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Switch/Dom Couple, 45/56,  Harrison, Arkansas
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Our old profile became unresponsive, so we made another. Recently relocated from OKC, OK to Harrison, AR We are a happy couple, together approximately 7 years. What we seek is hard to put in this little box, and as time goes on, we will try to expound on our wants and needs here...but, for now let me say that we seek a number of things and people, listed below in no particular order of importance. 1. we seek a bisexual submissive female to be a live-in permanent part of our lives....this could also be a sub/sub couple if the chemistry was right. 2. we seek couples & individuals for friends and possibly for sexual partners...but we want more than just sex or kink - there has to be a "connection" there - not just "hit it and quit it". fucking for fuckings sake is nice, but weve grown beyond that, hope you have too. put in its broadest terms, we seek others for friendship, kink, and the sharing of our lives. any questions, just ask.













Gender Identity:










 5' 6"

 190 lbs




Gender Identity:










 6' 4"

 240 lbs



Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples

Friends Only


A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Travel (Expert)

 Collars (Expert)

 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 Intellectual Discourse


 Fine Dining (Expert)


 Museums (Expert)

 Musical Theater


 Body Worship (Expert)

 Bondage (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)


 Fisting (Expert)



 Libertarian Politics





 Amusement Parks (Expert)

 Art Galleries


 Coffee Shops  (Beginner)

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales (Beginner)

 Going to the Opera (Beginner)

 Raves (Beginner)

 Renaissance Faires (Beginner)

 SCA (Beginner)

 Anal Play (Expert)


 Canes and Crops

 Dilation (Beginner)

 Electrical Play














 Corner Time (Beginner)





 Curious About:

 Crossdressing (Beginner)


 Antique Shows (Beginner)

 Bird Watching (Beginner)



 Eye Contact Restrictions (Beginner)


 Political Activism


 Bar Hopping


 Conservative Politics

 Liberal Politics

 Hard Limits:

 Genital Punishment

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Journal Entries:
9/6/2013 12:18:02 AM

okay....since we always get questions from guys, I thought I would address that issue.


Almost everyone has seen the "10 rules for dating my daughter" going around the net, and after reviewing it, I thought it would be a good idea if i had a set of "rules" for anyone wanting to "date" my after considerable thought, I decided to share them here:






Rule One:

If you pull into my driveway and honk you'd better be delivering a package, because you're sure not picking anything or anyone up with that attitude here. Respect for my wife is a requirement, NOT an option. You and I will meet, talk, and yes, you will be interviewed, interrogated, sized up, and judged before you are allowed to spend time with her alone. If this sounds like too much trouble or hassle to go thru to go out with her, you’re in the wrong place.


Rule Two:

You will NOT harm, offend, misuse, force, abuse, or in any form disrespect my wife. Your safety depends on this. You may speak to her, touch her, feel her, lick her, even fuck her, BUT ONLY if she says yes (and if I approve). Also remember, anything you can do or say to her or with her can be done in my presence or not at all. If you feel you must hide ANY of your activities with her from me, you don’t need to be doing them. She is going to tell me anyway, so better it comes directly from you. If you cannot keep your word and follow these guidelines or keep your hands off of my wife's body without her permission, I will remove them…from your body.


Rule Three:

I am aware that dating sites have an abundance of “EASY” women that can be treated as disposable items for your use. She is not one of “those” women.  Denise is my treasure beyond compare. She is smart, funny, sweet, sexy as hell, and has an imagination and spirit that will amaze you. If you are reading these rules, it means you are being considered, NOT that you automatically have carte blanche access to the pussy, or her life.  Keep in mind, she has chosen to share part of our life with you and that shared part can be retracted at any time if you can’t behave properly and with respect and honesty.


Rule Four:

I'm sure you've been told that in today's world, sex without utilizing a "barrier method" of some kind can kill you. Let me elaborate, when it comes to sex, I am the barrier. You WILL use a condom at ALL times, or I will kill you.  My wife, my rules…. and my rule is, no one enters here without a condom. That is holy ground for my use only, NO EXCEPTIONS and NO NEGOTIATING.


