onestepbeyond


onestdom Male Dominant, 43, long island, New York	onestandingsti Female Submissive, 46, Middletown, Maryland	OneStrictDomOH Male Dominant, 36, Columbus, Ohio

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	About onestepbeyond Perhaps not the most experienced Dominant you will find despite nearly five years in a D/S relationship but hopefully one of the most genuine and most caring. I am looking for someone to entertain me, care for me or just plain old desire me. Someone whose opinion I can value, whose life I can mould and structure and whose heart I can capture. Also happy to chat and make friends. I don't bite, well, not unless I like you.

It would be nice if I saw less 'deleted unread' or just plan old 'unread' statuses on the few messages I do send.

Maybe listing your criteria a little more thoroughly or letting people know that you have bulk mail filters set to block x, y or z.

Perhaps being able to hover over the start of the message gives things away or maybe people are too lazy to actually check if the profile has a photo rather than insist one is attached to every message.

Or maybe just a short response saying why you chose to ignore the words I invested time in writing for you?

Beginning to wonder whether I am the exception on here in that I am lead by my head and my emotions not by my dick?

How very strange, it seems there's a new trend on Collar Me. If someone checks you out and doesn't like your profile they simply block you even if you have never contacted them or they you.

Another observation is how certain profiles always appear online at the same time. A couple of genuine girls that are on morning, noon and night but their profiles are always side by side in the search window. Anyone cynical might think the same person is logging on checking his messages...

I wonder at which point I gave me heart away knowing it could make me happier or sadder than I had ever imagined...

I wonder whether I would do the same again knowing how things would end up?

Looks like there are some new bots generating fake profiles. Seems to do it in batches so if you see a few profiles with the following attributes beware:

- Only one photo.

- Images look like bad stills from a porn film.

- User names usually contain abbreviated chav speak followed by a number.

- Profile text will usually be a single paragraph, often fairly non-specific.

- Any messages will be automatically generated, ignoring your profile, but offering a yahoo email address.

Wow, I appreciate that it has been quite some time since I tried messaging someone new but it seems that manners are in short supply these days.

After reading profiles and writing messages for specific individuals many are read and ignored but some are just deleted unread.

Aside from appearing incredibly rude perhaps people need to write a little more on their profiles if unprompted messages are unwelcome or if there are set age limits, etc.

Here's hoping I will find more submissive women that are at least polite in their rejection...

Wish there was a way to copy the 'hidden' list from one profile to another.

I had successfully managed to hide most of the irritants, fakes and other time wasters I had come across on this site from the joint profile Lexi and I shared.

Now being back on my own profile it looks like I am going to have to do all that hard work again :-(

I was with Lexi for an amazing four years. Unfortunately all good things come to an end.

It has been a sad few weeks but I hope we will both learn to be happy as time goes on.

"Imagination is more important than knowledge" - Albert Einstein I really enjoy talking to some of the like minded people on this site. I think people in general should just talk more, random stuff, funny stuff, it doesn't always have to be sexual or about submission. I wish I could bring my journal up to the standard of some of the other I read. You know, in amongst all those rants and demands, there are some gems quietly hidden away. I've read some that have made me laugh out loud, others that have made me cry and some, well, some that make me want to reach out to people. We are all just regular people at the end of the day, we just have different hobbies to some...

Just found a lovely quote on another profile... "Think about it. Dominance doesn't mean you always get your way." So very true. The well being of those you are responsible for must take precedence over your individual needs.

Quote of the day from my lovely girl... teensub: I wouldn't want to do that. onestepbeyond: Why? teensub: It would hurt like fuck and not in a good way! In case you were wondering we were looking through a web site at the time after having enjoyed experimenting with some new toys we bought yesterday...

