will tell I guess :D

My user name does indeed indicate that I am polyamorous, however, I'd say I'm more poly-tolerant.  I have a relationship with a female, somebody who will always be extremely special to me and a relationship which is D/s.  However, I would very much like to meet Mr Right and know that a full time D/s relationship is what is missing in my life.  However, please be aware that I am certainly NOT looking for somebody to "join" us, so please don't even ask.  Nor am I asking to join another couple - please don't offend.

I won't settle with somebody just because D/s is their primary goal - the person who's lucky enough to be in that space with me, I will have gotten to know well beforehand.

Please feel free to get in touch - if I don't respond, it really because I don't think there's any connection there-so please don't badger me for a response.

And please - no penis pictures to try and "entice" me *raises eyebrows*  I already know what they look like and it's not respectful (as I'm sure respect would be a true Doms first offering).

Some of the above may seem a bit pushy - but I'm not a submissive person that's a doormat.  I just know what I want and won't settle with anybody unless I know it's right or maybe I'm just waiting to be disciplined by the right person ;) But when I do eventually meet my Master, I will sit by his feet with my only goal - to make him very proud. 

I am NOT submissive to just anybody and will only be so, to the right person.  So please don't send me messages "instructing" me to do anything...it ain't gonna happen.

But when I do find The One, I will offer respect, honesty and obedience.