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MIGHT BE LOOKING FOR A LIVE IN Submissive Women are sister wife .you must have a job to help out with bills ..
?? LOOKING FOR A GIRL PLAYMATE
Yes, I'm a slave, don't mistake that for weakness, nor mindless for submission has an undetermined strength as well. I am only seeking friends at this time, nothing further than that. The reason for that is friends first so i can see if you are for real and not fake like all the other fake so called doms out there.?Please be real for i will not even waste strength on people whom cannot be true to themselves. personal philosophy lie to others you have to continue lying to yourself, and after the first lie it only gets easier. If this is you that cannot be honest look another direction, for i don't even have time for fakes even in friendship.? all so i am not your doormate. DO NOT ASK FOR ANY MONEY.I WILL NOT SEND YOU A DIME
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Mistress/Master/slave relationship can and is most rewarding.. for life could not?be so simple and blissful within this lifestyle.. Oten i?have heard and also have experienced conventional love and marriage, where often the word?love and commitment with communication is taken for granted or not taken serious enough...vows?said without true?meaning.. which?ends in?bitter words ..hearts broken.. and divorce.. Within?the Mistress/Master/slave relationship.. once?trust and open communication has been achieved.. and when the submissive has fully consented and willingly given herself over to her Mistress are?Master she has?given up all?rights to her life .. mind .. body .. soul .. heart ..her?very?essence fully?belongs to her?Master.. all that was once?solely hers?now all?belongs rightfully and solely to her Master..?there is no?turning back or change of heart.. no time outs.. or walking away.. for she has committed herself.. to serve and please her Mistress/Master fully to the best of her abilities .. as much as He is fully committed to her.. to protect her.. guide her.. nurture her.. teach her.. use her?in all aspects within His are Her?dominance over her.. driving her further to His pleasures.. in doing so.. He are She will drive her to her own pleasures within her submission to Him.. He are She will never let the fact waiver that He is her Master.. she is His are Her?slave.. His are Hetr property.. to own.. to control.. to discipline and punish when she has failed in pleasing Him Are Her.. no matter how subtle the offense was/is.. for all is done to her to show her the right path within His are HER?Love and Ownership of her.. all that is done to her is done out of love ..not anger.. she has consented to give all of herself to Him are HET?fully.. she has no further choices .. the last choice she has made is giving herself completely over to her Master ..for Him to take total control of her completely ..to train her in how He wishes her to be for Him.. always making the best possibly choices for her.. to expand her in all aspects of life.. to further serve her Master better.. It takes strength on both..? Mistress/Master and slave .. for it is not a commitment to be taken lightly.. it is one that is consensual.. of open mind communication.. trust.. and love.. and once you lose the trust it is hard to gain the trust back as i am trying to gain back trust in my life.??

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 okcgirl

 Female Slave

 Midwest 

 Oklahoma

 5' 6"

 160 lbs

 37

 Pan

 Caucasian

 03/02/07

 

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11/18/2008 6:17:21 PM
If you have a dream then by all means do what it takes to make it come true. If you have a goal, make it something you strive to accomplish. If you have a hope , then hope for it with all your heart

10/19/2008 6:05:07 PM
i was just sitting here in my bed thinking about what Sirofsensation has told me.
You can do
Anything . He has said imagine youreself to be the type of person you want to be,and then be it. you mayhave to let go of some bad habits and develop some more positive ones, but do not give up for it is only in trying and persisting that dreams come true .
Expect changes to occur , and realize that the power to make those changes comes from within you. Your thoughts and action, your choice and decisions, and the way you spend your time determine who you are and who you will be come.
Thank You for talks and your words i do listen when you talk once again thank you
Sirofsensation

10/19/2008 11:28:17 AM
                     The life style in my eyes
 

There are  people in relationships I’ll call ‘weekenders’. These people go about their daily routine, day in and out and don’t give a thought about BDSM or kinky play except on the weekends. Whether it’s every weekend or not, the BDSM aspect of their lives is limited in scope to what they can do in a weekend’s time. The bulk of weekenders also tend to be long-distance relationships.

