3/4/2016 11:55:09 PM: Wow since the change from Collar me to Collar space the control on this site has become terrible.  I can't open the site anymore without seeing a ton of postings for 'free' web cam sites and other sex sites.  On top of that every other contact I receive is from someone trying to get me to send money to them in some foreign country.  So if I seem skeptical when we first talk please don't be offended.  It takes a little bit to find  out if you are actually a person. 2/18/2014 12:26:23 AM: I was criticized the other day for sending a generic message out to someone. Just a hi saw you profile and would like to talk thing. I see all the time people posting one liners and generic messages will be deleted. I understand people ( especially women ) get a lot of junk mail and its hard to respond to everything. I even felt guilty when this person called me on it. Then I thought it over. Mandy you subs, especially women in our society don't realize what goes into a getting a simple recognition that your message was even received. I always read a profile before sending a measage and most of the time put in something personal so you know I'm not a spam robot. However 3 out of 5 times I get no response whatsoever to my message. Not even a 'sorry not interested'. The other day I wrote a long message to someone all about their profile and what I admired about it and things we had in common. It was read then ignored. I sent a follow up just asking if the message came through and it was deleted unread. As I said I read profiles and rarely message someone that is incompatible, ( age gender, limits etc). So how is it people can sit here and demand that I spend a lot of time writing a saga then delete my message without reading it or even viewing my profile? Like I say I can understand now and then and everyone has a different situation but if someone takes the time to write you something, show a little respect and at least respond. And if I send you a message that's not all that interesting give mW a chance. It means I saw your profile and found you interesting. Accept the compliment and be courteous. I don't think I should really have to turn in a full job application and personally history to everyone on the web just to get someone to say hello. For those of you old enough remember that's how we used to meet people before the internet. Just saying hi would you like to talk. Anything else is just a pickup line anyway. And one last secret for those that think they are above responding to a hello and deserved a big letter begging for attention, I got way more responses from a message that I would cut and paste than I ever have from detailed personal messages. What does that mean? It means you people respond better to pickup lines than to actual honesty. If you want real conversation then start answering emails. Maybe we won't have so much trouble with fakes and jerks on this board. 12/19/2013 2:06:11 AM: Just a random thought and some information for anyone who wants to read down this far. I haven't really used the name Warlockk in years. I just don't feel like redoing the whole profile. Its not just that I'm being lazy but there are many people out there who still only know me by that name. Most people know me as Havoc or Master Havoc these days. For those of you who don't use stage names I know it all sounds kinda weird but there are a lot of reasons one may not want the name on their paycheck stub advertised to everyone. And as long as I'm using a made up name it should reflect me in some way. If your interested I can tell you where I got these names. But unless you are wearing my collar or under my training you may call me what you like. If its polite and I know your talking to me I will probably answer. If its not a polite name you better way it in a polite way or hope that I don't answer. Anyway just some late night musings if anyone cares. 11/19/2013 1:58:01 AM: Is there anyone real on here at all?  Does anyone want to actually submit in any way any more?  I spend half my time digging through the photoshopped cut and paste pictures and photos from online magazines.  Hours of actually reading peoples profiles and responding to them most of the time to just go unanswered, then to read the post about how no one reads their profiles.  Then someone actually responds and goes no where with the conversation or the relationship.  I actually spent over 2 months online training someone to make them 'feel more comfortable' about meeting in real life for the first time.  I have no problem working on a good candidate.  I spent about all my spare time between work and college courses planning and making contact and rearranging my schedule for someone who wants to serve me?  Does that really make sense? And what is my payoff for all this effort? One day she says I dont think I can commit and that's it.  No further call, email or text.  I mean no offense to those of you who actually want to commit to this lifestyle and represent yourselves appropriately, but know that you are few and far between.  I haven't seen anyone like that in a few years.  Anyone who truly knows me knows that while dominant I am quite flexible and capable of providing almost any type of experience.  All I ask is that you be true to yourself and honest to me.  I don't know how much longer I will bother to look on this site.  1/28/2013 2:49:35 PM: Wow, I was just message attacked. Someone I met on collar me just sent me a message.  I remember having a pleasant chat with this person several months ago. According to her recent message apparently I cut our chat abruptly. This is rude on my part and she let me know she thought so. My issue is, I don't remember this conversation other than it happened.  I apologized for leaving her hanging and  because I cant see any other reason for having done so assume it must have been a connection issue. I was then berated for not reestablishing contact, a legitimate request however clearly this person had all my contact information and could have easily contacted me as well. After apologizing again I asked if this person wanted to talk now or in the future as I said I seem to remember a pleasant conversation. I was told to 'Stay out of my life!'  I guess the overreaction concerns me.  If you read this post I am sorry for not contacting you, however I hardly know you.  Its not as if we were close friends or dated or even met in real life. We had one short chat. I hope you were just having a bad day or something and my actions did not have that profound an effect. Please feel free to contact me anytime. You have my information.  As for me I don't bother people after being told to 'F' off.