*Please note if you email me and start off a conversation with "what's up", "hello", or "how are you doing" I will likely not respond.. I did put some effort into my profile, and I am a busy person and do not have a lot of time to respond to emails with no substance. I am willing to put out as much effort as you are. 

I would like to find a dominant man who is loving and kind but can be strict and rough as well. I have been here before so I am not new, but left for a while. I am back. I seek someone who is funny and intelligent. I also want someone who is open to all sorts of ideas and experimentation. What do I bring to the table? I am extremely loving and giving. I am fun, sexual, and enjoy pleasing the right man. I can hold a conversation, make a great cocktail and then bring you your slippers. I am open to many things. I do have to add it you are married and she is unaware please do not expect me to go there. We can chat and be friends but I do not want to get involved in that. To answer a question I get asked often...can I relocate? Technically I suppose I could, but I have no desire to do so. My career is here, my friends are here, my life is here, and I love Chicago. Yes I even like winter. I hope that clears that up. People often ask me how my search is going. I am not searching for anything. I am open and available should that right Dom come along. I am very much happy with myself and my life. I think having a Dom could only add to my happiness and I hope I could make him happy as well. I am not here all the time seeking. I am out living my life. I hope someone comes along who wants to join me and help me live life to its fullest.