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Male Dominant, 46, Tel Aviv
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About OscarHargraves
I'm a straight Caucasian male, married (with NO intention of leaving), and my wife knows but does not play.
I'm 5'10", 210 lbs, brown eyes and brown (now with some grey) hair. I'm an experienced Dom who enjoys the mental parts of a D's relationship as much as the physical relationship. 
I'm not looking for any other relationships at this time. My interests include: mostly the B&D side of BDSM. Light bondage, loving discipline, play rape, spankings, oral and anal sex, are the things I'm specifically interested in. I have also had some experience in training female Subs and MIGHT consider doing that again in the ABQ area under special circumstances. I always insist on safe words and I am NOT into extreme pain, marking or scarring, edge play, scat, water sports or anything to do with blood.
I am a gentleman in public but I can, if my partner desires it, be verbally abusive and humiliate her in private. I am an experienced spanker and enjoy spanking a woman with my hand, a belt, a strap, an ass slapper or a soft whip while I'm 'forcing' her to submit to my will.
I am NOT interested in younger girls, say under 35, since they typically aren't mature enough to match my interests. |
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Well as all things go, this too had to end. I can't blame her; in fact I encouraged her to keep looking for Mr. Right. Now it seems she found him. He married her and I really wonder if he knows just how lucky he really is.? I've seen her several times since. We cross paths and I note she smiles and looks happy. That's a good thing, but my gosh do I miss her. |
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Again I find myself being amazed that a lady so wonderful is interested in a guy like me. She is smart and fun and knows how to please. I feel like the world is a little brighter when she smiles at me. I know that I'm not really what she needs or wants but Gawd, I hope she let's me hang around for awhile anyway. |
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Yesterday I met a lady who is both strong and submissive. She is articulate and fun to talk too. I really don't know where this will go, but I sure hope we can be friends. I enjoy her company more than almost any woman I have ever met on one of these sites........ |
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I've been meeting some new and interesting ladies, at least on email, and I'm looking forward to meeting one in person soon. I've just about given up on 'the boards' since there seems to be such a clicke of people who just want to re-hash the same old stuff. I'd like to see someone (moderators) go in and throw out some (read most) of the old stuff on there and clean it up so people could find things easier. I'd also sure like to see some new ideas and information there for us 'wannabes' as the professionals like to call us. |
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Been gone from the boards for awhile. Got bored with the same people always asking the same dumb questions. Sure wish I (or someone else) could find a way to 'spice it up' some. Some of these people seem to do nothing but live on these boards. I don't understand how they can NOT be bored. |
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I find it amazing how many people on this site seem to think that you are a 'wannabe' or a fake unless you believe and do things just the way they do. That opinion is getting very old and worn out with me.  |
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My father would have been 89 yrs old today. He's been gone over two years now and I still miss him a lot.
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Well I'm learning a lot here. I find that there are people who really know what they are and what they want, AND there are those that don't quite fit that bill. I've made some new friends and hope to make a lot more. I've been pleasantly surprised that my being married doesn't scare people off here like it does on some other sites. |
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Most interesting site to date. People here seem to be real and interesting. I hope to find someone who has the same interests I do but lives in the real world too. |
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Found out how to get an avatar but didn't see one I wanted. I wonder if they will let me use one of my own? |
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9 Aug 05
I joined Collarme.com today and filled out the profile. Can't seem to find a way to 'browse' the people here though. |
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