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MrSharp
Male Dominant, 57, Florida Keys, Florida 
MrSharp

Here is the thing, boys and men are going to be interested in you because you are simply a female.  Many will love the idea of a slave and getting free sex anytime they want but when reality hits them it is a different thing.   

Most men are simply irresponsible and that is just the cold truth.  The sad thing is a lot of men can be manipulated using sex which makes them useless to a woman that wants a strong leader.  They cannot be trusted because at any point a prettier, sexier or simply a horny woman can twist their mind and they will make stupid decisions.

If your Master is hypersexual then he is more vulnerable to scams, deception and even though he is focused on you right now he cannot be trusted.  Trusting your entire world to a boy or man that can be easily distracted by a woman's cleavage, sexy ass or a exposed nipple is not a good idea.

Being a Master is not about being a bully, forcing your will on someone or taking advantage of a weaker person.  Demanding respect, being abusive or disrespectful of those below him only means they are an ass hole.

I am sure that not everyone will agree but to me being a Master is about being a leader and demonstrating responsibility.  A Master makes decisions and accepts responsibility for his actions regardless of the outcome.

Every young male has the potential to be a leader but few will develop the necessary skills.  It takes a balance of aggression, confidence, success, loss and determination.   The most important thing however is time, nothing can substitute for life experience.  Having good role models helps but a leader needs to be independent and will learn more from his mistakes than any book can teach him.

Unlike the vast majority of Doms and Masters you will find on this site I am experienced and very real. I am still friends with all of my ex-slaves and everything I share is completely verifiable.

I have had TPE slaves live in my home for more that twenty years and my friends have live vicariously through me.  I have been able to experiment with any fetish, kink or sexual activity that I wanted for a very long time.  I have been moderately successful and have always been able to buy any toy that I wanted.  I have a St. Andrews cross, spanking bench, suspension rig, violet wand, fire cups, vacuum cubes and much more but they are just toys and do not define who I am. 

I own a successful company, my home and have a real bar called the Naughty Tickle Tiki. I know plenty of swingers and sluts who will come over and suck my cock anytime I want and leave afterwards.

If all you are interested in is a good time then be honest about it.  I am not a swinger and will not stick my dick in every wet hole that is offered.  Friends of mine have regular BDSM education, training and etiquette events that are sex positive at the Tickle and I can get you an invite.

I am not looking for a friend with benefits, girlfriend, lover, wife or romance.  My life is pretty great right now and I am not going to play silly games trying to talk you into being my slave.  I will not make accommodations or compromises because I simply do not have to.

I could fly you to the Florida Keys tomorrow but I am not going to send anyone money.  We will get to know each other here at first and if our interest align, we will speak on the phone soon.  I will not exchange erotica, pornography or have any kind of phone or video sex.

If we agree on goals and expectations, I will arrange for you to come for a one-week visit. Once you have safely returned home, we can discuss your potential and future visits.  I am looking for a full-time domestic cisgendered female TPE slave for my home and your age is not that important to me.  

I understand not everyone who comes to visit will be interested in or even able to walk away from the life they now live.   Life is complicated, things like family, careers and other obligations can prevent someone from making a clean break.

The most important thing when communicating with me is that you are always completely open and honest.  I want to know things like where you see yourself in six months, a year and five years from today.  

I am a very happy man because I have learned to appreciate what I have already accomplished.  I live in paradise and in the next five years I plan on traveling, exploring and above all enjoying life.

