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Update I am now taking a graduate level class over seas and will be in the UK for few years (at least). I use to have one of those high pressure, no-sleep-having white collar jobs in the U.S. and recently decided that I needed a change. Now I am in the UK studding to have a different white collar. No-sleep-having white collar jobs! What can I say, some things never change LOL

With that in mind, I created this switch profile to find someone Who is creative and as twisted as I am (in a good way of course). I use to identify myself as a Dom, but realize that what I truly am is a switch.

Aside from the BDSM thing, here is some things about me For fun I like watching movies and binging on TV shows on Netflix. I use to be an avid Game of Thrones watcher (until the last season of course).

I use to be into mixed martial arts and am a self-described nerd. I am into anything involving the occult, science or history.

What I am looking for in a girl who likes to smile and who I can smile with. Although I love being a Dom, the truth is that for any relationship to last I would like to be with a girl that likes to bite back.

On that same note, I have always been interested in what it would be like to be on the other side of the whip (so to say). However, I could only be in a long term relationship with a dominant girl that is willing to share the hand cuffs with me from time to time.

As for my BDSM interests I am into Role Playing and anything that is extreme and makes one heart race. As a Dom I tend to be a pleasure Dom and like to cater to the desires and fantasies of the women I was with. As a sub well I have no real life experience in that category So I guess I will have to fill that portion out later (smiles).

What else, oh, I do have a face and will gladly share picture of what I look like with my shirt on and my face showing once we do the whole getting to know you thing with a few emails.

Another thing is that I do truly believe in quality over quantity. I believe you can be with someone without having intercourse and vice versa. I am more interested in the mental and psychological aspect to BDSM then the physical. After all it is in the brain where ones limits really exist.

In the end I am looking for a girl that is willing to let go and trust me as I am looking to let go and trust the girl I am with. Finally, if you check out my journal entries you will see that I have been interested in exploring my submissive side in real for a while. It is not that I am timid (at least not in a bad way), it is that I am looking for a genuine connection first. I look forward to finally removing the I never did this before label.

I hope you have enjoyed reading this profile. If you like what you read (and if you think I look good without a shirt on), please send me a message. I hope to hear from you.