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painInTheRomance

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Female Dominant, 30, St Paul, Minnesota
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About painInTheRomance

submissive male, talented, seeks
Dominant Lady to serve, please,
and know.

Prefer strict Women,

but with compassion, intelligence, personality, honour, sense of humour, caring; but no less capable.

Sadists encouraged to enquire.

Am seeking both a Lady,
and possibly a sometime 'bitch'. . .
- (your prerogative, naturally).
Looking for power exchange,
with the right connection/Woman,
ideally leading to long term.
- - - -- -
In the meantime,
am also looking to meet and know all varieties of interesting, talented, powerful Women,
for fun, knowledge, and experience.
Practice brings perfection...!
Fun is the spice of life.

'Ouch!' is NOT a safeword, FYI.

This submissive is serious, respectful, (sometimes complicated - aren't we all?), but not a time waster, not seeking for self-absorbed, self-centered, or wanking fetish reasons.
Am somewhat new to heavier bdsm, only now stepping up from long time immersion in fetish, 'exiting to Eden'. Eager and sincere.

About me:
Confident, humble, attractive. Professionally employed, personally responsible, university educated, athletic, (skiing - water and frozen, swimming, hiking, cycling, climbing); talented in creative arts, as well as certain crafts.
I find great pleasure and meaning in service.

Love music, dancing, dance, theatre, history, movies, dining, coffee, sun and rain, reading, travel, beaches, rivers,
and mountains.
Never married, (not yet, anyway).
Never collared, yet, either...

- (though not without experience).


Weakness for...
Love/fetish romantic things like long, deep, kisses in new, wild, interesting and fun places . . . But who said subs get/get to give kisses like that?...and of course, stockings, garters, lace, your curves, tight-laced corsets...these make me weak and melting like kryptonite.

A wicked laugh curls my toes, as will the smell of new leather, the sight or sound of sexy high heels, a zipper, the crack of a flogger on flesh, a gutteral moan (how romantic!)...Your presence and demeanor...commanding my submission without a word, me at your feet.

Fetishes are great,
power and brilliant situations are better.
The mind is potentially the sexiest ass-et on a gorgeous, powerful Woman.

Unlike a penis, a hard-limit can get flaccid when She or I get turned on enough.



What's my sign?
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"YIELD"
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Was away for some time. Gave up on this format being worthwhile. And, maybe is now that much better!
Not Opus... It's a different kind of Torment.

D/s and bdsm are powerful things - like a drug - that can drown one's sensibilities, losing yourself in the space.

When you come out of it, if you give your all to make it right, to establish trust, forgiveness - should she still refuse, there is nothing left for you to do. At such a point, the problem is hers, not yours. You've Done all you can. Wash your hands of it, maybe she wasn't worth it.
One for the Ladies...

Three men were hiking through a forest when they came upon a large raging, violent river. Needing to get to the other side, the first man prayed: "God, please give me the strength to cross the river."

Poof! . God gave him big arms and strong legs and he was able to swim across in about 2 hours, having almost drowned twice.

After witnessing that, the second man prayed: "God, please give me strength and the tools to cross the river"

Poof! . God gave him a rowboat and strong arms and strong legs and he was able to row across in about an hour after almost capsizing once.

Seeing what happened to the first two men, the third man prayed: "God, please give me the strength, the tools and the intelligence to cross the river"

Poof! ... He was turned into a woman. She checked the map, hiked one hundred yards up stream and walked across the bridge.

FOR THE RECORD! : It should be noted that one of my most redeeming qualities is vein of character that amounts to a nearly 'incorrigible, cheeky, naughty brat'.  =D    =0







This is difficult to say without offending a broad group of people. First I must preface this with, as far as 'friends', etc. go, all are welcome.

Over the course of my life I've gone from hating physical fitness, to being very active.

In Jr. High School I could hardly run a lap around the track.
In High School, I waived gym class, I thought it to be a waste of academic time, and I hated the morons in the locker room.
... but I did struggle through 3 years of swim team, and learned the hard way to begin to understand the pain and joy of a serious workout. (It's also where I learned to snap towels really well! Heheee - -  ;P   )

Today I love hiking, cycling, and all kinds of fitness. It's something I would love to share with a serious partner as well, at least in small ways.  

I generally work hard at staying fit. Is it not fair of me to desire a similar - or like-minded to some degree - philosophy from someone I might be long term, as in collared to for very long term? (Not really a question).

As far as friends go, all are welcome.

But women who are very overweight- as in obese -  as nice and wonderful, and experienced as you might be, are on my short list of hard limits. Sorry, but it's a real turn off for me. A deal breaker. Thanks for understanding. Actually, I feel the same way about overweight submissives. I try to keep it from being a prejudice, but even so,..
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