o2bused

Amazingly rude people on here … That is all I can say.  FL here I come!

Where in the domme rule book does it dictate rudeness?  It is common courtesy to at least acknowledge an attempt to make contact from a polite email ...

Honestly ladies ... A simple no thank you is in order especially if you are not in control of the one making contact. It is one thing to withhold from one you own ? it is altogether another thing bordering the rude to simply ignore sincere attempts ?  

In my time in this lifestyle I have seen it morph many times and in many ways.  In recent years I have witnessed a tragedy in the lifestyle ? That being the huge increase in the ?pro-domme? community. 

While I have no problem with anyone earning an honest living as I do, I do get miffed at those who claim themselves as a pro-domme.  In the pre-internet days a pro-domme was exactly what she advertised herself as ? a prostitute.  PLEASE do not give me all that crap about not selling sex ? you are selling sexual relieve for those who come to you. 

The M/s relationship is, or should be, one of true devotion between both partners.  Love ? maybe ? sometimes love doesn?t matter so much as loyalty and devotion does it?  One serves the other accepts this service as a unforced, desired attempt to please their partner ? when commerce becomes involved there cannot be that closeness.   It becomes a business transaction so please ? all you pro-dommes ? feel free to advertise yourself as a domme but cut the crap about expecting the sub/slave to be worthy of you ? to be devoted to you ? in no other terms you are prostitutes.  That is fine ? accept it! 

My next rave will be on the seeming confusion in the bi-sexual-switch?s head ? Oh and please do not write me back trying to put me in my place.  I am probably 100 times more Dom than 99.99999% of you pro domes. 

Have a great day everyone ?

I have been on this site for a couple of days now and I am beginning to wonder if there is ANYONE ? just one LADY on here who is not looking for a piggy bank, who is HWP and fairly attractive and who is not drunk before noon!

There has to be a LADY here someplace who lives a normal, vanilla life.  Where both leave each morning for normal jobs ? have friends out of the lifestyle and doesn?t feel they have to wear leather every day to show their dominance ? A LADY who holds a job and who is financially independent.  No, I do not mind pulling my share or more of the financial burden but come on ? Domme does not mean that you sit home all day eating Bon Bon?s waiting for your submissive to come home and clean the house and then beat him just because!

I am pretty sure that this life can be lived 24/7 in a normal, vanilla looking life without losing sight of each other?s roles.  Can?t it???