Hetero Male Slave, 55, London & SE, United Kingdom
London & SE
Did you enjoy bullying other, physically or mentally weaker, children at school?
Did there come a point where you realised that part of your gratification was sexual?
Do you still enjoy doing it now, perhaps discreetly because the word bully has become a taboo?
We hide our true selves behind a mask at home and at work. You pretend to be loving and caring. I pretend to be confident and assertive. But you are a natural bully and I am a natural victim.
Perhaps we can give each what we need, from time to time and relieve the pressure to be ourselves?
Words I like:
A lot of people misunderstand what I think of as bullying, so here is an official definition, with which I concur:
Bullying is the use of force, threat, or coercion to abuse, intimidate, or aggressively dominate others. The behaviour is often repeated and habitual. One essential prerequisite is the perception, by the bully or by others, of an imbalance of social or physical power, which distinguishes bullying from conflict. Behaviours used to assert such domination can include verbal harassment or threat, physical assault or coercion, and such acts may be directed repeatedly towards particular targets.