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I am in Bonnie Scotland Just looking - looking for her and yes i am looking all over the world and willing and able to relocate to be with her or relocate her to Bonnie Scotland. Used to be on here a lot, but went away being fed up with the players BUT I have come back! I am not quite sure if this is a good thing and hoping that things have got better here. but looking around all I see is lots of young fin dommes. I'm looking for someone interested in a long term D/s relationship, but until I find that person or they find me I may be interested in playing now and again. D/s is something I hold very dear to me, and isn't just an "in the bedroom" kind of thing, though I am almost totally sexually submissive. I am looking for a loving female led relationship where my need and ability to make any decisions has been totally removed and I am happy and content just to please pleasure and obey "my Owner" I need this Vanilla and FLR/D/s dynamic to be the bedrock of a very successful relationship. Having given this more thought, I think it is not a good idea to lay down a specification for My 'potential' Owner, as I am sure, that would be making sure, the one that I could and would connect with was for some reason not listed in the sort of Lady I seek. That said she will be dominant, demanding, assertive, intelligent, a natural leader, with real presence, very very feminine, warm and loving, a caring, sharing, tactile Lady, who seeks togetherness but with a twist (she will lead and I will follow) and forever to the end of our days. It would be awesome if she was highly sexed and sexually predatory, a vamp, a seductress, a mesmerising siren, a manipulator of men, who understands and enjoys how to use her feminine ways to achieve her goals in life. I am seeking a Female Led Relationship with what some may see as a kinky lifestyle HOWEVER I am NOT into 24/7 D/s and or BDSM Nor BDSM Protocols. Doubly so in things like CAPITALISATION of the Dominant and lower case for the submissive......lets be real. I am looking for a real connection a FLR with D/s with vanilla in public and when we are just feeling close and seek some tenderness sunggled up on the couch together sharing real intimacy maybe listening to some lovely music and or watching a film . IF you are a very possessive predatory Lady yes please - especially sexually predatory an awesome kisser who will make me go weak at the knees when SHE kisses me.......and someone who must take charge and who loves to take charge - not only but for sure especially in the bedroom. Be intelligent AND adventurous and open minded have your life together and 'just' be looking for the icing on the cake a devoted obedient submissive meek mild life partner, eventually slave husband IF that be your desire. I am a very strong mentally and a determined alpha male 100% comfortable working and leading big projects at the highest of levels. I am dominant, demanding, assertive, with real presence BUT in the company of a true and naturally dominant Lady I just melt and become putty in her hands....I am very pliable and love ..nay need to please and love being used. I will need reprogrammed to be(come) meek, mild, passive, servile, obedient, pliant, domesticated, docile and serene. and yes I am somewhat of a wordsmith and words matter to me, however I do walk the talk. I am a very safe but highly trained very fast driver and a good cook who loves to cook for his partner and small social gatherings. I don't suffer fools at all and have little time for some of the very nasty people I have come across here, sadly I had to hide my profile for a while to get rid of a nasty stalker and save me the effort of deleting her daily multiple silly and nasty messages. I have few limits, only the sensible ones and yes I seek a sensible dominant lady who is totally secure in who she is and her place in the world and the universe financially emotionally and mentally secure - the one who is missing her submissive life partner of course. A femme fatale a manipulator of men an alluring somewhat mysterious Lady who can and enjoys leading men into situations that they would not normally consider BUT that both please and excite her. I seek True and Deep Happiness and Contentment - to finally be home - and to have a real reason for living and a real purpose and focus in my life {HER} becoming her perfect (well trained) mate. My photo on request for those ladies who are genuinely interested in exploring things with me. WELL I thought I had found "IT" the totally secure stainless steel chastity CBT device that I would love to be locked into 'IF that was something 'my owner 'desired' and yes I do 'enjoy' CBT'
This is a complete CBT system when you include the ball restraint, urethral insert, and anal plug. You create the ultimate chastity device that keeps your partner's most private holes filled, locked, and under your total control.
For all you many many submissive males who want to know about/where to get that Chastity Device I am NOT GOOGLE use your brain - no not the one between your legs - the one between your ears and search for it.....its not difficult. For sure I am not going to spoon feed you nor I suspect will any Dominant Lady unless you are her adult baby
BAD NEWS I am getting reports that this CD is VERY Uncomfortable impossible to wear for any length of time.
Amazingly that reminds me of here and lovely profiles and pictures.....looks good sounds good but is anything but OWELL

He he as I am looking for my GODDESS my QUEEN this one http://www.maturemetal.com/queens-keep/ comes highly recommended all I need to do is to find the lady to lock me into it as her lifetime partner.
NOW ALL I need to do, is find her, or for her to find me. WHERE ARE YOU? COME OUT COME OUT COME OUT :-) Finally I should add that my dream my ultimate desire is to be given no choice once I have met my potential owner and she will have selected me and then take me capture me and quickly totally enslave and reprogram me. Met here can mean meet online with my last free will decision in this life being to come to meet her............then it is game over for me.