 
The “Honest” secret to a truly happy life I came to this epitome recently which felt as if I found a jigsaw piece that I didn’t even know I had loss. I have always known that I do not think the same as most people but never thought about why. As a young kid I was exposed to motivational speakers and realized that the affirmations, meditation and even the music I listened to affected my mood. I grew up confident in my abilities and became a natural leader but never questioned why. I watched an interview where the topic of honesty and lying came up. The interview prompted me to research the physical and mental effects of lying and I was surprised. What resulted caused me to self-evaluate my some of my deepest personality traits. I felt as if I had been bumping into things in a dark room my whole life without even knowing it and a light was turned on. Nothing in my life is any different today but I can now clearly see how being completely honest has had a major impact in my life. It has affected me physically, mentally in amazing ways that I had not considered until now. When I was successful at something I took credit and if I failed, I accepted the responsibility. There were no participation trophies, if I screwed up I learned to accept the consequences. As a result, I develop strong mental and social connections with those close to me because people inherently understood that I had integrity and they could trust me. While still in high school I recognized that most of my peers were interested in sex but few knew anything about it. I was experienced which high school girls found very attractive so I took advantage of it. As an athlete I used affirmations that I was going to be successful it was uplifting and positive. My success with girls gave me confidence and it became self-fulfilling the more experience I gained the more they were interested in me. Self-deception shapes our reality, influencing choices and beliefs both negatively and positively. Many types of ‘lying’ also involve self-deception, in Aesop's fable 'The Fox and the Grapes'. The fox in the end, gives up and walks away, saying the grapes weren't that good anyway. The fox demonstrates how self-deception can be useful for avoiding the discomfort of unmet desires. When I was not successful with a girl, I would chalk it up to it was her loss not mine. It was because of that attitude that I never let failure slow me down. I have shared a story many times that, I honestly thought everyone was having sex when I was in high school because I was. Several years after high school I met a friend and we talked about the girls we dated. I was amazed that he never had sex with any of them, he was a virgin until he was in college. I screwed every girl I dated, if fact I flat out told them if I was going to go out and spend money on them, I would require at least a blow job. A few were offended but most were intrigued some even enough to pay for the date. That story always meant something to me because all of my guy friends were talking about getting laid but come to find out they were all full of shit. It has proven to reinforce my confidence and success with women. It turns out that studies have shown, those who believe lying will give them monetary or social recognition are more likely to continue being dishonest. Those who tend to be insecure or have an anxious, avoidant or attachment issues are more likely to be dishonest to avoid being criticized, rejected. Lying affects self-esteem, emotions and can lead to psychological consequences. Dishonesty puts the brain in a state of heightened alert, and this stress increases with the magnitude of the lie. There are very real symptoms of anxiety like increased respiratory and heart rates, sweating, dry mouth. That is how a lie detector works it measures your anxiety but there is a reason it does not work on everyone and I will get to that. The gut-brain axis refers to the two-way communication between the two systems, and explains why people describe feeling butterflies in their stomach under extreme stress. Research has shown the act of lying stimulates the neocortex, limbic system the temporal lobe and other areas of the brain. When we deceive someone the Amygdala, the part of the brain that regulates emotion, is activated, and we tend to feel shame or guilt. Brain imaging experiments have shown the limbic system in a dishonest brain lighting up like a fireworks display. Unfortunately, they also show that the brain can adapt to dishonest behavior. Studies have found that habitual lying can desensitize our amygdala and may even encourage people to tell bigger lies to get the same rush in the future. Those that lie all the time about little things tend to pass a lie detector because their body does not respond normally. A 2002 study performed found that 60 percent of people lied at least once during a 10-minute conversation, telling an average of two to three lies. A 2010 study have shown that the average American tells one to two lies a day. Many people find deception essential for survival and social interaction to avoid hurting someone’s feelings. I will do my best to avoid confrontations and avoid topics where I anticipate difficulties but I will not lie to protect feelings or keep someone’s secret. I have always told people, do not lie to protect me because I will tell the truth no matter the consequences and you will get burned. At least to me being honest about everything is not a moral choice, I just find it a lot less stressful. If you have nothing to hide, there is nothing be worry about. If you fuck something up own it and get past it. The facts prove that I am right, if you are in a small group you have to keep track of what you told each person so not to create a confusion. A liar has to steer conversations to avoid tripping over lies which will create the need for more lies or blend, bend lies to make the fit. I am sure that some enjoy the mental gymnastics and get a rush out of deceiving people and they become pathological liars. For most, it just creates anxiety, depression, high blood pressure and all kinds of other stresses. I take the time each day to appreciate what I have achieved. I try to meditate, say affirmations, practice yoga in order to center myself. Life is good…. I have always known I look at life different than most people but never questioned why. I now have a better understanding why a lot of women I correspond with eventually ghost me. My actual life is their fantasy world and they either assume that I am lying. When it becomes clear that I am serious it can scare the shit out of them. I have found that when faced with everything they say they want, their reality kicks them in the ass. They have family obligations, children, career or other considerations that will prevent them from leaving the world they know. In the end they are just looking for a masturbation partner. There a few adventurous enough, that when provided an opportunity to recreate their life, step out of their comfort zone and make the changes necessary to make their fantasies come true. Choosing to live your life before it is too late can be scary. Imagine your life six months from now not having to worry about going to work, paying rent or other bills and everything you need like food, clothing, shelter is provided. The perfect 1950’s homemaker that spends her time taking care of the Master of the home. I have been active in the kink community for my entire life and can make fantasies come true. I won a successful business, multiple vehicles, my home, a bar that hosts monthly BDSM lifestyle events and have organized the Key West kink community for over ten years. I now realize that when I share my reality, the truth about what I have accomplished and what I have to offer it sounds like a lie. Nothing in my life is any different today and I do not know what I am going to do with, this new found understanding of what makes me who I am. I guess the funniest thing is, when I am not successful with a potential slave it is truly her loss not mine. If anyone who knows me wants to comment on what I have written, please feel free. I would appreciate any feedback.  

