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About o2beyoursub
Just another submissive guy looking for someone to take charge.
Full disclosure first: I am married, but in a sexless marriage. My wife's sexual identity is strictly vanilla, but moreover, the marriage has been sexless for years due to medical reasons.
Seeking an outlet for my sexuality that does not involve a conventional affair. (Whatever that means). BDSM and cybersex provide such an outlet.
I'm not looking for a sexual partner. There is so much more to BDSM than sexual intercourse.
While I have been out of the BDSM scene for some time, I do have experience and I do miss it. I would most honored and delighted to hear from you. My experience is both from relationships and the Bay Area club scene. It has been all too long since I have been under a Woman's erotic control. I long to serve and hope to be rewarded with humilation and pain.
Why does CM not have an option for CFMN?
Respectfully, o2beyoursub
here is a cool video received from a friendly domme:
http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/8325689/the-meeting
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For each item, you need to provide two answers:
First write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity.
Mark N/A if it does not apply to your gender.
Next, indicate for each item how you FEEL about that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5.
NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).
0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would be willing to do it to please the Dominant if it they really wanted it. (sometimes called a "soft limit").
1 means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you.
2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.
3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.
4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.
Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to do only with you current sex partner(s), but not with casual play-partners.
Note any additional information which might be important for your Dom to know.
There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the Sub is the recipient of the activity.
Experience, Willingness
yes/no, NO or 0-5
Abrasion y:4
Age play n:3
Anal sex (dildo) y:3 :
Anal plugs (small) y:3
Anal plugs (large) y:2
Anal plug (public, under clothes)n:?
Animal roles n:0
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) n:3
Asphyxiation n:no
Auctioned for charity n:3
Bathroom use control n:3
Beastiality n:NO
Beating (soft) y:4
Beating (hard) y:1
Blindfolds y:4
Being serviced (sexual) y:4
Being bitten n:3
Breast/chest bondage n:?
Breath control y:4
Branding n:NO
Boot worship y:3
Bondage (light) y:5
Bondage (heavy) y:4
Bondage (multi-day) n:?
Bondage (public, under clothing) n:3
Breast whipping n:3
Brown showers (scat) n:0
Cages (locked inside of) n:3
Caning y:4
Catheterization n:3
Cells/Closets (locked inside of) n:3
Chastity belts n:4
Chaueffering y:4
Choking n:3
Clothespins y:4
Cock worship y:4
Collars (worn in private) n:3
Collars (worn in public) n:3
Competitions (with other Subs) n:3
Corsets (wearing) n:1
Cuffs (leather) y:5
Cuffs (metal) y:5
Cutting n:no
Dilation no:no
Double penetration n:3
Electricity n:?
Enemas y:3
Enforced chastity ?:4
Examinations (physical) y:3
Exercise (forced/required) n:3
Exhibitionism (friends) y:4
Exhibitionism (strangers) n:?
Eye contact restrictions y:4
Face slapping y:5
Fantasy abandonment n:?
Fantasy rape n:?
Fantasy gang-rape n:no
Fisting (anal) n:no
Fisting (vaginal) NA :
Following orders y:4
Foot worship y:5
Forced dressing n:2
Forced homosexuality n:?
Forced masturbation n:4
Forced nudity (private) y:4
Forced nudity (around others) y:4
Forced servitude y:4
Full head hoods y:4
Gags (cloth) y:4
Gags (rubber) y:4
Gags (tape) y:2
Gates of Hell (male) n:4
Genital sex y:4
Given away to another Dom (temp) n:4
Given away to another Dom (perm) n:?
Golden showers y:4
Hairbrush spankings y:5
Hair pulling y:3
Hand jobs (giving) n:?
Hand jobs (receiving) y:4
Harems (serving w/other subs) n:?
Harnessing (leather) n:4
Harnessing (rope) n:4
Having food chosen for you n:4
Having clothing chosen for you n:3
Head (giving fellatio) n:NO
Head (receiving fellatio) y:4
High heel worship y:4
Homage with toungue (non-sexual) y:4
Hot oils (on genitals) y:4
Hot waxing n:?
