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PLEASE READ BEFORE CONTACTING ME!

From time to time I do travel in the Southeast US and I will post where I will be traveling to if I have time to do interviews. I do travel to Birmingham Al quite often but I will not make acceptions to interview someone at the last moment and you will accommodate me not the other way around.

I WILL BE IN NASHVILLE TN JUNE 18-20, 2010

I don't have time for males who just want to email and talk online about meeting. I love teaching and especially newbies but I'm not going to discuss my sessions with you, those are private. If you want to know what goes on come meet me I promise you are in safe hands and I have a fully equipped dungeon.

I am a lifestyle FemDom and you do not mandate what takes place in a session with a true lifestyle dominant so you boys emailing me stating what you want take a hint. I suggest you find out more about this lifestyle before approaching someone and requesting such a task without knowledge of how to approach someone. Only dominatrix or those wannabes fulfill requests, this is about what I want and you'll get what you want when I see fit. I consider this act trying to top from the bottom and mandating what takes place in a session with me would get your ass whipped severely.



If you are interested in me then you better make plans within a month to meet me face to face and do it, don't just talk about it. Don't expect to play on a first meeting either. I can't stand subs that try to top from the bottom and don't have manners.

I don't have time or interest in training online, on the phone by email etc., I am REAL.

I look forward to meeting that perfect subbie to add to my household. I adore subs that interests are servitude, foot worship, CBT and did I say foot worship? If your only interest is coming to me for a session and nothing more then we probably aren't going to get a long. A sub that interests me HAS to not be interested in servitude but he better be willing to be of service to me.(For you sex fiends I don't mean sexually either)


I am always traveling throughout the southeast so drop me a line if interested who knows I may be in your area. I do travel to Birmingham AL and to Nashville, Tn quite often and to Atlanta, GA on occasion. I can be persuaded to travel also for the right sub who is willing to pay my gas expenses and or lodging but I do not charge fees. If you are in the area contact me and I'll give specifics and perhaps we can meet for a cup of coffee/tea.


These are mostly short weekend trips and I'll be returning to Alabama if interested in meeting contact me and I'll send you my cell number if you are sincere, don't bother me if you are looking for sex.

I travel constantly within northern Alabama and Nashville, I am less than 2 hours from the heart of Nashville, and just under that also from Birmingham AL and 4 hours from Atlanta, GA.

I am a BBW so if that bothers you don't waste your time reading any further.

I do have pictures that are not posted here that I'll gladly share once I get to know you. I'm still searching for that sub that wants it all, a dominant as his Mistress, friend and even possibly a lover. Age and looks are not important, attitude is but in general I prefer males over 30.

Please read my journal entries to see what I am seeking and where I am located before emailing me. I'm not looking for a lover but if it ends up we are not only dominant and submissive but lovers that would be great too. I'm not just here seeking kinky sex, my journal tells it all.

I just love a male with a cute butt
I am sincere about the lifestyle and expect you to be also. I'm not here seeking online play or kinky sex.

I hear so often about the males on here that are fakes but I hear just as often about the females on here pretending to be something they are not. You are not only playing with someones body and life but their mind when you try and pretend you know what you are doing. If you are truly interested in this lifestyle then find someone to mentor you if you are here within this lifestyle seeking someone only for financial gain or your sexual needs then go to the appropriate place and find you someone on a dating or swingers site for that.

Also to the males on this site I have had plenty males come to me and say this or that Fem has stated they know me and use me as a referral. Don't believe what everyone says come ask me I will gladly tell you if I know someone and I can give reliable references for myself also.

Happy Hunting!
8/11/2008 11:13:45 AM

Our 8 year anniversary party was a sucess and I have agreed to start having parties again every 3 months or so. If you are interested in attending a femdom malesub party the next one will be November 22 so you need to make arraqngements to be interviewed ASAP.

7/24/2008 2:09:07 PM
FDMS 8 year anniversary Party August 9, 2008 (FemDom-MaleSubs only including switches in respective modes) to be held in Northwest Alabama.

It's been three years since we've had an event and most
are held here in North Alabama in Limestone County, only exact
directions will be sent to those that RSVP with a referral if needed.

