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	About Painis4Pleasure Are you a man who enjoys life and all the pleasures it can bring? Most of you will say, "Hell Ya!" Well, I'm a submissive looking for a Dom just like that. I would love to have the pleasure of serving you. I enjoy many aspects of D/S, but I also enjoy the everyday fun things, too. I need a Dom that will really take control of me and help me grow in this lifestyle. I want to explore the pain as pleasure area more. I crave some pain while being used for my Dom's pleasure. He has to be open about his feelings-if he can't or won't express them, I won't be comfortable in our relationship. I would hope that it would develop into a LTR or even more. I am very upfront and speak my mind about most things. No, I'm not a doormat by a longshot! I'm not looking to explore my female side with another female-not my cup of tea. I don't want to share my Dom with another woman (sub) either. I'm disease free and want to stay that way. Also, I am not interested in men who smoke or who drink a lot. Please, no married men. Been there, done that (a BIG mistake), and only caused heartaches all around. Please email if interested. Thanks. PS: I am a BBW , so if you're looking for that perfect body-keep looking, it's not me. I have the perfect attitude, though! Also, I am seeking a Dom over 40, so please respect that age limit...thank you.

IT IS CLEAR AS A BELL

We sit and we type, and stare at our screens
We all have to wonder, what this possibly means.

With our mouse we roam, through the rooms in a maze
Looking for something or someone,
as we sit in a daze.

We chat with each other, we type all our woes
Small groups we do form, and
gang up on our foes.

We wait for somebody to type out our name,
We want recognition, but it is always the same.

We give kisses and hugs and sometimes flirt
In IM's we chat deeply, and
reveal why we hurt.

We do form friendships -but-
why we don't know
But some of these friendships,
will flourish and grow.

Why is it on screen, we can be so bold
Telling our secrets, that have never been told.

Why is it we share
the thoughts in our mind
With those we can't see,
as though we were blind.

The answer is simple,
it is as clear as a bell.
We all have our problems, and
need someone to tell.

We can't tell real people, but tell someone we must,
So we turn to the 'puter, and to those we can trust.

Even though it is crazy,
the truth still remains
They are friends without faces,
and odd little names.

Author: Unknown

FOOD FOR THOUGHT FOR SUBMISSIVES:

"Every day you may make progress.
Every step may be fruitful.
Yet there will be a stretch out before you,
an ever-lengthening, ever-ascending,
ever-improving path.

You know you will never get to
the end of the journey.
But this, so far from discouraging,
only adds to the joy and glory
of the climb!"
?..Winston Churchill

The needs of a submissive in a D/s relationship are simple. Here are but a few:

1. The need for love and unconditional acceptance.

2. The need for certainty and permanence.

3. The need for careful guidance.

4. The need for containment and clear boundaries of behavior.

5. The need for consistent and logical consequences for behavior.

6. The need to be reassured and praised but never in a patronizing manner.

7. The need to know that the One to whom she is pledged will not lie to her or hide anything from her.

I'm not sure where I found these and so i can not give credit where credit is due...but these are so true for those of us who take submission seriously and are not here for the games.

"I've learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone.
People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back."
. . .Maya Angelou

Something all Doms should consider:

I hope I shall possess firmness and virtue enough to maintain what I consider the most enviable of all titles, the character of an honest man.
-- George Washington

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

There comes a point in your life when you realize:

who matters,
who never did,
who won't anymore..
and who always will.
So, don't worry about people from your past,
there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.

Hope your New Year is the best ever! I wish everyone health, happiness, and the joy of finding the right partner for you. I have, now if only he would realize that!!!!

Isn't it amazing that the "nice, honest" subs get the boot and the sub bitches get the Dom????

Live and learn i say, should i become a bitch???

Naw, why lower myself to that level!

RANT OVER.

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