I will start by saying that one thing I give extreme value to is honesty, and unfortunately it is a rare commodity on this site and that really shouldnt be the case. I am totally genuine as those that have met me will know, and I expect the same from you.

In terms of sex I am female role / bottom only and I am submissive. I will give oral and receive anal only, and my male bits are essentially to be ignored. I get great satisfaction from giving pleasure and do not desire any reciprocation sexually. In fact, the more 'one sided' it might appear, the more I find that a turn-on. I have some BDSM interests but I'm fairly tame :-). I'd love being collared and nude and on my knees with a man that remains fully clothed, especially outdoors. The CMNF scenario is something I find the most erotic.

I am open to other BDSM elements as well, spanking, bondage etc. if they add to the d/s dynamics. (I will say however, I have no interest in thigh-high boots or the whole corset, stockings and suspenders sort of thing, nor am I too thrilled by what (admittedly little) I have seen of the fetish clubs.

I want eventually to have an LTR based on mutual interests and companionship, even love -o but with a strong DS dynamic, if the situation is really right I am also willing to relocate - in fact that would be a plus as I need a change. Realistically its more likely that little sexy adventures will come along first and thats fine as well because I also value my independence. I should mention that I am only looking for someone near my age, think 50 plus, older is fine but if youre much younger it probably wouldnt work. I wish I was younger but thats just the way it is.

Im creative and artistic and tend to gravitate towards others with drive, ambition, imagination and or a need to create and express things.

Like to see more of the world and do more things.

In general I am very laid-back and casual about things and I am positive, friendly and open-minded. I am multi-dimensional, have many interests outside of all this, as I assume most people do.

My preferred look is a very minimal and natural look, light makeup, strappy tops or tube tops, bare legs with sandals etc. I am looking for a man that is essentially straight, and top only.

Not interested in anything extreme or unhygienic.