I feel different sometimes.... I am a submissive, but sometimes I rebel, I guess. I sort of enjoy being put back in my place sometimes too... lets me see how far I can push. I enjoy the punishment sometimes too...is that wrong? I had someone tell me that wasn't good because if I was really a submissive I would want to constantly make my Dom/domme happy and if I didn't do what I was told (little things) then I would not be trusted to do more....  

I was taught that bdsm was not about sex, but it seems that a lot of people think it is.

I can thoroughly enjoy being caned and flogged and not have to have sex. I guess that is just me. If done properly it is just like having a great massage....the muscles are all relaxed and I usually have a warm behind to enjoy for a while :)

I have found that this lifestyle is great for me. I love the power exchange....I like serving and having a powerful man or woman over me. I am still looking for the right Dom/Domme.