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Aha, it has been many moons since my last entry. Everything has shifted. Moved and readjusted. Some of the dust has settled. I have become much more comfortable with ALL aspects of my life, my natures, my desires....the edge no longer frightens me, it beckons me. |
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A prison do four walls alone not make... |
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~Jim Morrison
"People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that's bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they're afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they're wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It's all in how you carry it. That's what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you're letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain.” |
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Submission for me can bring me to my knees or floating among the clouds in an instant. It the safe place in this world that I seek, that I crave. Kink aside, I want to know that it pleases us both to be apart of the type of dynamic that we share. I do not wish to be approached by people who do not really realize the depth and commitment for both parties involved. Given much thought...I doubt that identifing as a slave works for me. Snarky, headstrong, playful and mischevious submission...yea, thats probably me!!! Ahhh, this is such a wonderful place to be..... |
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A little insight:
"Me, not so long in the lifestyle. Decided to start exploring this year, after meeting someone on a vanilla dating site who was a self proclaimed domme...I felt a lot of inclinations towards a lot of what I had read about it and what she had told me. After determining that while this woman may identify as a domme, I didn't view her as the domme for me. I decided to do a bit more exploring. I had always been kinky and sexually exploratory but the D/s part really resonated with me. I find myself really taking my sweet time with this. Partly because of my self preserving nature and partly because, well, maybe...I want to really enjoy my days of "newbieness".
I do have a girlfriend that I live with. She can be pretty dominant, in the bedroom. She is much more of a sadist though. We do not have a 24/7 D/s relationship. Whether they are with or without her, she is very supportive of my explorations and curiousities. We do have a very open and honest relationship, as I wouldn't have it any other way. I have never felt so free in a relationship. That is partly the reason for my just seeking friends. Poly is a path I have never walked along and I am a bit apprehensive about it. However we are poly in theory, just not in practice YET!! She has been helping me to ease into bdsm stuff with her, being very gentle and patient with me. I have found that this lifestyle can be very "stripping" and there are a lot of layers for me to "strip" or have "stripped"...lol."
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With courage you will dare to take risks,
have the strength to be compassionate,
and the wisdom to be humble.
Courage is the foundation of integrity.
- Keshavan Nair |
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If you feel the urge to dominate me via capitilization, please... DON'T. |
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Nine times out of ten, the only reward for doing the right thing is knowing you did the right thing. Nine times out of ten, that's enough. |
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"I want to give myself away, to lose myself" Anais Nin |
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"Anti-intellectualism has been a constant thread winding its way through our political and cultural life, nurtured by the false notion that democracy means that 'my ignorance is just as good as your knowledge.'" — Isaac Asimov |
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Does anyone else acquire extraordinary karate skills when walking into a spider web or when you drop your phone? |
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"If you can wake up each and everyday and be emotionally open and honest regardless of what you get back from the world then you can be the hero of your own story." |
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Healthy instincts of self preservation do not denote a desire to switch...just sayin. |
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"Service doesn't start when you have something to give -- it blossoms naturally when you have nothing left to take." |
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The journey of patience is rooted in knowing that our current reality inevitably gives way to change. But change won’t always happen when we think it should, and patience with ourselves comes from accepting that there are things we can control and things we can’t. And though we must make diligent efforts to keep pushing the boundaries of our awareness and to deepen our ability to rest comfortably in the present moment, how fast we develop isn’t up to us. Patience, then, is a kind withholding of judgment and of conclusion, a valiant invitation for our evolution to unfold just as it needs to.
Viral Mehta |
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"If it has teeth, sooner or later it will bite" |
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everything is the same, yet everything is different. |
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i have got to post this!!! thank You to my collarme friend....hehe
I'll see your Rant and I'll raise you a SCREED. I'm looking for a Domme to use me while my boyfriend watches. I've never been with a woman but he says I'm bi because he knows that it'll be hot to watch another woman use me. He also wants you to use a strap on on him. There is something incredibly repellant about: I'm Domme but only when my boyfriend/husband lets me I'm a Lesbian except for my husband I'm looking for a Domme - but does your husband get to play with me too? Your rant made me smaile. |
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okay, Ladies. Here is my rant for today....
If you are advertising yourself as lesbian but you have a boyfriend....you are NOT a lesbian. You ARE bi-sexual!!!( or pansexual or homoflexible or whatever label you decide but if you are having sexual relations with a man who may or may not have a penis attached to his body....still NOT a LESBIAN!!!)
If you have a boyfriend and you ONLY submit to him...you are still submitting. You are NOT a Domme. You ARE a Switch.
I am not a huge fan of "labels". However, I am a HUGE fan of honesty!!!
I do not understand why I continue to meet women on a site for a lifestyle that emphasizes the importance of honesty and trust that are not truly honest or trustworthy. Falsely advertising yourself just seems to be the same as a lie to me. And it doesn't seem to be a good base to create an honest trusting "relationship" from. Unless, of course, that is part of your fantasy and you do not truly desire a relationship. Isn't there a different site for that? hmmmm, Oh well, what do I know...I am just a lowly submissive. |
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“The shortest and surest way to live with honor in the world is to be in reality what we would appear to be; all human virtues increase and strengthen themselves by the practice and experience of them.” |
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Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds. |
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I promise you, no one judges me more harshly than i do myself; I caused a brilliant wreckage. Some say I fell from grace; they are being kind. I did not fall- I dove. |
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Sometimes we have to ask ourselves if the risks are worth the rewards... |
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Courage does not always roar, sometimes its the little voice at the end of the day that says," I'll try again tomorrow." |
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