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EarthGoddess52

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About EarthGoddess52

I DO NOT use Collarme chat or instant messenger. Please don't ask. I guess you could say it's a Hard Limit! you may email Me.
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Mature lifestyle Mistress on the coast of California in search of a mature truly submissive spirit in need of firm but loving guidance and discipline.
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In general, there are three steps to submission as I see it. It was explained to me by someone that I respect and who did not like the word submission. He preferred surrender.

First is Trust. All relationships, D/s or otherwise are based on Trust. The more I can engender Trust in you, the more unconditionally you can give yourself to me, which results in compliance, obedience.

Next is obedience. Once you are truly convinced that I want only the best for you, that I would do NOTHING to harm you in ANY way, physically, emotionally, psychologically, the more you can let go and do what I ask of you......the deeper into your submission I can take you. Hopefully, this will go ever deeper until you give up the very core of you. This is VERY rare, but we both benefit from this.

This results in SURRENDER. This is what I want. The mental bonds that hold you are stronger than any ropes or chains could ever be.

your submission or surrender to me is indeed a gift. I cannot be Dominant without your submission. your giving of yourself to me empowers me and I can grow in my dominance which I can then recycle back into you.

For Me, this is where the Total Power Exchange happens. It is truly a symbiotic relationship.

HAPPY NEW YEAR everyone!!  Ever optimistic, I am looking forward to 2011 and wishing y'all the BEST year ever!!

Lolita? is coming up on TCM at 2 PM Pacific time!!? Great not-so-subtle D/s themed movie.? James Mason, Sue Lyon, Shelly Winters 1962.? Ahead of its time??
Lolita is on again RIGHT NOW on TCM......great movie!!
Lolita......1962; James Mason, Sue Lyon.? Watching it now on TCM.? Great D/s movie if you think about it!!? Foot fetish; FemDomme.? Great.
I hope everyone remembered to set their clocks back on Halloween night!!? Happy New Year!!
It sucks being a lifestyle Domme and meeting so many who say that they're "true slaves", start what appear to be meaningful conversations, then they withdraw their profiles!!? So subbies, don't think it happens only to you!!
8/23? Looks like I'm in Orange County for the duration......

I'm flying south for the summer.? I will miss the beaches of Ventura, but I'm looking forward to getting wet in Orange County!!? See you there!!
" So I love chastity now, because it is the peace that comes of fucking.
I love being chaste now. I love it as snowdrops love the snow. I love
?this chastity, which is the pause of peace of our fucking, between us now like a snowdrop of forked white fire. And when the real spring? comes, when the drawing together comes, then we can fuck the little flame brilliant and yellow, brilliant. But not now, not yet! Now is the
time to be chaste, it is so good to be chaste, like a river of cool
water in my soul.
? ~ D.H. Lawrence"
I just got this in an email.? Take note!!
lol.

These are the Rules!

1. The female always makes the rules.
2. The rules are subject to change at any time without prior notification. No male can possibly know all the rules.
3. If the female suspects the male knows all the rules, she will immediately change some or all of the rules.
4. The female is never wrong.
5. If the female is wrong, it is because of a flagrant misunderstanding which is a direct result of something the male did or said that was wrong.
6. If rule number five applies, the male must apologize immediately for causing the misunderstanding.
7. The female can change her mind at any given point in time.
8. The male must never change his mind without the express written consent of the female.
9. The female has the right to be angry or upset at any time without giving an explanation for her behavior.
10. The male must remain calm at all times unless the female wants him to be angry or upset.
11. The female will, under no circumstances, let the male know whether or not she wants him to be angry or upset.
12. The female reserves the right to punish the male for any reason at time or just because she feels like it.
Check out OtterSwim's Forum entry on how to give pedicures and take notes!!? Every sub should perfect this skill!
??? http://www.collarchat.com/m_2148113/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#2148292
"Yet to reclaim the word "witch" is to reclaim our right, as women, to be powerful; as men, to know the feminine within as divine. To be a witch is to identify with the nine million victims of bigotry and hatred and to take responsibility for shaping a world in which prejudice claims no more victims. A witch is a "shaper", a creator who bends the unseen into form, and so becomes one of the Wise, one whose life is infused with magic."
Starhawk "The Spiral Dance"
I was just made aware of this sonnet by Shakespeare:? so beautiful, so fitting a tribute to a Master

SONNET 57
Being your slave, what should I do but tend
Upon the hours and times of your desire?
I have no precious time* at all to spend,
Nor services to do, till you require.
Nor dare I chide the world-without-end hour
Whilst I, my sovereign, watch the clock for you,
Nor think the bitterness of absence sour
When you have bid your servant once adieu;
Nor dare I question with my jealous thought
Where you may be, or your affairs suppose,
But, like a sad slave, stay and think of nought
Save, where you are how happy you make those.
So true a fool is love that in your will,
Though you do any thing, he thinks no ill.
Discretion and Confidentiality are of the UTMOST importance to me!!? Nothing shared in private correspondence will go any farther than between myself and the sender.? I would appreciate the same consideration.? Thank you.
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