With even less exposure to BDSM elements are the kinky sex relationships. They differ from the Bedroom only folks only in that they may not engage in the role play, have defined roles at all, probably don’t have interest in a lot of toys and won’t go into a lot of learning ,exploration or training to do the more advanced play techniques. These relationships like to dabble in the kinky sex, the light bondage and sensation play and tend to keep it that way.

Next are the relationships I’ll call signal relationships. This is when the partners are only in their defined roles when the collar is on. It could be everyday, only when home from work, only on the weekends or whenever the mood strikes. This type of relationship i see as being more in-depth than weekenders because it could include behavior rules, routine or ritual more than weekend play sessions and also applies an easy break in reality (ie. real life) for those wanting to explore BDSM but aren’t sure they want to make the step into calling it a Lifestyle.

Next group, and the largest i perceive are the Lifestylers. This type of relationship strives to live in their natural roles as close to 24/7 as humanly possible. There are usually lists of rules and structure applied for all occasions and reasons. There is a lot of ritual and symbolism in this type of relationship. Real life is blended into these types of relationships sometimes so seamlessly that you wouldn’t be able to tell where ‘real life’ begins and D/s ends. D/s is their life. This is me .

This type of relationship is the one that Master and slave  are developing. Master and slave  to live fully in the lifestyle someday Master and slave continue to progress along our own paths along each other. i have rules and rituals i must follow daily. i have behaviors that are to be amplified and those that need to be limited or removed. All of this is to makeMaster and slave relationship exactly Master like it to be.

There are also Master and slave relationships.i  know a lot about these, but know that generally the slave has no limits, no say in what is done, must be obedient (almost to a fault), and I feel tends to be a form of voluntary sexual slavery. This is were i am now . But i hope my Master takes this my hard limits under consideration .

slave and those who seek to be slaves, are constantly advisednot to be self-centered ant not to focus on our needs and desires but rather those of other. And this can be good advice when a would-be slave is so focused on fanstasisies of what a Master will look like, act like, and do to do the slave that i do not loses sight of what i will do my Master and help bring to the relationship. i am Master full-time sex toy/captive . slave needs to give 100% to Master are he will be terribly disappointing.my Master dose under stand that my kids do come first.

slave needs direction. slaves are people who are forced to obey Master orders, and i fantasize being forced. Being obedient is held to be the opposite of freedom, and the negative connotations of slave largely consist in this lack of freedom.There is no dought i want this . Obedicence is voluntary my  (slave) lifeblood. to obey is not our cross but my joy! i only ask to be given the opportuntry,

Ideally, what i need as a slve - whether i am aware of wanting it are not ! is clear direction, firm goals, consistent rules, unambiguous orders. It takes a Master with great presence of mind, intelligence, self - control, and self- underdtanding to provide that kind of environment.

As a slave i do need discipline. This may sound funny  but as a slave i fantasy of being punished , but i think it is the erotic charge of the metaphor for discipline, which is not the same as punishment, tome Discipline is controlled behavior; punishment is simply a means, and often not a very good one of achieving discipline. As a slave i need  to obey , follow rules . i think every slave wants to be the perfect slave in some sense,and we need as much as we need air and water - someone to hold out that ideal before us and challenge us to live up to it, even knowing that i might never actually achieve it.

If it were easy to be a slave, if anyone could it, what would be the point? if there were no sacfifice involved,if it required nothing "abouve and beyond"ordinary life.

i think slavery is demanding, challenging vocation, or caling, and its challanges can not end once the slave enters into service with a Master. The Master must provide a continuallyas well as an environment in which my  (slave ) discipline and dedication are continually honed. Master institute various rituals and protocols for their  slave to follow.

