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39 year old, collared, female submissive, not so new anymore and loving almost everying that comes my way (could be said i'm learning to love the rest!).

I have been with my One for 5 years now, and was aware of, and discovering slowly, my submissive nature for around 5 years before this.

I don't feel the need to go through and mark my likes and dislikes in the limit's lists, as I've left my experiences predominantly up to those I have served. Sometimes I have been given choices, and sometimes I have been reluctant to experience some of the things laid before me. That doesn't mean I haven't ended up trying and enjoying (at times enduring) them - sometimes doing a 180 flip and loving them.

Things progress at my One's speed, not mine. I'm grateful that I can voice my desires, wants, dislikes and likes, however, then they are in my One's hands and may or may not eventuate.

We have, so far, kept mainly to ourselves, venturing to few gatherings, and events, and meeting very few as a couple. However, we both have friends and aqaintances within the lifestyle. His prior BDSM experiences have been broader then my own, and mine have been solely D/s oriented. We enjoy play, but play is icing and not the cake.