There should be some coming from Nashville, Birmingham and possibly
even Georgia that if distance is a problem would share expenses or a
ride so ask if you need a ride or want to share gas expenses etc. We
also provide room for those who wish to sleep over just bring
airmatress, pilllow etc., we have plenty of room for those who wish
to stay overnight we just ask to bring your own mattress and linens.



 I do know most
group leaders although I have been out of the community events and
many of you may not know me or heard of me or FDMS events just ask
we'll work out a referral.


I'm sure there are others that I know and would gladly take referrals
from just ask me.


7/11/2008 1:27:49 PM
January 11, 2008  LAST UPDATE
I've been taking a break from the lifestyle as in community type things, demos, parties etc., until this past weekend I went to a seminar in B'ham AL ONLY  because it was Jay Wiseman doing the demo. To  my surprise there were rumors going around that I had left the lifestyle LOL I will never leave the lifestyle but I don't always agree with what is going on in the community like people who are not trained calling themselves pros and all they are doing is seeking money or sex, people impersonating others and the community not doing anything about it. When I first started learning about this lifestyle over 13 years ago that was a major no no and would get you blackballed but I guess impersonating someone down to using their name and saying you run a femdom group that this person runs is ok in this day and age.

So for those that are curious my demise is greatly exaggerated! I am still alive! I am still active in the lifestyle I just choose not to be active in the BDSM community because most are so damn fake.

7/2/2008 7:00:07 PM
I attended a FemDom this past weekend in Birmingham. It was nice to see some faces I knew and some I didn't. I had a good time but the location was too small and way too hot. I couldn't even swing my 4ft whip the space was so crowded. I"m going to another the last of July in Memphis with much more space thank goodness. If I can get some boys to help paint and clean up my basement so I can set my dungeon back up I plan on having a Femdom part for the 8th anniversary of my femdom group.
10/7/2005 6:30:32 AM

Please if you read my profile and you are interested enough to contact me don't send one liners they don't impress me if you email me tell me something about you. One liners don't hold my interest so don't waste my time.

9/21/2005 8:47:09 AM
I seem to be getting a lot of people adding my profile as a favorite and the list keeps growing but they are either on other side of the world or at least on the other side of the US.

I'm always open to meeting other people in the lifestyle so drop me a line who knows we may have some nice conversation.

I'm still looking for that foot puppy that wants to be mine!
7/31/2005 10:27:35 PM
Well it's been some time since I have made a journal entry here. I have spoken with quite a few submissives from collarme and some have impressed me and frankly some have made  me laugh hysterically because they are so phoney. One in particular has caught my attention and we shall see where that goes for now. Also I have met a male locally not even through this list or any other BDSM type list but of all places a BBW group. We originally started talking online and then when I saw a picture he was so familiar and come to find out we met several years ago at one of my own parties but at that time he was with someone else. He's even a foot puppy!

Guys keep it honest and you'll find that special lady, omitting on purpose or hiding things is the same as lying- don't do it honesty, trust, loyalty and sincerity are  very important things to me and if you lie about something simple how am I to know what else you are lying about? Once you have lied there goes the trust, loyalty and sincerity out the window with the honesty.


Guys if you aren't in my area or willilng to come to my area don't waste my time. As stated here previously I don't do online and I don't do long distance phone or cyber training.
6/13/2005 11:01:23 PM
Looking forward to some rest and relaxation in Marietta GA for a day or two I'm due some comfort and need to get away from some stress. If you're interested in pampering a femdom by the pool drop me a line! I'll be in Marietta GA laying by the pool on Delk Road/LaQuinta on June 22 and 23rd leaving out on the 24th. I'm looking to meet some nice sincere submissives.
6/12/2005 8:34:10 PM
Still searching and searching for a sincere submissive someone who is not a player and wants to be loyal and committed to me. Someone that is comfortable in a poly relationship and also that is sincere about wanting to meet. I"m tired of males contacting me only wanting to talk trash online or on the phone. Step up and come meet me I don't have time for games and I am tired of game players so if you are interested and email be prepared to meet face to face if interests seem to spark putting me off will get you  no where with me.
5/23/2005 6:24:44 AM
I'm still searching. I have met a few interesting people online via this venue but so far no one for me personally since so few actually want to meet in person. I would love to meet someone interested in a poly relationship that enjoys some of the same things I do outside the lifestyle also. I love to fish, go swimming, antigues, yard sales and every now and then like to put on my boots and go dancing! I don't do karaoke but love to watch.

