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one4denial

Female Dominant, 38, Richton Park, Illinois
Male Dominant, 60, Beaverton, Oregon
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About one4denial

This girl is a submissive...have tried being a slave, but had a bad experience. I am looking for someone to teach me more about myself. I have read 50 shades of grey, but don't think that piece of fiction is a really accurate depiction of the lifestyle. I do not like humiliation or water sports. I have tried and enjoyed floggers, riding crops, and canes, but I want to learn more about bdsm. I have been in the lifestyle for about 6 years....there is always more to learn.

I feel different sometimes.... I am a submissive, but sometimes I rebel, I guess. I sort of enjoy being put back in my place sometimes too... lets me see how far I can push. I enjoy the punishment sometimes too...is that wrong? I had someone tell me that wasn't good because if I was really a submissive I would want to constantly make my Dom/domme happy and if I didn't do what I was told (little things) then I would not be trusted to do more....  

I was taught that bdsm was not about sex, but it seems that a lot of people think it is.

I can thoroughly enjoy being caned and flogged and not have to have sex. I guess that is just me. If done properly it is just like having a great massage....the muscles are all relaxed and I usually have a warm behind to enjoy for a while :)

I have found that this lifestyle is great for me. I love the power exchange....I like serving and having a powerful man or woman over me. I am still looking for the right Dom/Domme.

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