2/7/2018 9:29:46 AM: In matters of the heart, when a man loves a woman it is only natural to want to please her and make her happy.  However, in the specific context of D/s, not all subs/slaves are created equal.  For example, the locus of my own submission does not originate from a tingly, goosepimply, overwhelming desire to please or serve someone else (though I do appreciate the same).   In contrast, my deeply rooted submissiveness stems from a more masochistic desire to be subjugated by my partner.  Likewise, I seek a female that means to rule over her male counterpart as both a loving partner and strict Mistress, such that her authority is genuine and absolute.  One where obedience and respect comes from a firm hand—not necessarily a gooey heart.

1/8/2018 4:49:59 PM: For me, being a sexual submissive is not a kink or fetish (or fantasy), but a very real part of my sexual identity, much the same as my sexual orientation (which happens to be straight).  Likewise, similar to being straight (or gay, or bi), I do not “choose” to be sexually submissive; it simply comes natural that way.  Likewise, I prefer a sexually dominant partner, especially a woman that is naturally inclined to top (or control) her man, whether sensually or sadistically—or both.