Is there a sub out there for me that enjoys some of those things or would maybe at least like to experience those with me and some interesting play also?

Aren't there any foot puppies in Alabama or the TN Valley?
4/25/2005 6:01:39 PM
I've been offline due to computer repairs for about a month now but I am now back online and active. I am also actively seeking a submissive again. Are you out there? Send me an email and let's talk don't be scared to approach me you'll never know until you contact me we may be like two peas in a pod.
3/5/2005 9:08:46 PM
Are there any real submissives left out there? I mean the kind that really want to serve, really want to belong to someone and be loved and cherished or are they all little whoremongers? Recently I've had three different men to tell me they were afraid to approach me because I seemed either unapproachable because they were not worthy of my time? What's up with that guys? You never know til you ask me so don't be assuming things. Looks is not  important to me attitude is, age isn't important either but I do prefer men 35+ but that doesn't mean I can't meet someone younger and hit it off just that I am going to be more cautious but with the buttheads I have dealt with the last 6 months I'm going to be way more cautious anyway.........don't assume anything especially when it comes to men.

If you email me and you don't get a response email again I answer all emails even if I am not interested unless you email and you are rude or vulgar.
12/9/2004 11:36:12 PM
Well I have decided to give this site another chance I've had some interesting emails and conversations. Still hoping to find that submissive that fits in my life please read my journal entry back in September for what I am seeking.
10/29/2004 1:10:30 PM
I am no longer looking for a submissive, I thought I had found the one I wanted but things did not work out due to outside forces. I am not ready personally to see, talk or play with anyone but if you are interested in a femdom group that covers the Southeast US please do drop me a line.
9/12/2004 11:54:15 PM
I'm still here met a lot of interesting people online, had some good conversations, directed a few people towards my femdom malesub group and other groups locally. I'm still looking for that submissive that is interested in a long term poly relationship, it doesn't have to be 24/7 as in a live in but  I do want a dedicated submissive that would enjoy going to events with me, enjoys some of the same things I do in day to day life and in this lifestyle. Someone that may just be a good friend to the outside world or it could be someone that may become more of an intimate relationship. Are you looking for a relationship with someone that will love you, take care of your submissive needs, be in control but know when to let you be a man and just enjoy the company? I have enough love to go around and then some, I yearn to find that submissive that can be comfortable in knowing that he is mine but also accept that I have another and know that I love them both equally. I am a bit of a sensual dominant but can be sadistic. I do believe in punishment but yet do not desire to give punishments. I do enjoy the occasional session with a submissive that comes along but my interests lie in someone that I can build a loving relationship with, someone that is interested in building that relationship on trust and honesty. Is that too much to ask for? Some times I think it is because I've not found that person yet....it's been a long search but when we finally find each other I am sure it will be well worth the wait. If you are out there and looking for a partner too keep up the search and the faith that they are out there. I do because I know he is out there somewhere I just wish he'd hurry up and show up on my doorstep I'm not getting any youngerLooking back over my profile I see I have not made an extended list of my interests and my limits. I have no interest in  needles, cutting, bloodletting, scat, golden showers, diapers, age play or any other type of toilet training. My hard limits are of course the obvious. I have a minimal interest in anal and strap on play which comes and goes with my moods, likewise I am the same with feminization, basically it's about me and when I am the mood for strap on play and feminization not about when you want it. If I am in the mood for either then the fun is on! I love nipple torture!! No silly not me the subbie's nipples!! I just adore a nipple slut. Servitude is a must if a sub is not interested in serving me a drink or fixing me a meal, helping with household chores, drawing me a bath or at least some type of service and only interested in playing then he's  not for me. I do like an occaisional session just for the fun of it but I spend most of my time looking for someone that is sincere about a lasting dedicated relationship. I'm not looking for the love of my life or a  husband not even necessarily a lover but if we choose to take that route that is fine also. I love doing CBT including parachutes with weights (love the Bass pro shop in Nashville, TN) cock bondage, all types of flagellation and percussion play. I am especially fond of canes and crops. Foot massages and foot worship just sends me over the edge!! I would love to have a foot puppy around all the time so if you are a foot puppy and not particularly interested in a relationship drop me a line anyway! We can talk! Please don't bother emailing if you are not sincere or not in my area or close by, I'm not interested in hearing how you'll move to me and move in my house I wasn't born yesterday and I am not supporting anyone.
9/11/2004 8:42:54 PM
Looking back over my profile I see I have not made an extended list of my interests and my limits. I have no interest in  needles, cutting, bloodletting, scat, golden showers, diapers, age play or any other type of toilet training. My hard limits are of course the obvious; beastiality and children. I have a minimal interest in anal and strap on play which comes and goes with my moods, likewise I am the same with feminization, basically it's about me and when I am the mood for strap on play and feminization not about when you want it. If I am in the mood for either then the fun is on! I love nipple torture!! No silly not me the subbie's nipples!! I just adore a nipple slut. Servitude is a must if a sub is not interested in serving me a drink or fixing me a meal, helping with household chores, drawing me a bath or at least some type of service and only interested in playing then he's  not for me. I do like an occaisional session just for the fun of it but I spend most of my time looking for someone that is sincere about a lasting dedicated relationship. I'm not looking for the love of my life or a  husband not even necessarily a lover but if we choose to take that route that is fine also. I love doing CBT including parachutes with weights (love the Bass pro shop in Nashville, TN) cock bondage, all types of flagellation and percussion play. I am especially fond of canes and crops. Foot massages and foot worship just sends me over the edge!! I would love to have a foot puppy around all the time so if you are a foot puppy and not particularly interested in a relationship drop me a line anyway! We can talk! Please don't bother emailing if you are not sincere or not in my area or close by, I'm not interested in hearing how you'll move to me and move in my house I wasn't born yesterday and I am not supporting anyone. I can also be reached on yahoo at MssThunderandToy or on AOL at the same screen name.
9/11/2004 9:26:33 AM
I'm still here met a lot of interesting people online, had some good conversations, directed a few people towards my femdom group http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FDMS-Discussion/