Rule Five:

It is usually understood that in order for us to get to know each other, we should talk about sports, politics, and other issues of the day. Please do not do this. For one I couldn’t give less of a shit about almost all sports and most issues of the day.  The information I require from you and the interaction I seek with you is on a completely different level.  I require an indication of your intentions as well as a bit of knowledge about you personally. If we can’t be friends, I probably don’t want you boning my woman. For instance, if you are interested merely on a sexual level, say so. If you want a friend with benefits, say so….if you’re looking for someone to love and cherish and don’t mind that she has a primary relationship, say that…but for fucks sake, SAY WHAT YOU MEAN!  Don’t bullshit, him-haw, crawfish, re-direct, side-step, mis-lead or otherwise avoid being up front with BOTH of us about where you are headed with this and why. This includes if you are in a relationship with another woman.

We have no respect for cheaters or liars. If you are married, living with someone, etc. they need to be aware of this also. We will NOT do “discreet”, “my wife doesn’t understand” or any other sorry excuse for a man that can’t be honest with his own wife. If you will lie to her, you will lie to us, and we don’t need or want that in our lives.

The truth will be respected for what it is and the possibilities considered. Horseshit will be treated accordingly and you and the horseshit will be shoveled out the door post-haste.


Rule Six:

This type of relationship is based not only on trust and honesty, but also on commitment of a different sort.  For us, this is not about seeing how many people we can sleep with. It’s about making lifelong friends and perhaps even sharing some intimacy. I have no doubt you are a popular fellow, with many opportunities to date other girls. This is fine with me as long as it is okay with my wife. Otherwise, once you have gone out with my little girl, unless other conditions are agreed upon in advance, you will continue to date no one but her until she is finished with you.  If you make her cry, I will make you cry…like a little girl.


Rule Seven:

As you stand in my front room, waiting for my wife to appear, and more time goes by, do not sigh and fidget.  If you are in a hurry to proceed, or lack the patience of a saint, you should not be dating my wife. My wife is a very strong and willful person usually and does things in her own time and on her own schedule. She IS punctual for the most part if times have been agreed upon, but there are exceptions to this rule – usually involving issues with her/our children or family. Instead of just standing there, why don't you do something useful, like mowing the front yard while you wait? (just kidding about the lawn)


Rule Eight:

If you invite her out, you are courting her. Treat her accordingly.

If you are observant in the least, you have noticed the collar she wears. That is my collar. She is my submissive. This does NOT mean she is submissive to you in any manner. This does not mean you have the right to attempt to order her, force her or control her in any way…in fact quite the opposite. What it does mean, is you need MY permission as well as hers for anything concerning her. If your relationship with her progresses to a point where the two of you are intimate, you will NEVER hit, slap, or in any manner physically harm her. Playful slaps on the rump during doggie-style are acceptable.


Rule Nine:

Do not lie to me, EVER.  On issues relating to my wife, I am the all-knowing, merciless ruler of your universe. If I ask you where you are going what you are doing, or anything else concerning your plans for your time with her, you have one chance to tell me the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. I have numerous firearms, shovels, chainsaws, plastic bags and wrap, and remote locations with lots of acreage.  Do not trifle with me.


Rule Ten:

Be afraid. Be very afraid... the voices in my head frequently tell me to clean my weapons  as I wait for you to bring my wife home. If this is your first time out with her alone, as soon as you pull into the driveway you should exit your car with both hands in plain sight.  Announce in a clear voice that you have brought her home safely, then return to your car - there is no need for you to come inside unless it was arranged to do so before the “date” or she has invited you.(in which case she will have communicated that to me already) ….


 Remember, the camouflaged face at the window is me.


The above rules have some semi-humor added in, but are completely accurate, non-negotiable and strictly enforced. They are also by no means all-inclusive. Other rules are subject to enforcement at any time without prior notice.


This will be your only warning. That is all.

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