A Master who dose not notice or care about infractions is on who is shirking in His dutytoward his slave. it is not necessary to punish, but it is necessary to take notice of the lapse and deal with it in some definite way. i need to feel my Master eyes on me continually, until if is internalized. if Master cannot or will not provide discipline. He has no business owning a slave.

i think difficulyies areise when Master or slave , confuse service with being used, The differance is subtle but i think critical. Perhaps it is the difference between "being used" and "being useful." Being used has a very negative connotation for most people, and i suspect that in cases where it has a strong erotic charge ,

A slave must be honest from the moment he begins communicating with a Domme. Never lie about relationships, experience level or anything else.
A slave will seek to understand want he wants and needs and to know the difference between the two.
A slave needs to realize some fantasies will never be more than just that. And that some of his fetishes may not strike a responsive chord within her.
A slave has a duty to act as an intelligent human being.
A slave repays a Domme’s attention with respect, humility and obedience. This is inherent in the nature of the relationship.
A slave always communicates his feelings as clearly as possible.
If the slave feels that his needs aren’t being met he will confess that respectfully without seeming to make demands.
A slave will watch to see if his Domme is tired or not feeling well and focus on her comfort, not on having a session.
A slave should never think of a Domme as a torture and humiliation machine. That is objectifying her.
A slave will remember that D/s is a relationship between people. He will strive to never forget that the Domme is a human being. That regardless of the power relationship thoughtless behavior on his part can inflict emotional hurt on the other person.Civility, honesty and honor sum it up.
 
We should always remember the Golden rules of BDSM

In the Lifestyle of BDSM, there is one thing that remains consistant: The Rule of Three (Safe, Sane, and Consensual). It is the guideline by which all things are done, from meeting, to negotiation, to play and quite often to a relationship itself. When things are Safe, Sane, and Consensual, the margin for error is drastically reduced, and all participants feel more at ease


10/8/2008 7:01:02 PM
Flutter by,Butterfly,
Floating flower in the sky.
Kiss me with your
Petal wings---
Whisper secrets,
Tell of spring.
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I LOVE THIS POEM

Hoping to catch your eye
Circling around you, oh my
Butterfly, butterfly, come into the light
Oh, what a beautiful sight
Flying so gracefully
Into the sky, the butterfly
Trying to catch a butterfly
Fly, fly, fly, butterfly
There he sets upon the mums
I'm having so much fun
Here's another on the sill
Your standing so still
You go to touch him
There he goes, the butterfly
I hear a tapping on the window
It's the butterfly, fly, fly, fly
There he goes into the sky
Flying so high, the butterfly
I'll see you another day
Butterfly, butterfly, away

8/30/2008 7:41:42 PM
i found that when we really love and accept and APPROVE OF OURSELFS AS WE ARE,Then everything in life works.It's as if a little miracle  are everyhere. self approvals and self acceptane in the now are the main keys to positive hanges in every area of are lifes

8/30/2008 5:37:38 PM

In the infinity of life where I am, all is perfect, whole and complete. I believe in a power far greater than I am that flowers through me every moment of every day. I open myself to the wisdom within, knowing that there is only one intelligence of the Universe. Out of this one intelligence comes all the healing, all the new creations. I trust this power and intelligence, knowing that what ever I need comes to me in the right time, space, and sequence. All is in my world


7/18/2008 7:00:30 PM
When you find the perfect Master. you can feel it deep in your heart. You can feel it deep in your Bones. when you know that you crave the passion for your Master to have full control over you. you want to serve Him with all your being. what i expect from Him as my Master, how i expect to be treated, and the course i feel my training should take, including any routines i would hope to see in our day to day lives. I want to be controlled, forever bound, as slave has without limits, i like to be degraded, and humiliated. As His slave i expect to live my life, every moment of it, in a manner that is pleasing to Him.  i expect every move i make to be done in consideration of Him.  i want to wake in the morning with my first thought being of Him. Even when i cant be with Him, i’m still able to serve Him.  i will leave for work each day and count the minutes until i can be with Him again. my behavior toward Him is designed to be a pleasure in His life.  i will strive to be pleasant and respectful in so much as i am capable of. i will open myself completely as i have never done with another living soul.  i will trust Him.  And above all, i will love Him with every fiber of my being. What i ask of Master in regard to His behavior towards me is that He be patient.  i need structure from Him.  i need to know that He values me as His property.  i would like Him to share with me those things that i will with Him.  i do understand, though, that He may not always do that.  And i will try very hard not to take that personally.  i ask that Master trust me.  i want Him to trust that i will NEVER lie to Him.  i will never hurt Him.  And i will never betray Him.  i want Him to punish me when i make mistakes, being both fair and reasonable.  i want Him to teach me.  i want Him to tell me, when He feels i deserve to know, that i have pleased Him.  And i want Him to love me. When my Master put his collar on me that means so much  to me. As i am know His He owns me. that is the best gift My Master can ever give me.