I'm still looking for that submissive that is interested in a long term poly relationship, it doesn't have to be 24/7 as in a live in but  I do want a dedicated submissive that would enjoy going to events with me, enjoys some of the same things I do in day to day life and in this lifestyle. Someone that may just be a good friend to the outside world or it could be someone that may become more of an intimate relationship. Are you looking for a relationship with someone that will love you, take care of your submissive needs, be in control but know when to let you be a man and just enjoy the company? I have enough love to go around and then some, I yearn to find that submissive that can be comfortable in knowing that he is mine but also accept that I have another and know that I love them both equally. I am a bit of a sensual dominant but can be sadistic. I do believe in punishment but yet do not desire to give punishments. I do enjoy the occasional session with a submissive that comes along but my interests lie in someone that I can build a loving relationship with, someone that is interested in building that relationship on trust and honesty. Is that too much to ask for? Some times I think it is because I've not found that person yet....it's been a long search but when we finally find each other I am sure it will be well worth the wait. If you are out there and looking for a partner too keep up the search and the faith that they are out there. I do because I know he is out there somewhere I just wish he'd hurry up and show up on my doorstep I'm not getting any younger.
8/30/2004 9:39:38 AM
There are most certainly some idiots here but there has to be some out there that know how to speak to a FemDom and how to act. Are you sincere and out there? Don't email me if you aren't sincere and I don't care to hear from those only looking for sex.
6/30/2004 10:39:16 AM
I've not had much luck here, I have had several emails but  most are seeking sex only and that is not what I am seeking, even if you aren't interested in me but are sincere I do run a femdom group for the Southeast that covers, AL, TN, GA, FL, MS, KY, SC, LA email me here or on Yahoo as MssThunder247 for more information.

I am personally seeking a houseboy or a male that is interested in a long term poly relationship as I already have one slave a poly relationship is a must, this does not mean you have to be bi but must be open to a poly relationship. I travel a lot through the southeast and the person applying must be able to travel occasionally.

Ms'Lori
1/12/2004 10:10:18 PM
I am a dominant BBW and live in North Alabama with my collared slave 24/7 but that doesn't mean I am not interested in meeting other submissives. I also run a femdom group for Alabama and if you are interested in finding a Domme in a safe environment you may be interested in the AFDMS group.