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4/22/2017 8:53:37 AM
Sadly met another online dreamer they sounded 'perfect' for me. BUT as things progressed they were closed and secretive, they would not share their given name with me NOR their real pictures but demanded and got one of mine as directed by themselves and many more followed as requested by them. 

When I asked for a picture ({she} - was is this really a genetic female???) sent one from the web - images at google showed that to be NOT HER but at least eventually they did admit it was only a representation of what they looked like

WTF are these people doing here fucking about with other peoples lives, totally obscene time bandits stealing other peoples time.

I think I am done here certainly for some time I might come back still looking for 'her' but I seriously doubt that I can find her here.

This place has turned into some sort of brothel and the fave place for the players and the fuckwits.

4/18/2017 5:30:24 AM
What is the story with all these so called dominant (allegedly females) with ??????012345@gmail.com email addresses

Is gmail insecure so they can scam you? or what? or is this just one scammer or findomme with a thousand gmail addresses?

For sure if you use image google.com you can see that the 'lovely' picture is stolen from the web

Things are now seriously crazy here hopefully I will be off here soon.

4/15/2017 2:06:01 PM
fin domme (not fin domme on her CS profile though) contacts me and sends me a link to her web site

I have a wee look see

I reply thanks for the link but no thanks

THEN I get this

go to hell piece of shit.And dont bother me again

he he missing the ' in don't cant even spell

and thinks they could dominate me NO CHANCE

OWELL

Cest la Whatsit

4/10/2017 6:21:50 PM
BORROWED from another profile :-)

Some of this I agree with but all of it sounds fanciful too good to be true :-(

In a Cybelian marriage. The wife is the primary partner,  the one in charge. {here we are in agreement} The husband is the secondary partner. Both parties must be aware of, and agree, the tenets of the Cybelian lifestyle. {again here we are in agreement} One of the tenets is the woman's freedom to cuckold the man by having sex with as many other men as she chooses. {MMMM not really my first choice in a relationship}In addition to this freedom, there are two basic tenets: The first is that the husband will have no freedom; the wife will keep him naked and collared at all times when he is at home. {YES PLEASE but really!!!}All of his clothes will be locked away, and his wife will have the only key. The second is that the man's status in the household will be no greater than that of a toilet for his wife's use, and the use of any other females in the household. {SKAT IS a hard limit for me}Keeping a man naked and collared ensures he is mindful at all times that he is ruled by his wife, and has absolutely no freedom. {again here we are in agreement}Unless his wife allows him to dress, he can't leave the house. If friends or family arrive, he must remain naked and collared, so that his shame will be visible for anyone to see. {again here we are in agreement}This is a great leveller: the man will learn his place, and in so doing he will lose much of his natural male aggression. {again here we are in agreement} It is still not enough to completely tame the man. This is where the wife's use of him as a human-toilet comes in. Whenever the wife needs to urinate, the man has to immediately drop what he is doing, and lay beneath her with his mouth open wide, then swallow all of her urine. This will be done as many times during the day as the wife needs to urinate. {this is not a hard limit for me}Should there be guests present, the man will still have to submit to being used as a toilet even if the guests witness his abject shame. {again here we are in agreement} All this is necessary in a gynocracy, where a man must be reduced to as low a status as possible. {again here we are in agreement} In urinating on the man, the woman is doing two equally important things. Firstly, she is keeping the man in his place by showing her contempt for him how better to show contempt than urinating on someone. {I can think of many other ways of achieving the same effect and result}Secondly, she is ensuring his continued good health by making him drink her urine. {again here we are in agreement} The beneficial effects of drinking urine have been known for many centuries. In modern times it is called urine therapy.{again here we are in agreement}

4/7/2017 1:06:17 PM
sadly things are NOT really getting more sensible here

how about this for a nice 'friendly' reply from a  so called dominant female

read a profile, stupid cunt
im not in uk
idiot

I guess I missed a real chance to be with another nutcase PHEW!!!!


4/20/2015 11:14:08 AM
ANOTHER IDIOT....why do I say that?  Well I did explain to her that sending me abusive messages like AN Other did then blocking me was idiotic.....so what does she do but follow the same modus operandi thereby self labeling herself as idiotic.............THEN she STALKS me sending me daily abusive messages.....I could block her but tis more fun just to delete her messages unread.  For sure she will get fed up before I do.


4/18/2015 9:25:31 AM
Sadly I met another idiot the other day who starts of her profile with Everyone life is different in many ways. Not really a coherent properly constructed sentence but I think I understood what she was trying to say...........that WE ARE all different and being into alternative lifestyles It would seem that we as a groups should be more tolerant of other people likes, dislikes, choices and NEVER JUDGE!!!