Housework (doing) y:3
Human puppy dog n:?
Humiliation (private) y:4
Humiliation (public) n:?
Hypnotism n:?
Ice cubes y:4
Infantalism n:0
Initiation rites n:?
Injections n:no
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondagey:4
Interrogations n:4
Kidnapping y:4
Kneeling y:4
Leather clothing n:3
Leather restraints t:4
Lectures for misbehavior n:4
Licking (non-sexual) y:4
Manacles & Irons n:4
Manacures (giving) n:?
Massage (giving) y:4
Massage (receiving) n:4
Medical scenes n:?
Modeling for erotic photos n:?
Mouth bits n:3
Mummification n:4
Nipple clamps y:4
Nipple weights y:4
Oral/anal play (rimming) y:4
Over-the-knee spanking y:5
Orgasm denial y:4
Orgasm control y:4
Outdoor scenes n:4
Outdoor sex y:4
Phone sex (serving Dom) y:4
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends)n:4
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce)n:4
Piercing (permanant) n:no
Prison scenes n:?
Pony slave n:4
Public exposure n:no
Pussy/cock whipping y:4
Pussy worship y:4
Riding crops y:5
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.)n:?
Rituals n:?
Religious scenes n:no
Restrictive rules on behavior y:4
Rubber/latex clothing n:4
Rope body harness n:4
Saran wrapping y:5
Scratching - getting n:4
Scratching - giving n:?
Sensory deprivation y:5
Serving y:4
Serving as art n:3
Serving as ashtray n:no
Serving as furniture y:3
Serving as a maid n:4
Serving as toilet n:3 (no scat)
Serving as waitress/waiter n:4
Serving orally (sexual) y:5
Serving other doms (supervised) n:4
Serving other doms (unsupervised)n:4
Sexual deprivation (short term) n:4
Sexual deprivation (long term) n:?
Shaving (body hair) n:no
Shaving (head hair) n:no
Sleep deprivation n:no
Sleepsacks n:4
Slutty clothing (private) y:3
Slutty clothing (public) n:no
Spanking n:?
Spandex clothing y:5
Speech restrictions (when, what) n:4
Speculums (Anal) n:?
Speculums (vaginal) n:n/a
Spreader bars y:4
Standing in corner n:4
Stocks :
Straight jackets :
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) y:4
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) y:4
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) :
Strapping (full body beating) :
Suspension (upright) :
Suspension (inverted) :
Suspension (horizontal) :
Supplying new partners for Dom :
Swallowing semen :
Swallowing urine :
Swapping (with one other couple) :
Swinging (multiple couples) :
Tattooing :
Teasing :
Tickling :
Triple penetration :
Uniforms :
Including others :
Vaginal dildo :
Verbal humiliation :
Vibrator on genitals :
Voyeurism (watching others) :
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) :
Video (watching others) :
Video (recordings of you) :
Water torture :
Wearing symbolic jewelery :
Whipping :
Wooden paddles :
Wrestling :
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| You Scored as Submissive
(((Note: This quiz is not totally comprehensive because of the length such a quiz would be. I kept it sex-based because I felt that psychological profiles and motivations were too complicated and vary too greatly among people that practice BDSM.))) It feels good to serve. A lack of control in the bedroom can be fun and relaxing. Being with a dominant person wouldn't be a bad idea.
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Did not think that I would be that much of an exhibitionist. |
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Femdom BDSM is not be about the desires of the sub; it is about those of the Domme. That said, it of course great when those interests intersect.
Back in the day when my coffers were more full, i saw pro Dommes on more than on occasion. While they were always more than skillfull, something about the experience was less complete than those i've had without an exchange of funds. Serving a Domme just for the sake of serving for her needs somehow makes me feel more submissive. Don't know if that make sense or not, but i thought i would say it.
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