I just saw a profile that consisted of only a BDSM test. When I read it I realized something that is missing and likely is the most important thing. Where is the reference to interest in a real life encounter? Where is any reference relating to an actual time frame of when it might occur? So many of the kink or BDSM tests address interests but do not differentiate between those who want to masturbate to being a rope bunny and those who honestly want to be a rope bunny tomorrow, a week or a month from now. Being interested in being a slave is totally different than being a slave.  Someone who has slave tendencies or wants to be a slave someday is a waste of my time.  While I try to be understanding, I do not want to spend weeks, months, or years getting to know someone who might someday meet me in real life. I do not have any interest in exchanging erotica or demanding pornography.  If someone is not willing and able to leave their current life for a year or two, it does not mean that they are fake.  That is worth repeating, If someone is not willing and able to leave their current life, it does not mean that they are fake.  It does mean that even though our interest may align our timeline does not. I am mentally, emotionally and financially stable and could move a slave into my home anytime.  I can take care of myself and do not need a slave.  Having a slave in my home makes my life more comfortable.  My slave does all of my domestic duties, I provide rituals, structure and you will not be required to work outside my home or office. I do not want to rescue a woman who is in desperate need to leave her fucked up life.  I do not need to complicate my life with a whole lot of drama.  I accept that everyone will come with a certain amount of baggage but I live a happy, peaceful life in paradise. I am looking for a woman who has a desire to fully commit to a life as my slave.  Expereince, age, location is not as important as the desire and ability to meet in real life.  If you are at a point in your life where you are prepared to relocate within a resonable time then we should talk.

I  regularly visit this site and Fetlife to check for messages when I do not have a slave in my home.  If you want to learn more about me my profile has a lot of information. I was responding to someone today and realized that my words might be helpful to post here as a journal entry. I can say that I am very real but the definition of real could be different for everyone. Maybe what sets me aside from most on here is I am only interested in real life? Maybe it is that I have had slaves live in my home for over twenty years? Maybe it is that when a slave is in my home I take care of EVERYTHING and her only responsibility is to take care of me. I own my home and a sucsessful business in paradise and I do not need a slave to work outside my home. It is important that any potential slave understand that being MY slave is not all about sex.  I have no interest in having long sexually explict email chat or phone conversations so that you can masturbate. If a submissive or slave is interested in visiting and just having a great week as my slave I am open to that. If you want to be considered as my slave than you will find my questions are not like most of the self appointed Doms or Masters on here.  I am interested in the things that actually matter when I am considering bringing someone into my home. Things LIKE, What is your current living situation? Friends Family Roommates etc? What is your marital status? Married Separated Divorced Never Married? Children? Have you ever been pregnant? Can you become pregnant? Financial status? In my home I take on all responsibilities and if you have a large credit card debt car payments or some other debt it becomes my responsibility. Have you ever filed bankruptcy? Health? Have you had or do you have any STDs? Have you ever been diagnosed with a medical condition like diabetes depression or anxiety that requires a medication? Are you willing to relocate? When? Being a true slave is more than just about sex you will be responsible for all of my domestic duties. Those who want to talk about what Toys I have or How often they will be beaten are just looking for material to masturbate too.   By real I mean our conversations will be about mutial interest but the central theme will be your visit regardless if it is short or long term. If you are not ready to meet in REAL life then I do not consider you real.

Have you ever heard of Fantasy Fest? I am the current organizer of the Key West munch group on Fetlife and we set up and perform at a very large kink event in Key West each year. Our event generally gets about 1,500 people and kinks off Fantays Fest a week long party. This is the 24th annual event but I have only been involved for about eighteen years. Recent years I provide a lot of the dungeon equipment like the St. Andrews Cross, Spanking Bench, Suspension Rig, and Vacuum Cubes. If you have never seen a vacuum cube in action here is a link to a video MrSharp dot net slash Cubes slash VacCube_720p dot mp4 you will need to replace the dots and slashes with the actual thing. Our group normally has a private party the Sat or Sun before the big show for our performers and volunteers. If you are interested in learning more about vacuum cubes and Fantasy Fest let me know.

I was corresponding with a submissive the other day and something occurred to me, I'm a real catch!  No really, I'm a fucking Unicorn! I'm a successful business owner and respected in both vanilla and lifestyle circles.  I'm intelligent, caring and do a lot of charity work.  I have been in the lifestyle for a long time, have a ton of documentable experience and a LOT of toys.  I have had 24/7 slaves live in my home and can provide references.  I have the means to take care of and support a slave.  Since 50 Shades there are a lot of want-a-be Dominants and Masters out there.  I'm the real thing.If you're a sub/slave who is looking for a mentor or Master I'm open to learning more about you.I wish everyone a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

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