I tell myself stories, at night. I tell myself stories, now to help me get to sleep. It's hotter than hell here. Can't stand my own skin touching itself. Can't stand the weight of even a thin sheet. I'm sweating and twisting and searching for a cool spot on the pillow and there isn't any. The truth is, I'm desperate to fuck you. No. That's not the truth, either. The truth is, I need your body. Need your shoulders and your thighs and your belly and your back. Truth is it's very difficult for an animal to talk and what I am right now is a lust-maddened beast and I am trying to make this make sense, to make this something more than guttural noises, and deep-throated grunts, trying to be a civilized human being despite the unconscious baring of my teeth. And you think it is a lopsided grin, this hungry thing you bring out in me. I have told you. I have tried to tell you that the veins beneath your skin, the blue pulsing of your wrists and neck are a torment to me. But what I can find words to say is only a phantom of what lies down hot and heavy in my own veins and all I can do is show you and there is not space, in this configuration of our lives, there is not time for a complete showing and so the caged animal paces and occasionally growls and so here I am, working words and grinding my teeth and maybe I'll catch it this time. You play with fire that I want you to swallow, entire and whole, so that I can watch the flush of flame creep across your ribs, along your collarbones. So that I can see you burn the way my fingers scorch and sear at the thought of you. It's not all tender words and longing glances, and the place you have never been to before is a place I have prowled for years but never, not once, has there been a creature like you here. Nocturnal beast. I am losing sleep over this. Losing sleep and losing rest because when my eyes shut the dreams come and it is difficult to translate dreams into waking words but I will try because you have asked and sometimes, indeed, the hunter gets captured by its prey. I am a poor poet deprived of words, a tongue-tied Romeo - I am a man struck speechless by desire and all the words I know to describe this loosening of muscle, this rhythmic tremolo - all these words are not enough. And these words are all I have. All my years of pursuing the one who could take my definite self and create a safe place. All those years of dark and mysterious places, actors so sure of their lines, carefully orchestrated scripts, and now, here, this. What would I use to say the unspeakable, to tell you the things that lay heavy on my tongue? The things that I wish had not ever been said before and I want to make a new language, then. A language all ours, a set of sighs and murmurs and exultant shouts. Soft groans of deep surprise and loud, loud ear splitting shrieks of hearts torn wide open. I want a series of clicks and tooth chatters and gusts of breath that will tell you the particulars that are so particular. The peculiar and the personal and I do indeed believe that this can only be said by speaking in tongues. Strange language and insane gesticulation. In my dreams we have days and nights. Yes, long nights, hot like those I suffer through. In my dreams there are as many hours to the darkness as passion can create, and there is enough of it, of passion and all its attendant desire and hunger and need, enough to make for an eternity. I need this more than you can possibly imagine. Like a starved thing, too long alone and unfed, and no matter how much you give me, I know this hunger will not be abated. I need this, and I pray for self-control, for the presence of mind, to treat you like a precious thing even as I lose my mind in animal ecstasy. Pray for strength and pray in thanksgiving and the words of the prayer fade away into gibberish when I reach you, when I reach down to you, kneel down before you and begin a long night of supplication and speaking in tongues. Where to begin? A kiss, just one kiss and the fullness of your lips, the taste of your breath are enough to make me shudder. I want to kiss you until your lips bleed, until you come up gasping for air. There is danger in this wanting. The continually present danger of the bottomless hunger I suffer. A kiss, then. Or more like a thousand kisses in one extreme lingering. I want to feel you move for me. I want to cup the weight of your head in my palm, push the fingers through your hair. Want to place the full grip of my desire on either of your strong shoulders, trace your collarbones with trembling fingers. Undone, I am undone and there is no restraint, now. I am beyond lingering, beyond savouring and the time has come for abandom, for high winds and torrential downpour.

Perhaps I am missing something. I've met some lovely people on this site yet I am still puzzled. I see people begging for contact yet after spending a long time writing a personal message it often goes unread or is deleted without being read. I could understand it if someone had looked at my profile or my picture but to delete it without a second thought? It is quite refreshing to at least get back a 'Thanks for your message' note. At least it shows some courtesy. Much better to know why I don't appeal or perhaps clarify what I seek. A little communication can go a long way in this world. Regardless, I hope those that take the time, and even those that don't, find what they are looking for. There are precious few of us in this world willing to wear out hearts on our sleeve so perhaps it just means that the perfect person for our individual kinks is out there somewhere.

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