I've been in this lifestyle my entire adult life. Many years ago I was active in the lifestyle, however due to work, and family, I became private regarding lifestyle choices. Let me state this upfront , I am married and am in an open relationship. I am looking for a female submissive/slave. The mental and emotional connection is more important to me than anything else. Without that, at least for me it's topping, and I derive no pleasure in that.
I'm looking for someone who is dark, who wants to explore the vast darkness without judgement.
Give me as much control as possible because I thrive on the responsibility of it. I do take that very seriously and hold myself accountable should I miscalculate something. Should you decide to talk to me, be honest and upfront about what you're looking for. If you wish to go as deep as possible down the proverbial rabbit hole, perhaps we should talk. Friendship is always welcome as well.