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Female Dominant, 30, St Paul, Minnesota
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Male Dominant, 41, Travel-NY, FL, CA, New York
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About PainISDiscipline
Very strict and demanding Mistress.
Fear and pain increase one's ability to remember requirements. Strict discipline encourages the development of positive habits and pleasing behaviors which in turn increases one's worth to one's Domina.
My flavor of discipline includes corporal punishment or other physical pain, personal humiliation, mindless/thankless chores as well as educational lectures on remedial topics such as chivalry, ethics and excruciatingly correct behavior that one should have picked up from one's mother, but somehow failed to do so.
Punishment is a form of love, though some are too blind to see that. There is nothing worse than an undisciplined boy, sniffing around like an un-neutered dog...
There are lots of types of pain to be used as an aid to learning. Pain of corporal punishment, Pain of longing for release. Pain of being used as a thing and not recognized as a person. Pain of being locked in a cage while Mistress enjoys time with others. Pain of knowing that you failed her and are unworthy of her love.
I have little time for boys who are unsuitable, who just want to use me and my time to fulfill their pathetic little wank needs. Boys who are too cheap or lazy to pay a professional dominatrix should look elsewhere. Professional domination is a VALID choice when one has nothing more to give than the session time and fee.
I am looking for someone who is willing to give me himself. ALL of him. Nothing held back. Of course, this takes time. He has to make sure he can trust me with his life which I very much appreciate is no small thing.
If you are looking for a strict, demanding and loving mistress and can write an email with whole sentences telling me why you might be of interest to me, I would be happy to read it and I will reply if you follow the caveats below (though perhaps not at the speed you'd desire).
My interests in you would be piqued if somehow you could demonstrate how you fit into one (preferably more) of the following categories.
Men who are extraordinarily intelligent. Men who think about more than their penis Men who are handy Men who appreciate art, architecture and music Men who like pleasing but need someone to take charge. Men who balance their everyday alpha life with evenings as omega Men who are in the Pacific Northwest Men who understand that a webcam is no substitute for real life Men who have experienced submission and understand how truly difficult, yet rewarding bending one's will to the will of his domina can be Men who understand pain is the door to a man's soul
Now of course I realize that I ask for quite a lot, but I also have quite a lot to offer. I am extremely skilled at my craft. I am intelligent, fun, active and relentless.
I am a third generation domina, so this is not some lifestyle I picked up on the internet. In fact, my first (and only) vanilla marriage failed because he did not follow through on his promises of what I now know to be submission -- though of course at the time I had no idea what submission was, I only knew that it resonated with me.
I realize that one has to balance one's limited time with what is most likely a very low probability of a response, so terse inquiries or form letters can be a way of conserving scarce resources. All I ask is that you show me how what you have to offer dovetails with what I am looking for. If you cannot help me by providing me with such details, I am sure you will completely understand if I don't reply.
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After some really enjoyable play sessions with women, especially with one very masochistic girl (you know who you are) and one really fun needle scene topping a woman with my favorite tag-team partner, Susan -- I find I am more and more interested in exploring with women. ?
I especially like the whole tag-team genre, where a bunch of women -- with maybe a sub male (because a sub males stows his ego) helping --? get together to top a lucky/hapless victim.?
I like the shared community of women torturing -- sort of like sharing a meal or a dessert.?? I really like the energy.?
I'm hoping to do this more often.
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Whew, I am innundated....please refrain from emailing me for a bit -- I need to catch my breath
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I finally reactivated my profile and replied to the few inquiries in my mailbox.? I've been away quite a while but am looking forward to Leather Pride Week here in the Pacific Northwest, though I find I am more interested in private activities rather than public play parties.? Though I do consider myself an exhibitionist, I really am more interested in how pain and submission meld one's soul to that of one's domina.
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