7/14/2008 6:36:38 PM
ok i just got this messg on Cm do to i did not respond to  him....... hey you....wont reply to peoples messages..(***dominator) what the hell is up with that??? I'll bet you're the f*cking FAKE...you worthless C*NT People like you screw it up for those of Us who ARE REAL and are living the lifestyle...I hope you get hit by a bus. ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS DUDE GET A LIFE

6/19/2008 1:20:16 PM
Master/slave relationship can and is most rewarding.. for life could not be so simple and blissful within this lifestyle.. Oten i have heard and also have experienced conventional love and marriage, where often the word love and commitment with communication is taken for granted or not taken serious enough...vows said without true meaning.. which ends in bitter words ..hearts broken.. and divorce.. Within the Master/slave relationship.. once trust and open communication has been achieved.. and when the submissive has fully consented and willingly given herself over to her Master she has given up all rights to her life .. mind .. body .. soul .. heart ..her very essence fully belongs to her Master.. all that was once solely hers now all belongs rightfully and solely to her Master.. there is no turning back or change of heart.. no time outs.. or walking away.. for she has committed herself.. to serve and please her Master fully to the best of her abilities .. as much as He is fully committed to her.. to protect her.. guide her.. nurture her.. teach her.. use her in all aspects within His dominance over her.. driving her further to His pleasures.. in doing so.. He will drive her to her own pleasures within her submission to Him.. He will never let the fact waiver that He is her Master.. she is His slave.. His property.. to own.. to control.. to discipline and punish when she has failed in pleasing Him.. no matter how subtle the offense was/is.. for all is done to her to show her the right path within His Love and Ownership of her.. all that is done to her is done out of love ..not anger.. she has consented to give all of herself to Him fully.. she has no further choices .. the last choice she has made is giving herself completely over to her Master ..for Him to take total control of her completely ..to train her in how He wishes her to be for Him.. always making the best possibly choices for her.. to expand her in all aspects of life.. to further serve her Master better.. It takes strength on both.. Master and slave .. for it is not a commitment to be taken lightly.. it is one that is consensual.. of open mind communication.. trust.. and love.. and once you lose the trust it is hard to gain the trust back as i am trying to gain back trust in my life.

6/19/2008 1:18:57 PM
The reason for that is friends first so i can see if you are for real and not fake like all the other fake so called Dom out there. Please be real for i will not even waste strength on people whom cannot be true to themselves. I write this and i get burned. what was I thinking I knew this so called Dom for 2 years. here let me give you his name just in case you get a im from him. his yahoo name is Siriceholder.. I was at work and i get a call from  his wife.. He gets on the phone and tells me this life style is a game to him and all I was a game he could care less about the life style. lets just say i told her every thing that he ever done in the life style. If you are not here to live breath and taste the lifestyle leave me alone . i am sick of want a be Doms that lie to me. i give 110% and do what i am  told to do. my last Dom omg made me feel like i was worthless. and that's a long story.at this time i will not give out my last Dom name do to my safety. but this guy i could care less about i just do not  want a Slave to get involved with him are a sub

6/19/2008 1:17:36 PM
Who are you? What do you do? whom do you love?Or who loves you ? It matters to some as they go about their day. My question to you is .... Will you love me anyway?

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