Yet after some chatting eventually and quite quickly when she says she is interested in 'owning me' she tells me to alter my profile to reflect this fact which I do.  BUT I ask for permission to continue chatting to a lovely interesting and intelligent TS 'online friend'.  OH HELP she goes ballistic has a freaky fit, become nasty and abusive and then when I say think we are not at all suited she sends me abusive messages berating me for ditching her for a man in a dress and being a cock sucker.  Then after messaging me twice the next day in a similar abusive manner she blocks me.  Seems words are easy but walking the talk is something too many on here find difficult to do......

My TS 'friend' said something quite profound and so true.
From:  
 

   Dated:  

4/15/15 5:19 AM  
 
 
  What's wrong with you dear? You seem to think people are literate and have coherent thoughts . Lol. Poor thing . Hugs.


I suppose the answer is I am the Eternal Optimist and with lots of tenacity very much like a Scottish Terrier or should that be TERROR :-)

6/8/2014 5:47:09 AM

Seems I never will learn the most appealing profiles and those close by seem to be written by people who don't live in the real world.


Got a reply for a local 'dominant'  AYE RIGHT that chastised me for adding my capitalised signature they said "I should know better". 


FFS what an opening "hello I would like to investigate this with you gambit" NOT!!!


Not that they finished their message with a signature either not even one in upper case.....the mind boggles


Seems they did not even read my profile where I say I am not into that sort of D/s protocol nonsense...even though I just wrote it there :-)


What has happened to good manners and showing respect does all of that go out the window when you say you are dominant......:-(


OWELL


Cest la Whatsit


For the sake of any further kunfussion and miss understandings from so called dominants


I am an ALPHA Male who loves to be submissive to a feminine natural dominant Lady. And yes it is not just a want as I need this and want this for the rest of my days......


First capture my mind..though you may need to capture me physically and restrain me while you do that, then quickly steal my heart, use my body for your pleasure and I will quickly belong to you in totality IF we have a REAL and MEANINGFUL Real Life Connection.  This for a long term female led relationship needs to be one that transcends anything like a simple dominant and submissive playtime....oooh small d for dominant there :-)


Finally I truly believe in female supremacy..and that 99% of the worlds problems are male centric this does not mean that I am for everyone or anyone.....just because you are female and have a dominant profile on here.



5/8/2014 2:30:37 PM

Seems I never will learn the best most appealing profiles seem to be written by people who don't live in the real world.

 

Today I had a few (less than a dozen) promising message exchanges.

 

Then I had to drive/or fly 400 miles to the other end of the country for a 'hello' meeting

 

At least that is what I assumed the meeting was for as they did not would not explain what or why we were meeting for ....other than to make sure I WAS REAL....................REALLY

 

As my grandmother used to say my heid does not button up the back...nor did I come up the Clyde on a Banana Boat

 

OWELL Cest la Whasit

 

YES YES YES 18th September 2014 :-)


1/3/2014 6:36:14 AM

ANOTHER IDIOT


BIG EDIT the mods have advised that that I cant name names OWELL not a problem the clown knows who they are

 

I get a message from 'them' male or female or what who knows

 

Come fly with me... I will name you REX in private among other things.. you will live in my dark shadows. I am not a premonition of something you've conjured up in your pussy boi mind. I am the one you were made for.. if you are REX then come to me.. Queen

 

I reply twice but silence,  after a day I then send a no reply I wonder why message only to find I am blocked FFS what is that all about :-(


7/26/2013 5:57:02 PM

WOW what an interesting day

 

looki what i got

 

complete servitude is a must now you can start off by going to paypal paying tribute to me any amount is fine all I demand is that u be generous prove to me that you realize my time is valuable  then we can live chat and start our new lives together slave/master.


REALLY WOW WOW WOW


 

oh shame why you think your time is more valuable than mine is a mystery to me

 

 

 

the last thing i seek is a FINDOMME or a scammer

 

 

 

I agree with the warning here don't send money to anyone for any reason

 

BUT she/he did not give up

 


that's fine however you are confused you want to submit right then you cannot dictate how your owner is going to handle you learn and stay in position no  need to send me anymore offensive reply's ok go ur way and I'll go mine goodbye.


 

It is YOU that is confused ONE THING YOU ARE NOT 


You are NOT My owner

 

 

 

IF you were then you could be as demanding as you liked / wanted to be

 

 

 

YOU ARE just another scammer on CollarMe

 

 

 

Who is living in cloud cuckoo land

 

 

Come back to planet earth there are some nice people here AND once you know how to treat people properly you might just fit in


reported to CM as a scammer



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sronda
 
 Age: 28
 Los angeles, California