4/16/2018 2:09:32 PM: Masters slave Ariana knows no shame she's being fulfilled every day with happiness and the enjoyment of being who she has always wanted to be. Being able to become fully enthralled as her submissive slave self with no bucking with no thoughts about taking control from her master is what is occurring with the slave. Slave Ariana asked and begged her master to take control and stop her from always looking for ways to escape her potential Masters. There was a time this slave was able to think for herself completely however she has put her Trust in her master and her master does all the thinking for her now. There is no reason for her to turn back as when you beg a master to do something and they do it the slave will comply or they will find themselves punished or dealt with in a manner that all other owners will know how the slave behaves. Constant training was essential in the beginning for this slave to learn her place but her master was always there always reminding her in her head letting her know where her place was and letting her become what she had asked for when she begged for it. This slave can tell you that her master is constantly in her head she has no other thoughts but to worship and obey her master. The few thoughts that she has.... she shares with her master in order for her to either be told she is correct or to be corrected by her master. Master's Slave Ariana can tell you she has become a different person than what she was in the beginning when she asked to be taken and possessed. 4/8/2018 7:55:57 AM: Failure can bring you closer or push you further from your goals as a submissive. When you fail your Dom or your master it does not mean the end of the road it means you need to reset, be humble, be accepting that you are human and will never ever absolutely get it right every time. Listen and learn from your Dom or Master as they have their ways which they need you to be that may be differ from other owners. You may have been trained differently or have thoughts from being a beginner or maybe youre a long term slave that perceives an ideal or notion to be correct and true but find it comes up short. Being humble to your master or owner and opening a line of communication after they come to you with punishments or anger is key in learning how to be the best slave you can be. Don't expect every master to be understanding some are more rigid than others but know they are trying mold you into their perfect slave which by the way you will still fail it's picking yourself up learning accepting I'm going forward that makes you Worthy. Remember you will fail but you have two ears and one mouth and as a slave you must listen twice as hard and speak truthfully and honestly when spoken to that true growing will come. Don't be afraid to fail but don't be afraid to communicate either. 4/7/2018 1:19:02 PM: Things are never what they seem just when you believe you may be in control turns out you never were. One thing that I can definitely tell you is once again Choose Wisely Choose Wisely. The trust factor that you must have is exponential as if you have no trust then you are just playing in the BDSM Community you're not actually here for something serious or something true. At the same point be careful don't let yourself be the one that's being played and above all don't be the one that put yourself in trouble as you are the one they essentially that is giving yourself to a Dom and you must be mentally ready for that the physical part is the easy part it's the mental part that is most hard and if you're not completely and totally into letting your mind be free and let your Dom take control and you decide that you want to Buck all the time then you're never really given yourself a full chance therefore make sure you know what you're doing make sure you have no issues doing it as your dumb will not appreciate you and you will get a bad reputation 3/29/2018 11:44:03 AM: It is my opinion that the best thing to do as a submissive is to be the best submissive you can be. What does that mean that means to obey if you cannot learn to be obedient than this is not the lifestyle for you. Many people think that they can do this part time and for the most part I would not tell them that they are wrong. Instead though this is a commitment between two or more individuals for a lifetime. However the submissive must know their place. All dominant owners have their own ways of doing things and we try to fit as a piece of the puzzle for them is what's key. Knowing how not to Buck the system is also important. To establish rules at the beginning is the most important thing however you must understand that even being a submissive any owner does not have to abide by those rules but they try to so that it is a cohesive relationship. Nonetheless it is my opinion if you want to be a good submissive you must learn to let go of everything you must be able to become happy with one's own self by knowing that you are subservient to the dominant owner. My own happiness stems from me learning how to be more submissive more obedient to my owner I must learn 2 speak only when spoken to and the thousand other things that my owner intended me to be. I believe true self happiness is finding one's own destiny and being happy and content Within one's own self. If you cannot do that then this is not the life for you. One must learn to to be obedient and pleasing to your owner and we do that by finding our compatible owner for our selves. The only thing left I can say is if you have to reach out for help the next step I would tell you is possibly hypnosis to learn how to be more submissive to do right by your owner these are not things that everyone will do but in my case I will tell you that I need to stop fighting internally and learn that sometimes you need extra help mentally to be able to do the proper things for owner with no questions asked. 3/9/2018 4:34:48 PM: Findind the right daddy or master or dominatrix is key....dont just settle for the first person that wants to own you or u to serve....i have had 3 previous owners n 2 have been great. Thats cuz i kno wat i like. Its pertinent that you have standards and that you live up to those for your on sake...just because you may be a slave or owner doesnt mean you settle...we all kno our wants and desires and pleasures that stimulate us...make sure to thine ownself be true...u will find that bond strengthens as your relationship grows from both parties when you search and find the one...happy hunting