I am a single, unassuming, approachable, experienced Dom with a penchant for D/lg relationships, active in the BDSM community for over 15 years. I am an educated, articulate, patient and considerate Dom. Sensual, sadistic, firm, fun, respectful and playful - that's me. Key to this working out is open and direct communication, which I not only offer but require as well.

What you can expect from me:
I believe in protocol and feel that things work best with structure. That being said, our exchange won't be a cold and one dimensional one either but I won't withhold discipline when necessary. I am so much more than this lifestyle and offer much more than a strong hand and some rope work. For one, I have a sense of humor. I also have a variety of vanilla interests and look forward to sharing those interests with you. Things that come to mind are music, poetry, art, photography, foreign languages, intelligent discussions regarding philosophy, baseball/football, religion and politics, hitting a good club, cruising the coastline and traveling.
I am not one to expect anything initially, so our conversations will be geared to getting to know each other initially (sans demands and unrealistic/premature expectations). My dominating you is as no different than your submission, it must be earned.

My approach to this is based on real life experience and much observation on what works and what doesn't.
In short, this is less about gear, rope, toys, safe words and fetish clubs/dungeons (though they do have their own place in all of this and can be quite fun and pleasurable) but more about developing a real connection with someone.

What I want and open to:
Someone who truly seeks a Dom and is ready to pursue it. I am also looking for a rope partner, to help me practice my rope skills. Let's have some fun!

What I don't want in a relationship:
I am not looking for Pro subs, Cyber slaves or Phone Ho's.

Thank you for reading my profile and I look forward to hearing from you. Feel free to say hello and don't be shy to ask questions should you have any.