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Pan Female Submissive, 55,  Pennsylvania
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I'm relatively new to all of this, only having been in the lifestyle since Jan 2008. But after meeting a few DOM's, I've come to realize that I need a Master that is a "sensual sadist." I like a little pain mixed with pleasure, in fact I NEED a little pain. I also need a Master that has time for ME. I NEED to be well used.
I also want to find a Master that I can communicate freely with. Communication is the key to everything else. Without communication, you can not have honesty, which is needed to build trust. I want to be able to trust my life to my Master. I need that trust to completely give of myself, mind and body, to him to do with as He sees fit. I want to feel cherished, protected and loved by my Master. I want Him to be able to take me places I've never even dreamed of! Someone who will probe the darkest corners of my mind. And I want Him to have a very imaginative and kinky mind. I know He's out there somewhere, but it's been a very elusive search so far. I so yearn to give of myself completely to the right Master.
I'm also not opposed to becoming the cherished member of a loving BDSM family.
But even being the member of a "family," I would still expect my Master to have some "private time" just for me. I need that to form a bond with Him that is unyielding.
Until I find my "one" I'm open to interesting play.

I'm not looking for online!!! Do not bother to contact me if that is what you seek. Also, if all you are looking for is to get laid, I suggest you get on a different site! Don't bother to tell me we are compatible if all you have done is spank a butt while getting your cock sucked. I have no interest in a one trick pony! I'm looking for someone that does it ALL!!! And for all the REAL Masters out there, I apologize for having to add this paragraph. But I have found there are an awful lot of fakes on this site!










 Submissive Female


 5' 8"






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Dominant Male

Domme/Dom Couples

 Lives For:

 Anal Play

 Breast Play

 Hair Pulling

 Massage (Getting)

 Medical Play

 Wax play




 Body Worship




 Electrical Play


 Local BDSM Community

 Fire Play



 Masks (Wearing)

 Public Play


 Vacuum Stimulation




 Masks (On Partner)

 Massage (Giving)

 Needle Play

 Orgasm Denial



 Foot Worship

 Curious About:

 Canes and Crops





 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap

 Sensory Deprivation



 Lifestyle BDSM


 Hard Limits:


 Housework Service

 Serving as a Maid

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

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Journal Entries:
5/2/2012 8:37:53 AM

It recently came to my attention that my password had been STOLEN on another site that i was on a lot by someone I trusted with my life and loved with all my heart!


I will never trust or love again.....

3/11/2012 8:14:18 AM

Time for change in my life and moving foward.  I want a Master who will make me want to worship the ground he walks on, not one who tells me  that  "it's a privilege to spend time with me."    And I expect my Master to always be truthful with me and always keep his promises.  My TRUST and RESPECT, are earned,  not given, just because you call yourself a Master.  I want my submission to be appreciated as a precious gift and to be treated as your most prized possesion. If I should happen to displease my Master, I would expect him to explain to me what I did wrong, so i could correct my behavior. Not IGNOR my question when I ask what i did wrong. I can't CORRECT my behavior if I don't know what i did wrong.



4/18/2010 10:28:11 AM
I'm just here to make new friends and chat for now.  I'm SOOOOOOOO confused!  Help!!

12/4/2009 3:10:25 AM
For all of those wondering, CM removed three of my photos yesterday because they didn't "meet community standards!"  What the heck, I"m here looking for a guy that doens't meet "community standards!"  I'm looking for someone kinky. If someone is offended by the pic's here on CM, maybe they don't belong here, maybe they should be on eHarmony!!!

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